ok me and my bf are aruging currenlty are and i cant take it no more . . . i love im with all my h eart but this is getting out of controll we have enough problems as it is what should i do? but i dont want to leave him but everytime we argue we make up againa but we go back down. ..
2007-10-10 07:38:35 · 20 answers · asked by i love him 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe u should just 1 day sit down and talk 2 him try 2 work things out ;) if u really love him u can make a few sacrifies and try 2 make the relatshonship work out ;) talk 2 him spend some quility time together maybe take a break and let thing coool down ;) and hopefully it'll all work out ;) peace! good luck! and bless ya! *hug* ;)
2007-10-10 07:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing is normal in a healthy relationship, but constant arguing is unhealthy and can make you very unhappy. Sure, you guys make up constantly, but there is a reason why you guys are ALWAYS arguing. It seems you two do not know how to communicate and start attacking each other verbally. There doesnt seem to be understanding and that is needed in a relationship. If there is no proper communication or respect, then maybe its best you guys go your separate ways. But before you do that, sit him down and tell him everything that is wrong with the relationship and what is bothering you. Then take it from there. If you guys start arguing from this very serious conversation, then you have a decision to make. Good luck sweety!
2007-10-10 07:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by J. Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal part of the relationship. I think sometimes I used to get caught between wanting to be right and caring about his feelings! As I've matured, I know now that you have to choose your battles. But when it gets to a certain point of the relationship, everything about the other person is going to get on your nerves!
I think you should hang in there with him if you're really concerned about not losing him. Take a break from each other. Step away from the situation and take a walk to calm yourself down. Give yourself a day where you don't talk to thim and don't think about him. Don't let the anger fester inside of you. Try talking to him the next day and see how you feel once you've calmed down.
2007-10-10 07:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i want u to knw one thing or try one thing instead of aurguing look for an alternative thts wht i always do eg u sent him to the chop to bring u milk and he forgot dnt wyne about it ask him do u think u can go back and fetch milk if no get to the car drive get the milk and be back it is a simple ride but u gotta knw everyone is human and everyone can make mistakes so just think of the alternative and more of the problem and let me tell u som it is better the devil u knw than the angel u dnt knw.dnt leave him believe u me the next one will hav a biger problem just.talk thts how u solve everything try not to be bosy and b4 u open ya mouth ask yaself if it was u in tht situation how wud u like to be treated.oky and thts helps apart from tht.u just be cool and knw tht walking away will never solve anything oky .those are minor issues and they are always in every relationship try talking and converisng and leting go and u wunt believe it oky
2007-10-10 07:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try and sit down together and talk about the problems. It may take you all night, but you need to find common ground. Remember give and take is the way forward. I assume your b/f loves you, so there is a starting point. It may be that an agreed length of time apart will help. It is difficult to try and help without knowing more details about your relationship, but i hope this helps in some way. Remember : talk. I wish you both good luck.
2007-10-10 07:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by reptilebloke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody that you argue with that much is not meant for you. Every guy you meet will have good and bad points and things you can agree on and things you disagree on. When you can't take the arguing any more, it is time to go find another bf whose differences and flaws are not that big a deal for you.
2007-10-10 07:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take a break from love. Just for a couple of weeks. If that doesn't work out just have a nice, long talk about each others feelings. Don't interrupt him and he shouldn't interrupt you while speaking. If nothing works see a counselor or split up.
2007-10-10 07:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by astrolame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. Be your self (do no longer attempt to be somebody you're no longer) 2. Be intense-high quality yet no longer too pushy...you have youre very own life and acquaintances too... 3. bypass to the action pictures in a set together with his acquaintances and yours... (it heavily isn't awkward given which you have risk-free practices with your individuals) 4. i comprehend this appears like a interest...(it extremely is whilst your 12) yet act like they do no longer rely...don't be mean...yet once you're interior the gang with your individuals do merely no longer supply him all your interest...adult males like the chase) 5. Be humorous 6. communicate approximately activities or some instructor you the two have.... 7. Goof around! all and sundry loves a dork! Fly your inner freak flag! i'm 21, I do it and it variety of feels to artwork!
2016-11-07 21:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear it sounds like you two should take a break and just explore life on your own. Then if you choose one another for the long haul at least you can say that you have shopped around !
2007-10-10 07:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps maybe you want to take a step back, and take a small break from each other. Not a break-up, per se, just a break, a breather. You'll be able to assess your relationship more clearly.
2007-10-10 07:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋