ok me and this boy, where friends but i like him and i think he likes me. he walks me hone and we hold hands and we hug but we hug for like half a hour and we just talk but when i asked him if we are still friends or more he just friends. i dont get i it are we just friends or not ?
he hugs me tighter when am cold, he puts hes head on my head or shoulder when we hug
2007-10-10 04:33:50 · 12 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say the signs are pretty much right in front of your face. From what you just explained, I definitely think he likes you. But if he said that you guys were just friends, he may be playing the hard to get role. Why don't you just act like strictly friends for a while (don't hug or talk about being more than friends) and see how he acts. If he starts acting a little weird or he tries to get closer to you because he sees that you're not really worried about it, then he definitely likes you. Have fun with this one!
2007-10-10 04:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Nic Nac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me you guys are more then friends. i mean friends don't hug friends for long periods of time and don't hold hands. it looks like you're a couple but he's shy about asking you out.
2007-10-10 11:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by deb2rule 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer me this, would a female "friend" treat you the same way?
If not, then ok, both of you seem like you might be afraid of rejection, IN CASE your perception is wrong. Big deal!
One of you will have to step up and DO something about it to confirm your own curiousity. :)
Good luck!
2007-10-10 11:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by MMK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(had the same issue b4)so experienced both sides....ne way(oh yea mi nickname is bubblez 2,lol) sounds like he is intrested, but is confused about sum thoughts so he might b playin it cool till he gets his head 2gether. let it play out, time is key. after a while if these little like/love gestures continue then just ask again, if the answers the same, your friend is just a flirt.
2007-10-10 11:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by donnetta b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds kid of like me and one of my friends. we can hold hands and hug for long times but are just friends cause we don't want to ever ruin our friendship.
sounds like he probably does like you. but either wants you to make a move, or take it slow or just wants the feeling of a relationship.
or maybe he's just like a best male friend.
2007-10-10 11:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just calling him your boyfriend to someone else and see how he responds. And a kiss amidst one of those hugs would settle a lot.
2007-10-10 11:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are friends and just enjoying one another company. I bet you two are single? You two just want the feeling of being a couple. That's how I feel!!
2007-10-10 11:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by evelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are friends that have a bond ,sounds like the both of you are compatiple...talk about it and ask him what he thinks of you instead of guessing and you can tell him how you feel as well .
2007-10-10 11:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by beegee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like there are some feelings there but you both are scared to say anything first......i would just tell him that you have feelings for him but u understand if he doesnt feel the saem ...but think about it before you do it cuz it could ruin your friendship
2007-10-10 11:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by lostgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he is your boyfriend. Maybe he just wants to take it slow.
2007-10-10 11:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by tina2u275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋