Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

okay i like this guy and i've never met him in person because he lives an hour away and doesnt go to my school also my parents wont let me talk to guys because they are really over protective. well alot of my friends know him so i know hes not some predator or somethin. anyway i talk to him all the time on the phone and aim..well i heard hes gonan ask me out tonight, and i liek him should i say yes, or shoulde i wait till like 3 years[[hes probly be gone]] but should i wait 3 years when im allowed to see a boy; that way i actually see him first before i date him [[i have seen billions of pics of him from my friends]] ansd they tell me all about him and stuff so hes not a stranger, but should i go out with him

2007-12-31 07:48:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Going through a break up of 7 years we shared everything, and I am leavig with nothing? What do I do. Can I take legal action?

2007-12-31 07:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by erinsamruiz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know why I just hate the holidays. I just dont get it why everyone thinks they got to party hard on new years. whats so great about a new years. its just like the same day as b4 just with a newer year. i call it "crappy new year" I dunno, I guess im just down and depressed because my life is boring and it sucks and have no one to hang out with. I think im gonna go cry now.

2007-12-31 07:46:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What would you do if you loved someone very deeply and were very good together, yet it apparently is not to be, yet they did not close the door completely, left it open just a little bit. Would you wait and hope,,,,or would you move on?

2007-12-31 07:46:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

new to area and not really interested in the bar scene anymore

2007-12-31 07:46:30 · 3 answers · asked by aurora546 1 in Singles & Dating

We only have sex twice a month if that. He blames it on our 1 year old child.Saying we never have time.Then he tells me I need to start dressing more sexier for him like I used to.He says he is not cheating, and was not aware he don't have a sex life.I'm always fighting with him about the lack of sex in our relationship. I think he's cheating. What do you think??

2007-12-31 07:45:28 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My 55 year old auntie just came upstairs with her boyfriend and went into the room next to me and had really loud sex that lasted like 4minites gross!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-31 07:44:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl who i actually kinda like asked me to go to this party tonight...i would love to!! but there are 2 problems

she lives about an hour away and i have to be back by 7 in the morning tomorrow to go snowmobliing and if i am drunk...there is no way i can get up that early...idk what to do

2007-12-31 07:42:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where have I gone wrong?

2007-12-31 07:41:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need help with my life it seems like my friends never seem to talk to me and they tease nowdays plz help

thxs

2007-12-31 07:41:04 · 1 answers · asked by Gifted/Dead 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a boy i like, he is one year older than me, so 15, and lives
down the road from me. We go to the same school, but obviously are not
in the same classes, i see him around sometimes at school, but we don't
really hang out. I see him mainly when we walk home from school
sometimes in the warmer weather, and we have a good hour or two to chat.
Other than that its hard to communicate with him, a bit like inside
west-side story! Because we are in different groups, he's more on the chavvy
side and if i were anything i would be kind of emo (but not quite!). I
often have his close friends coming up to me and asking me if I like him
'coz he likes me, and although i've told no one, it seems the whole
school knows my feelings. I think he knows how i feel, but he talks to me
etc. he seems quite shy around me, but is still funny and friendly. He
gives mixed signals a lot though. All I want to know is if it seems
like he likes me, and/or how i can make him like me more and eventually
should I ask him out or should I wait for him?

2007-12-31 07:38:32 · 6 answers · asked by Nagini 2 in Singles & Dating

seek in a man? Now i understand different strokes for different folks, but there must be a set of core attributes that women must have in their man.

How high does sense of humor rank? And what about being muscular because not every guy is a beefcake..

1000 pts for the best answer

2007-12-31 07:35:22 · 27 answers · asked by Nooka 5 in Singles & Dating

ok, only trying to understand something here. We have been married for 10 yrs and have 3 beautiful children. I'm a Soldier and she's an RN. I help a lot around the house. I cook, clean, dishes and laundry, you name it. She has never been much of a house keeper. Even when we were dating. She stacks and plies stuff, and never throws anything away. I was deployed for 16 months, and since my return, I have returned to my normal house hold duites, which I have no probblem doing. During the months of October thru 5th of December I was away from my family to attend school and my wife let the house go to hell. I am currently doing the last load of dirty laundry in the house. Yesterday, she left a pair of dirty pants and underwear at the foot of the bed and asked me if I was too lazy to take them into the laundry room, to which my reply was, no I'm not the lazy one who left them in the middle of the floor. So my question to you ladies is..Was I wrong to say that or is she wrong ?

2007-12-31 07:31:49 · 56 answers · asked by ssgdevon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How can you have a mass on the beach? Is it even possible???

2007-12-31 07:28:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

would you rather her stay home and care for the kids,clean,cook ect.......or go to work and have the kids in daycare?

2007-12-31 07:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've heard that during any leap year (which 2008 is), it is okay for the woman to propose to the man... I know it may be out dated, but can anyone provide any reference source about this "custom"?

2007-12-31 07:27:23 · 8 answers · asked by good guy 7 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend left me yesterday and I've been a complete wreck ever since. She left me because i am so much younget than her. She made everything in my life better and she is the only one ever to do so. She means the world to me...and then some. What can i do to get her back

2007-12-31 07:27:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and it seems that she has reached the cooling down phase of the relationship before I have. I'm still very much infactuated with her, I still enjoy talking to her as often as possible throughout the day, whether it be via phone or text. She has been spending more time with her friends and I'm ok with that. I guess my concern is that what causes someone to cool down. What causes them to not call as often or spend their free time with you as often? We haven't been fighting or arguing. There was no catalyst here other than time. We do love each other and when we're together it shows. Now that she has cooled down and things are still on fire with me, it makes me a bit paranoid and I find myself becoming afraid and wanting to sabatoge the relationship by ending it because I don't want to get hurt. I don't want to pressure her either. Anyone else have or had this problem?

2007-12-31 07:25:30 · 1 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Singles & Dating

wat do ya do to cheer urself up or watever when your lonely. not a like one-night lonely, but uve been lonely for months. It doesnt have to be from relationships, but like you've moved and you miss your old friends and u havent made new ones or watever you feel like writting about. share your thoughts :)

2007-12-31 07:25:20 · 4 answers · asked by The_Reporter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two months now, and he doesn't like to french kiss me. I do keep a clean mouth and have perfect teeth. What is his problem?.. Does anyone else have a boyfriend or girlfriend that they have been dating for sometime now, that doesn't want to french kiss?..

2007-12-31 07:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in my third year of college and I'm afraid I'll lose her if I don't "get her while I can".

2007-12-31 07:21:53 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend suggested we try them, since he thinks it will help me have an orgasm during sex. He's never used them before, and neither have I. If you have experience with them, please share! I heard they can be more stimulating for the guy as well. Is this true?

2007-12-31 07:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is busy all the time. I know he has a lot of work with his regular job and opening a restaurant. But he rarely answers my calls or calls me back lately. On the weekends he NEVER answers even though I know he doesn't work. Fri. and Sat. I called and left voicemails 3 times!! I still didn't hear from him until Monday. He has visitation with his son the weekends but am I being paranoid to think there is more going on? What do u think.

2007-12-31 07:20:12 · 28 answers · asked by princess_nubia 5 in Singles & Dating

Please leave your age and how many sexual partners you have had.

I'm 29 years old and I believe I've had sex with 11 people. But I may be forgetting some.

2007-12-31 07:19:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BoyFriends Dad Keeps Telling Me That He Likes Me as a person And That He wants to Have Sex With Me. BUT I told him That I dont Like Him in a sexuall way. yet he looks at me funny. hes allways triying to give me a back massage. tries to sit next to me. I have told him manny times that I am not intrested in him in a sexuall way at all. Hes stubborn. what would you tell him and why ?

2007-12-31 07:18:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi ,i have aproblem here its freking me out,right now am tired to death and this is what i want you to help me with,about 4 months ago i met a girl in our university and i somehow felt i liked her,i just made friend with her,and she told me that she has a boy friend but they are about to drift apart,she said their relationship is so dull and its to a dead end,after weeks i was invited to a party and she told me my brother is here and he is so sensetive so i should behave myself,and i said ok,weeks passed by and one day i took her mobile and saw the sms she sent to that boy,which in it i saw she wrote i love you,and these sorts of things,i had an argue with her and she said that she wants to drift apart but she cant right now,because this relationship is among their relatives and if she did so 2 families must stop being with each other,she said i should wait,but it is for sure and they are gonna drift apart, am in love with her....the hardest thing for me is to leave her,help me pls

2007-12-31 07:16:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend recently confessed to me that when she was a teenager, she had an incestuous relationship with her brother. I really care about her and I know that her telling me this was really difficult for her, and that she was trying to unload a lot of her pain on to me. But I can't help being disgusted by her now! Every time I see her I feel repulsed and ashamed. Can you help me get over this so I can keep on being friends with her?

2007-12-31 07:15:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-31 07:14:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance are paying for our wedding in April, my mother wants me to invite her friends that I do not know so she can socialize with them. We are on a tight budget and could not even invite all/ any of our friends. What should we do???

2007-12-31 07:13:52 · 19 answers · asked by Jade M 1 in Weddings

Raised my ex-wifes daughter from the time she was born till she was almost 3. Still see her once or twice a year. Sometimes she calls me by my name sometimes by Dad. Went to her graduation party 2 summers ago. Went to her wedding last summer. Those were the 2 times I met her husband. Shes stopping over tonight. I have two Christmas cards for her, one for daughter, and one for daughter and "son". Which should I give her? Don't know him to call him "son", but think it might be rude to exclude him. What to do?

2007-12-31 07:12:58 · 4 answers · asked by grasshopper 2 in Family