Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

Surley if I had only got one leg I should be able to buy one pant or Knicker. I feel this is a sensitive issue to one legged people's human rights. Tell me, do you agree?

2007-12-31 01:41:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do approach people when they ask..HOW DID YALL MEET?

I mean I know you can just say we met @ the store...but how did yall meet. It's embarrassin to say from the internet!

2007-12-31 01:37:43 · 31 answers · asked by twdy412 2 in Singles & Dating

I was casually dating a guy for a while. I wasn't the only one he was dating, which I was fully aware of. Last night I spoke to him and he told me that he had decided it was time to make a committment to be exclusive with one of the other women he was seeing. I always knew it wouldn't last. I just didn't realize I'd be so hurt when it finally did end. He was always honest with me. His only mistake was he didn't clue me in sooner that things might be getting serious with someone else. I don't hate him and I'm honestly not mad at him. But I do need my mourning time because this is a fresh wound.

What I don't get is why do friends automatically bash the ex and think I should be over the relationship in an instant? Friends I've told (now I'm wishing I hadn't told them) instantly say he's a jerk, or more colorful terms and say I'm better off without him in my life. Why don't they realize that I need my time to be sad before I can move on?

2007-12-31 01:36:56 · 4 answers · asked by Erin 7 in Singles & Dating

i am a man married to a beautiful lady but i don't feel like i satisfy her in anyway, i work and have my own buisness, when i come home i eat and fall asleep and she says i don't love her because i do come home and go to sleep, i don't go to bars , i don't hang out with friends, i come home to her where i feel comfortable and relaxed knowing she is close to me even if i am asleep but the i wake up at 2am every morning, i play on the computer, watch tv and drink coffee then leave for work at 7am,so my day starts at 2am but she feels i don't spend enough time with her.
open to suggestions, that might straighten this out before its too late!!!!!
thanks rick

2007-12-31 01:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by kathy m 2 in Singles & Dating

do people's true feelings for someone come out when they're drunk? for example, if a guy likes someone..will he show it when he's drunk? because i always had a hunch that this guy liked me..and when he was drunk, he was all over me..and wouldn't let any other guy touch me. do u think he really feels that way about me or is it just the alcohol??

2007-12-31 01:34:56 · 14 answers · asked by rawrr 1 in Singles & Dating

12 for me :S

im only 13-there not ment to stick :S

2007-12-31 01:33:15 · 4 answers · asked by mini mouse.........x 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 01:32:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What aspects of a wedding dress do you absolutely hate and will most likely never wear? Is it a sweetheart neckline? Do you hate dresses with taffeta, or maybe organza?

Me? I despise beading and sequence. It's too sparkly for me.

2007-12-31 01:30:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anouk 1 in Weddings

Ok so basically what it is is that my grandparents gave me and my bro a multipack Christmas cared each that I'm near certain we got a card from the same pack last year but they gave 2 of my cousins a 'To My Special Grandson/Granddaughter'. I'm not sure what they gave my other 4 cousins. Is it ok for me to be pi*sed off and should I say something next time I see them.

Don't say it's the thought that counts because I simply think that there was no thought in the cards we got.

2007-12-31 01:07:53 · 3 answers · asked by Ciara 6 in Family

okay, my friend wanted to ask another question. She had an affair with a married man. Now the married man and his wife have been married for 8 years. He has never cheated on her before and she knows, not only by what he has told her but how he acts around her and other clues, that I can't write here. But, she is wondering if he wanted her for more than sex, and if so, how can she find that out. Finally, most guys wouldn't want the lover and wife together but, he is always wanting to get together with her. If this is his first time, and he has never done this before, would you think that he has feelings for her????

2007-12-31 00:58:13 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cute guy I REALLLYYYYYY like invited me to his work for a concert, however I don't know his number, it would be akward alone, I didn't know when it started, when it ended. All he said was "you should come bye we're having a concert tonight". The next Monday he asked why I didn't come. I told him I didn't know where it was (true) and said tell me next time they have a concert.
Guys, how would you feel if that was you?

2007-12-31 00:58:12 · 18 answers · asked by arwww x p 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, in 50-ies a man supported a family, and the women cooked, washed, cleaned and do on. Fair is fair.
Now they do NOT want to support their families, they say that women and men are "equal" (men have periods and pregnancies, too), and women go out, work, and contribute heavily to the family budget.
Why, a man is not even supposed to place as roof over his wife and children heads, because he is "equal"!
So, when these women come home from work, they find a husband watching TV, drinking beer and shouting for a "family dinner"!
Don't the dear ge-ges have HANDS to cook it for themselves and all their family since they do not even work that long? I mean, they came home first, and wait for a wife to arrive from work and serve them a dinner, and it's called "equal"?

2007-12-31 00:56:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so i finally have to admit i'm obsessed with one of my ex. We dated for a summer back in 2002 and then i had to break it off because i went to college almost 8 hours away. But when we were together i never felt more happy; like she actually understood me

So i know it broke her heart, but it had to be done.

Over the following few years i would see her maybe once every few months and all those feelings would come rushing back. However, we never could get together like back before.

So then i move back home, well closer at least. I live in the City now and she is still out in the burbs. Im done with school now and working full time as is she(more or less). Now things like myspace have come out and i get to see her and she's gotten even more beautiful. Alas, she never responds back to me when i ask her out (she never says no either)

what can i do? I did date one of her quasi-friends a few years back, that prob pissed her off. But she never is mean or turns me down. Any ideas?

2007-12-31 00:54:27 · 14 answers · asked by Nooka 5 in Singles & Dating

That includes North London and right the way up to Scotland. Where did they learn there chit chat? It makes us cringe down here in the South East. Birds want a feller to look after them, they dont want another bird in the house. Give them the wedge and let them go out when they want to, Buy them a bit of gear and you've got them for life. All they want is to have a laugh and be with there mates.The women down here make the best wifes in the world. Don't you think so?And lets face it, we are the best looking blokes.

2007-12-31 00:49:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all, no JUDGEMENTS....My friend had an affair with her best friend's husband. She doesn't regret it but she says she wants to remain friends with his wife but, when they are together she is very nervous. The guy hasn't said anything about calling off the affair and she doesn't want to, any tips on how not to be nervous around the wife??

2007-12-31 00:49:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 00:46:02 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

Hello...I'm American and I am moving to Gurgaon in a few months. I only know one person really - my fiance (and his family but his mom works/busy). Anyway, I was hoping to find a lady to be friends with who can go shopping with me and things like that so that he doesn't have to go with me all over everywhere only himself. I know men - they don't like shopping and I have nothing there so I have to do lot when I come! ha ha I am studying Hindi. I can read and write and I understand fairly well so I want someone who knows at least a LITTLE English but I want to speak Hindi, too...as much as possible. I'm in classes so I should be decent by the time I get there. Anyway, problem is from here, I have no idea how to meet someone so I can already know them a little before I come. I tried pen-pal but either they don't reply or they are too far away. Any ideas? :) By the way, I'm 38 and a counselor and I am really friendly and easy going. :) I am ONLY interested in finding lady friends.

2007-12-31 00:44:00 · 8 answers · asked by Jazmin 2 in Friends

My wife and I are having marriage problems, we will be going to marriage councling next week. We do fight all the time, about very trival stuff. Most of the time I don't remember what is about untill she brings the confrontation back up. I do love my wife, but I've read the other day about how couples fight over things that they are not mad about, and not getting to the heart of the problem. She wants to advoid fighting for a week, which sounds like a good idea, so that we can become friends again. One of my many problems is that I don't give enough positive renforcement to my wife. If I try now I'm afraid that she wouldn't take me seriously. My question is how do I accomplish this without sounding like a fake. I don't want to fool my wife I want to sinsear with this.

2007-12-31 00:43:21 · 9 answers · asked by sec8_cm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He broke my heart and he left me like a peice of garbage.I am single right now and loving it .When i will meet my nextboyfriend i really want him to see me with him because it will bea slap in his face that i moved on and i don't need him

2007-12-31 00:42:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 00:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by Thunder 1 in Weddings

the more detailed, the better. thanks
happy new year and have a nice day

2007-12-31 00:38:16 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

My gf was working with someone on a music project, HE fell in love with her. I told her that he was manipulating her. She kept working with him, he confronted me for being her boyfriend, a position he feels he should have and I gave him a proper beat down. I told her all the while he wanted to break us up. Now she's regretful for ever having worked with him, how can I forgive her for continuing to work with this guy in the past to spite my my warnings?

2007-12-31 00:37:25 · 16 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 00:37:02 · 30 answers · asked by rokwad2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i are going out to dinner tonight and he is a recovering alcholic and he just told me he wanted to have a drink with dinner give me some feedback please, should a recovering alcholic even dring one drink, or it that just opening up a can of worms

2007-12-31 00:34:29 · 11 answers · asked by kathy m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

will u go and tell d truth or u would replace it by d same type of necklace or would u like to do something else ? if u wish to do something else den wat would u do ?

2007-12-31 00:33:46 · 7 answers · asked by goeldiksha 1 in Friends

2007-12-31 00:29:17 · 18 answers · asked by petemctaz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my aunt and i are not speaking. my daughter called the court house and they told her something like it is in probate. my health is failing and i could use this money while i am filing for my disability. i would appreciate any advice anyone could give me

2007-12-31 00:24:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-31 00:22:29 · 5 answers · asked by miss v8 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to contact my children they are in their erly 20,s. Let them know that their mom is O.K. and to search for me I know that they can remember me Thanks.

2007-12-31 00:13:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hai friends.. i had sex with my girl friend..i love her a lot.. but when i have sex with her ,she didnt get blood.. i heard that when the girls do sex at first time they will get blood.. i didnt say anything to her..bcoz i dont like to hurt her.. but i feel very much.. myself. pls help me .. is it or not..?

2007-12-31 00:13:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating