Singles & Dating - 10 October 2007

ok see i have been talking to this guy for like 2 yrs now and well we dated for like 4 months and then he dumped me for his ex. well see the thing is that its a long distance relationship b/c I live in NC and he lives in Wisconsin. So it is kinda complicated trying to see each other. So he started going back out with his ex and just a month ago she cheated on him with this other guy and so he left her and is now coming back my way. the thing is that i don't want to get to close again and get hurt. I have told him this and he assures me that it want happen again. But I dont' know I mean with her he did see her every day and with me he isn't seeing me b/c we live so far out. But he wants us to get back together but i don't know. I mean do u think we should or not? I really like him but I just don't know about us getting back together just yet. I want us to be friends but he doesn't. any ideas?

2007-10-10 04:59:49 · 25 answers · asked by bluedevilsgirl07 2

Not sevearly drunk, just a little more than tipsy.

2007-10-10 04:59:02 · 6 answers · asked by all.smiles20 1

Im 18 and 6foot tall. when im in shoes in 6ft 1". but i feel short.

am i?

2007-10-10 04:58:53 · 53 answers · asked by Answerer 1

In other words, what is YOUR perfect partner on a date? Listening well, exciting situation, great conversations? What are things that you love? and makes you want to have a second date?

2007-10-10 04:58:29 · 4 answers · asked by Susan F 4

jot in the blanks what do you think?

2007-10-10 04:50:49 · 22 answers · asked by Sara007 5

2007-10-10 04:48:26 · 21 answers · asked by The cool dude 1

I'm a freshman at college. I moved in with this girl I was friends with. She couldn't live on campus because she kept getting sick from the food. She moved out. i helped her move. Then I helped this Jehova wittness girl move in. She was crazy!! I wasn't allowed to curse, lisiten to rap music, have people over etc. I moved out. Moved into a sports dorm (girl's roommate was coming back 2nd semester) Girl's roommmate came back a week later I had to move to yet another dorm. I have my own room now ONLY for this semester! Now I have food poision from the food. I don't eat much because the food is HORRIBLE!!

Was supposed to room with a friend but she wants to stay were she is next semester. 3 of my GOOD friend's are transfering next semester.

Grades in high school were not so good. GPA 2.9 sat's HORRIBLE about a 900 out of 1600! Can't really go anywhere else aside from community college for a semester.

What would you do??!!!
Stay 1 more semester or transfer for 1 semester??

2007-10-10 04:46:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right, i asked this girl i'd liked for nearly a year out in mid august, and she txted back "tbh i don't know what can be said, your a gd friend but your not really my type, im sorry." then about a week later she was telling her + my friends that she'd turned me down, and when i heard i was kinda annoyed, i didnt say anything to her or see her the next few days though. then i got a txt off her saying how sorry she was and that she hoped i didnt hate her, and that she hopes i can forgive her ... i told her i forgave her about it all. however yesterday she came to church, missing something else she was going to, and she came with her hair down, which id told her she looks fab with it down even though she doesnt like it that much, and i would swear she looked at me during the singing. later on she also came to a church club l8r, still with her hair down, even though she had to put it up for duty (i think?), and our eyes caught each other more than once. i want to know if im being paranoid?

2007-10-10 04:39:29 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

my guy friends but most laugh at me or make jokes b/c they might know about me personally* but i wanna know if any one i dont know says the same thing

2007-10-10 04:38:50 · 27 answers · asked by donnetta b 2

she blames me for her temperand her getting mad she yelled so much she hurt her eye any doctors got any advise shes been to doctors but they done nothing

2007-10-10 04:34:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok me and this boy, where friends but i like him and i think he likes me. he walks me hone and we hold hands and we hug but we hug for like half a hour and we just talk but when i asked him if we are still friends or more he just friends. i dont get i it are we just friends or not ?
he hugs me tighter when am cold, he puts hes head on my head or shoulder when we hug

2007-10-10 04:33:50 · 12 answers · asked by bubbles 1

The guy i'm seeing has his son every weekend and my weekends are free. I have my daughter during the week, so we are never able to go out together and do things. We have only been together for 4 months and we live 1 hr away from each other. I only get to see him on wednesdays when he stays over. I feel like this relationship will never become anything more than a once a week affair. I truely have feelings for him and don't want to end it, but i feel like i'm getting cheated out of having fun and wine and dined. What should I do? Break it off and find someone else? or just settle? I'm not getting what I need or deserve.

2007-10-10 04:31:31 · 31 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2

2007-10-10 04:31:21 · 9 answers · asked by ravicoolfunda 1

It's been 5 mos since my ex (we were together for 2.5 yrs) broke up with me. We still talk, but he contacts me mostly. His birthday is coming up and he's invited me. Part of me wants to go, but part of me doesn't. I want to go because I hadn't seen him in a while. I don't want to go because what if he posted an invite on MySpace and a lot the girls that are on his friends list likes him and I don't want to be there if those GIRLS are there (it took a lot out of me to refer to them as girls). I don't want to ruin his party by showing up or getting angry because those GIRLS are there.

I still love him very much, but I don't want to be there if those girls are there. I admit that I just can't stand to see him with someone else other than me. His bf has called to beg me into coming because he claims my ex wants me to come and he wants to see me. For some reason, I'm not buying it. I really dont know if I want to go or not. Any advice?

2007-10-10 04:27:56 · 26 answers · asked by Kimbre 2

There's this guy who i like and we've been talking for about a week and a half now. He likes me i like him blah blah. He said that he wants to see what can happen with us but it's been really steady. I get really shy when i'm around him so that doesnt help. Should i just ask him out and get it over with or just wait it out>?

2007-10-10 04:25:21 · 10 answers · asked by me 1

i was having lunch on my own in campus, sitting in the grass then this stupid be was all over me n wouldn't leave me alone. i moved to a another shading spot when i see one of my class mates, he says" Hey your from my class uh?'' i say "yup" we got on talking, then i say that i going to the library, ever since he's talking to me a lot after that, in class, he asked my cell number, i was kind to give it to him n my myspace. he talks a lot to me even when i said that i have a bf already. if u people think that is a regular talk, i don't think so, is kinda flirting, should i tell him to back off or let my bf know this guy is trying to hit on me?

2007-10-10 04:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by Hippie lily 2

He quit his job of 2 years without giving notice and is coasting on his last paycheck with no back up funds. He is almost 40 years old, should I stick it out and see if he straightens his life up? We just started dating 2 months ago, I don't know what to think... He talks a good talk and seems like he has lots of potential...

2007-10-10 04:21:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were friends. He expressed interest in the past.

But I don't know if it's romantic. Or just friendly.

2007-10-10 04:16:54 · 9 answers · asked by all.smiles20 1

IM sure guys will agree, that , some womans performance need to be addresed. But it has fallen to the way side, becuase it all about how the guy performs. Some things women dont realise is if they perform a little better in bed it will make sex greater for both the man and women.

like, dont be a dead lay, move , do somthing even when we are on top hold us tight grab our ***, ect
dont be so quiet, " I know that somtimes you have nothing to be loud about, but at least get a little louder when we hit the right spot, that way we will know, dont be so quiet speak up tell us things, were not mind readers, TELL US WHAT YOU LIKE.
and take controle, It drives guy wild when you want sex so bad you just kind of take what you. It is so sexy,
and for god sakes dont be afraid to talk dirty,
and read on some ways to give a better b/j

2007-10-10 04:14:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so Im really into this girl for ages then this girls closest friend tells me shes into me aswell, so I asked her out and now she is "thinking about it" what does this mean exactly and do you think she will say yes?

2007-10-10 03:53:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anony-mouse 3

We broke up and now we are just friends but now he is going out with a girl and he told me that he wasn't going to go out with anyone. I don't know if i can handle seeing them together.

What do i do ?

2007-10-10 03:40:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... So I've had one loooong 5+ year relationship, a few flings, and went on pitiful boring dates. I broke up with my EX cuz I lost all feeling for her... It was sad for both of us :(

I am currently seeing a new girl and have been with her for nearly a month. This is only my 2nd relationship and I'm 23. She is the same age and has NEVER HAD A RELATIONSHIP! She could even be a virgin... Her father passed away when she was 7, and she has 4 male roommates (one is gay).

We both clearly like each other... Any tips or insight so I don't screw this one up?

2007-10-10 03:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was really good mates with a guy and I then developed feelings for, he knew about this, and we still continued to be mates anyway, when i was really drunk on a night out I went and said that i thought that i loved him, and he said that he didnt understang why because I can do better than him, i understand that what i have done is really stupid and i dont even love him and i dont even know why i said it, but do you think that the friendship is likely to be ruined after what I said? what advice can anyone give so that i can sort this out with him? I really dont want to lose him as a mate. now he is ignoring my texts! xxx

2007-10-10 03:33:32 · 41 answers · asked by *kirsty* 2

2007-10-10 03:31:48 · 2 answers · asked by Minnie 1

2007-10-10 03:15:20 · 16 answers · asked by Minnie 1

2007-10-10 03:14:36 · 2 answers · asked by kilgore87 1

so i fell really hard for this one guy i started dating because he was the sweetest person ever..he took me on several dates, we texted constantly, we called each other, have so many things in common, he cooked me my favorite food, we saw movie together and holded hands..then he drops me off and we kiss finally..it was so adorable..but just that..than the next day he calls me to tell me that he wants to stay in contact just that he doesnt want to be in a relationship because he has never had a single life...he had a 3yr relationship and a 2yr relationship so he wants to take it slow..BUT I REALLY LIKE HIM AND DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM..wat do i do? how do i act? to not lose him and i dont know if he should know that i like him? did he leave me because i kissed him?! im so confused..and it seems that he doesnt even know how much i liked him

2007-10-10 03:11:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-10 03:10:36 · 7 answers · asked by praveen . 1

Here's the story:

I feel in love with someone in a relationship already. We had whatever we had for 6 months. Then that person broke it off with her ex we got together and I messed up 3 months later and we became just friends, she got back with her ex.

Then a little later we started up again while she was in a relationship. I said two days ago I don't believe in love, now she doubts everything we shared. Instatly fell out of love with me (she says it was fading slowly, but that halted it) and doubts she wants to be my friend.

Oh, and she made it very clear "we" will never be again. Even if she's single, I got my stuff together, it will never be. How do I get over that. We made plans, I proposed, she said yeah. How do I let that go? How do I just be her friend?

2007-10-10 03:05:11 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan R 2

Let me set the stage...We're both divorced his ex is also older than him, so he does like older women...I have a daughter that's 32...however we are so drawn to each other he's the kindest, most romantic, sexiest, hardworking man I'm sure I've ever met...I love being with him we have so much fun, because I do look younger no one gives us odd looks.
I just wonder does age matter? Any advice?

2007-10-10 02:58:13 · 29 answers · asked by ? 3