Singles & Dating - 10 October 2007

2007-10-10 08:35:22 · 17 answers · asked by jim m 1

one would like to be friends with ...someone we like to know ?

2007-10-10 08:34:01 · 1 answers · asked by E.B. Jacques 5

I think of him in moments of loniless, and loss. The what ifs plague me, and it's been nearly 10 years! I'm curious to know what other people have done.

2007-10-10 08:32:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He cheated once and seems very sorry for it, he hasn't acted like the controlling asshole he used to be. He seems to have changed and seems like a sweetheart now. I'm scared that he'll do it again. We've been going out for a year with that 3 month cheating break and we've been back together for the past 4 months, I feel like I could forgive him eventually, but I'm scared and I feel bad when I rub it in his face. He says he did it because he was scared of feeling deeply about anyone (he was in a 2 and a half year relaitonship with a girl who left him for someone else) (Thats what he did to me). I kind of believe him but I'm not sure. What do you think? Should I forgive him? Do you think he'll cheat again? Do you think I'm making a mistake? Or should I give him one last final fair chance?

2007-10-10 08:31:41 · 34 answers · asked by Vexi_Lexi 4

So there's this guy that I am totally into. I really like him and we've been hanging out lots lately. We are both in our 20's. Whenever we get together he gets super close to me and snuggles me, and he's never tried anything sexually with me (except kiss me). Last time we hung out, he said he loved hanging out with me so much and if I wanted to hang out the next day. So the next day I texted him and asked him if he wanted to hang out still but he said he'd love to but he's really tired from 3 games of football that day, and he was leaving in the morning for a tournament. He said he didn't realize how tired he'd be. It is a 30 min. drive.
This was on Saturday. It is now Wednesday and we have texted and chatted on MSN but he hasn't asked me to hang out again. Should I just let this ride and wait for him to ask me, or is the ball in my court? If you were in my situation what would you do? Or if you're a guy what would you expect the girl to do? Thanks in advance!!! :) I really like him.

2007-10-10 08:31:35 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle M 1

There's this girl that my boyfriend claims he doesn't like. He's always trying to annoy or embarrass her by making rude comments to her in front of other people. She either ignores him or seems oblivious to his intentions, she isn't the brightest crayon in the box. He's constantly looking at her too when she's around. He keeps making negative comments about her to me but since he's paying so much attention to her, doesn't that mean that he's attracted to her on some level? She is kind of pretty.

2007-10-10 08:28:19 · 30 answers · asked by monkey 3

I told the guy i like him and he told me he doesnt like me in that way.

I have accepted it but i dont understand why he wants to go somewhere just the 2 of us.

Hes told me not to think anything of it.

But he still seems to want to talk to me on the phone and every day on msn.

Is he just trying to be close mates with me or whats he doing?

Thank you for any advise.

2007-10-10 08:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My new lovers b day is coming up in about 2 weeks. He asked me to be with him on his b day, what can i do to make that night special and one to remember? We have only been seeing eachother for about a month now, but we have known eachother for years... Help me please!!!!

2007-10-10 08:23:50 · 4 answers · asked by Chocolate_Kissez 1

A guy I was dating for 2 months broke up with me because "he wasn't feeling it" for a long-term relationship. However, he won't stop calling and texting me, but makes no arrangements for us to hang out. What's going on? How should I handle?

2007-10-10 08:22:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you guys think? There is a stereotype that they're cheap and easy and i was wondering what you thought.

2007-10-10 08:17:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends bf is acting very odd she called him 2 days ago and he was acting weird. He said "obviously you don't love me anymore if I can't turn you on". What are other signs? Is he cheating?

2007-10-10 08:13:15 · 12 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

.....a girl could do to make you hers instantly?

*Beauty
*Same interest
*Ability to sing...etc

2007-10-10 08:10:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

bear in mind we have been dealing a long time

2007-10-10 08:00:54 · 9 answers · asked by sexy_lily2709@yahoo.com 2

2007-10-10 08:00:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am bisexual I like to have sex with women....but....Me and my boyfriend ahve never had a threesome...we are looking for women but we have had no luck...what is the best way to go about it? We just want to find a woman to participate with someone that could possibly be a friend first and for me to hang out with at the mall go do girly stuff with? What is the best way? And if you have had experience with this before what did you do?

2007-10-10 07:59:50 · 4 answers · asked by s_riley1987 2

Ok this is going to sound a little confusing, Ive been friends with a guy that ive been in love with for two years. Through this time we've had hard times, good times, but always ended up talking again in the end. We would go out play pool with his friends, go to eat, and just drive around and hang out. At the beginning he would say how only only really cares about 2 girls and it was me and his exgirlfriend. And one night finally after about the first 6 months he told me he wanted to make love to me. So we met up that night and talked for about two hours and then we just started kissing and all that good stuff then it happend in his back seat.. He acted completely normal after we did. So we were at a park and started walking around and he started talking about how he still loves his ex gf. I was in shock. But then after this he preceeds to kiss me and tell me he cares about me so much. Y til this day does he say I want you, i miss u baby, and i need u?He hasnt brought up his...

2007-10-10 07:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Ritaaa 1

before me and my bf were going out, he had a gf, and i had a huge crush on his best friend. now however, i am going out with my bf... but i keep dreaming about his best friend. last night i had a dream that i cheated on my bf with him... in real life this would NEVER happen. i am completely in love with my bf, but i am really attracted to his bf, we chill together somtimes, and he is really nice to me. this only makes things worse! i don't know what to do about this, and i have had several dreams about his best friend... and i feel so bad about it.

2007-10-10 07:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a relationsip why is it that when a woman holds out on sex the guy isnt interested in the woman anymore? Are ALL men like this or just most men? I have been dating this guy for almost two months now I like him and he likes me, but I have told him Im not ready for sex. For men sex is just physical, but for a woman its physical and its emotional. Once a woman has sex with a guy she is in some way emotionally attached to him. WHY dont men understand that? Im not ready to be emotionally attached like that. Sex is so private and intimate so its not just physical for women. Is it POSSIBLE to date a guy and NOT have sex for the first several months? Or not? I would love to hear some men's opinions!

2007-10-10 07:55:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend Harriet* Jane* and me went round this guys house to sleep over&have a few drinks. I ended up not staying the night but Harriet&Jane did, Harriet had sex with Stuart* that night. The week after that night I went round his house on my own and we ended up makin out but nuthin else, then we started seeing each other quite often, when I told Jane that I made out with him she told me she liked him but she said she didnt nemore. So I carried on seein him and Harriet new i was aswell but she didnt mind cuz it was a drunken one night stand for her. Anyway, i wanted to date Stuart but he had a girlfriend the whole time which i knew about from the start but it didn't bother me. Then after a month we just stopped seeing each other, dunno why. I really miss him and i tried to arrange to meet up a week ago but he had a driving lesson. So i thought **** it i'll just ring him so i rang him tonite and asked if i cud meet him after work on sat. He sed yes but i dont know if he really wants to?

2007-10-10 07:55:25 · 10 answers · asked by Kay 2

We have been dating for only 2 months, my job is relocating to the city where he lives. I have been looking for an apartment but he asked me to move in with him. We like each other alot but we are NOT in love. He says that he thinks our relationship has a very good chance and that if I rent an apartment then I will be stuck with a year lease. I love spending time with him and I agree that we may have future, I am just concerned that we are moving way to fast. He says that he cares a lot about me but it will take time for him to care deeply (love me) and I don't know how I really feel about him. We are both divorced and in our 40's. He still has kids that he has joint custody of, my kids are grown up and I don't have that responsibility anymore. Should I move in with him and see where things go or should I just get my own place. Financially living together would be better for both, but we both make it on our own ok too.

2007-10-10 07:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by dj83164 1

That is a minority of guys i know most of them are not that way.

2007-10-10 07:51:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just looking for advice and raw honesty. We have been together for about 5 months. She says she loves me is possibly that she really does at this age. Can a 19 year old girl really know what they want? She is very mature for her age and she actually has moved in with me. She is not materialistic form what I can tell. She is absolutely gorgeous and just one of those girls that any one could fall in love with. I'm good looking for my age but not 19 anymore. She will be 20 next month. i get along with her so well. She is very complicated and interesting. i actually need help figuring her out it seems impossible most of the time to be honest. I need help with this one. I could right a book about this girl, very unique in her sexuality to the way she is overall. Never meant any1 like her before and have been with my share of girls

2007-10-10 07:51:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

sorry iasked tihs before and iwantto put more detail in it..

ok im 14 and at my school thers a guy who is really really hot, but he dosnt want a gf :|
hes quite shy, but i talk to him quite alot because i sit next to him in some of my classes..
im really annoyed because i take ages makin mysef look niceand he dosnt even look at me a lot soi dont think he fancies me, im not being big headed, but alot of guys fancy me only im really picky..
... ?

2007-10-10 07:48:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-10 07:39:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known my bf for 1.5years. After eight month I started to feel we are not made for each others.l He has all the qualities I want in a guy but at most of times I don't feel connected to him at all ad ask myself why am i with him. After 1 year in the relationship when things were thrifing anyway. I got to know this guy and we became friends. He just got out of bad relationship of 3 years and his gf left him. With time we came close and felt connected but he was afraid to have a relationship and kept changing his mind and in process I was hurt now he is back and want to be in serious relationship. I about to marry my ex bf even through no date fixed but we talking about it this year. I don't know what to do? I have known other guy for about 7 or 8 months but we never met in person. No he is not some crazy guy out there before you say that.

2007-10-10 07:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok me and my bf are aruging currenlty are and i cant take it no more . . . i love im with all my h eart but this is getting out of controll we have enough problems as it is what should i do? but i dont want to leave him but everytime we argue we make up againa but we go back down. ..

2007-10-10 07:38:35 · 20 answers · asked by i love him 2

My bf is quitting smoking, and the last two weeks he's been kind of grumpy. He's not been calling me first and never really ever txt's me. I don't do it overly much to him but I'm tired of feeling like I always have to initiate. When I brought it up last night (after he txt saying that he'd call me after dinner, and it had been 4 hours since he had dinner when I called and he didn't call) he said he just hates phones, hates them with a passion. The thing is we have a long distance relationship, and a phone is important. So basically what I'm wondering is if a guy says I HATE PHONES (I know it means probably exactly that) but if he says he loves you and that you're the one for him, shouldn't he put his hatred for phones aside and make an initiative to CALL his gf???

2007-10-10 07:37:19 · 29 answers · asked by Cynthia 604 2

Ok... I used to have a crush on this cute guy and I'd think we would make a cute couple but like this was in middle school and i used to write him letters asking him out and stuff and he didn't like me... well now I feel and EVERYONE tells me i look better and he does too and I won homecoming last year and they think im pretty but now we go to seprate schools and I want him to notice me and i want us to date but I don't wanna go up to him and ask b.c. im jus not that girl...ya know? & i want him to hit on me as well... What do I do... I really like him agian!

2007-10-10 07:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

huh i dont understand, i get really annoyed by it, because nomatter how hard i try to look nice they wouldnt fancy me cos they dont want a gf?
im really confused lol ?

2007-10-10 07:32:23 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

.....a girl could do to make you hers instantly?

*Beauty
*Same interest
*Ability to sing...etc

2007-10-10 07:31:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous