Im a 21 yr old male college student. How long do until girls consider a guy their boyfriend? Ive only known her for about 10 days but weve been on about five dates and also have made out and have kissed goodnight several times. We both like each other and have snuggled and watched tv as well. We enjoy being around each other. I want to ask her to be in an exclusive relationship with me. Is this too soon and how should I ask her?
2007-10-17 06:13:25 · 10 answers · asked by Paul G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take ur time 10 days are not enough to know her or to make her know u well so be patient but not for long time as not to make her feel any thing except u love her and through that get closer to her
2007-10-17 06:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by sonic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like things are going swimmingly, but it has only been 10 days. You should wait it out a bit longer. If you're this antsy, even a week could help.
Also, instead of trying to read her mind or thinking that there's some sort of timeline that all of us females go by to determine when a relationship officially starts, you should just ask her if she'd be cool with it. Tell her what you want and see if she goes for it. If not, then you can just continue on with what you have going. And if that's not okay with you to not be exclusive with her, then at least you found out how this relationship was going to turn out early on.
2007-10-17 13:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by melancholycoffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably already told all of her friends that you are her boyfriend. We girls talk a lot. You're pretty much already in an exclusive relationship, but just to make sure, buy her a ring. Nothing too fancy but definitely not cheap.
When you give it to her, instead of proposing, ask her to be your girlfriend.(period)
That way it will be well known for you AND her that your not only dating, but in a relationship.
2007-10-17 13:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by yaevin l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally the 5th to 7th date shows she is into you and wants to be your girlfriend. Take her out to a nice place,take a walk after meal or drink;then talk about how you have always wanted to be exclusive and keep the conversation going. you can then ask her and she will most probably say yes. Goodluck.
2007-10-17 13:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by md7vem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say the longer you know each other the better the relationship will be.
but consider this.
you can stay this way untill your sertain she realy likes you.
cause when people are going out.
relationships somethings go (N)
but if you know you both REALY like each other.
Go for it.
Theres no reason she would say no realy..
Good luck (Y)
2007-10-17 13:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by dark.aaron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eleven (11) days! Hang on!!
2007-10-17 13:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it about another week then tell her that u love evrything about her nd evry min. u spend with her an if she feels the same
2007-10-17 13:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you have done all of that then she might say yes to be in a reltionship with you.
2007-10-17 13:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by lovemypets4internity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn!! is that how it works???
Sh!t i just said to the chick hey wanna go out? she said yea and we went on from there..madde it home..so im good..
Master\**^**/Joker
2007-10-17 13:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Master Joker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't ask then it'll probably never get done. if she says no, tho, you must keep cool k?
2007-10-17 13:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by ..((~babarskiz~)).. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋