Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

Do you call your lover every few days? Why don't you call more? Do you think about them in between?

2007-12-31 04:30:54 · 13 answers · asked by Ice Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

i love the smell of a dude!
its just so hott!
and after hanging with my bf i always smell like him
and i love it like no other
i have no idea wut he uses but omg girls it'll make your heart stop
alright soooo anyways....
i waas wondering if its a huge turn-off for guys if a girl smells like a dude?
i mean i no its not something i'm gonna like buy a bottle of and use it as perfume or anything....but still...idk just is it?
cuz like...guys [[atleast the ones i go out with]] think its hott when their girl wears their shirt
so why not smel like em?
idk this is a dumb question
but i still want an answer =] lol

2007-12-31 04:30:28 · 2 answers · asked by Dance Kayla, Dance! :) 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife said she would go out to dinner with me tonight right after work then shes going out for new years without me. for our first year anniversary this summer she went to the beach with her single friend. i am now divorcing her, am i wrong?

2007-12-31 04:28:01 · 26 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm painfully shy when it comes to the opposite sex (I'm female). I always assume that the guy isn't interested so I basically blow them off. I have been told all my life that guys don't go after shy girls because they see it as a lack of confidence....I'm actually a very funny person when I feel comfortable and I get along with most people but my shyness seems to be getting in the way....

do men:

1.go for women with super friendly personalites?

2.really notice when a girl is shy ?

3.do they generally find this a turn off?

2007-12-31 04:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you saw my icon as a real person, would you date me for one day at least, and what would you do on that one day?

2007-12-31 04:27:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help!!!

2007-12-31 04:25:55 · 25 answers · asked by S D 2 in Family

My ex-boyfriend contacted me for Christmas even though we agreed to no contact. He was the one who left me. I replied to him and then he told me he is going away with his friends for New Year. I got upset as I really don't need to know he is having fun on his own. We got into emotional discussion over texts and now his mobile has been switched off since yesterday. It's very unusual. I am so hurt. I sent him a text but it's still pending. Why has he done that?

2007-12-31 04:25:19 · 11 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 04:24:33 · 50 answers · asked by alex h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 04:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by tricky 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, heres my case i really like this girl but i'm afreaid that her friends might reject me for her. do you guys think the her friends opinion or anybody's opinion matter?

2007-12-31 04:22:55 · 41 answers · asked by marky543210 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 04:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by yohanes l 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy at work asked me if he could have my cell # so that he could call me and we could "go out sometime and do something just for fun". What did he mean by this???? BTW, I'm 16, he's 19, but he though I was older than 16.

2007-12-31 04:18:59 · 46 answers · asked by ashley_p89 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife had a baby back in Sept of this year and we have been married since July. The problem is that I am absolutley at nerves end with this woman and her bit*ching about everything. Last night she surprised me during the night with a sexual favor. But then afterwards she starts bitching about various things.

It seems that I dont eat the right foods, I dont talk enough, I am more talkative with friends and family on the phone then her. I dont clean enough, I dont do this or that or I havent done this or that, etc.

I recently was diagnosed with high bp and I have no doubt the extra stress from her has contributed. My reading was 190/115. My hands tremble, I feel like I am going to explode because of anxiety.

I just dont understand why she cant understand that after a hard days work I would like to just relax some, play with my girl and just unwind. I dont care to talk about every little detail of my day.

2007-12-31 04:18:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we have a 2 year old. We're both 31 years old. Lately he has been so (for lack of a better word) boring. We have the same old routine, which usually involves him laying on his back and getting "taken care of" by myself and then directly after that, it leads to sex. There's no foreplay for myself ever.
I've asked him if he wants to do different things (watch movies together, get toys, etc) but he says nothing. Last night I didn't want to please him in that way to start off sex and he got turned off and fell asleep. This morning I find out that he was watching a porn in our bedroom while I was downstairs with our son. Everyone reading this knows what he was doing.
I'm just so frustrated with him. I hate how our sex life has become so predictible. I just wish he was more dominating towards me.
I stayed in shape after the baby however, he has gained some weight so maybe that might be a factor.
I don't know what to do..

2007-12-31 04:17:11 · 37 answers · asked by qtpie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep on thinking about boys ALL DAY LONG! I have dreams that I have a boyfriend and that sometimes we kiss and cuddle. I haven't had a boyfriend for years and lately I really need my first kiss before I am 15 because I'm jealous of all my friends - they have all kissed someone!! =(
I really like a boy at school but I think he only sees my as a friend. He's gorgeous, sweet, caring and well...I have feelings for him. I want to hug him and kiss him but he isn't into me..='(

Is it normal for me to think like this?

2007-12-31 04:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by Teaaaa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 04:15:41 · 21 answers · asked by REDBULL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'll TRY to make this as short as possible. There's a boy in all my classes. We chat online for hours every night, text in class, he teases me ALOT & then smirks, makes fun of other boys I mention, blushes & we study together and flirt. Once when he thought I was mad @ him, he freaked & called & sucked up to me for hours after. He had a gf until recently, so neither of us crossed the line. His friends approached my friend saying how he tells them how we talk for hrs & study alone, so to them it means I MUST like him. Next day, when my friend asks him if he likes me, he paused a long time, asked if he gave the wrong impression and says he likes me as a friend. Then he kept asking her if I was mad he said we're friends...

Have I been seeing things wrong all along? Do guys act like this w/ girls they just think of as a friend?? Or is it cause of the recent breakup or something? Or is he leading me on?? I'm thinking of playing hard to get for a while...suggestions plz!!

2007-12-31 04:15:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this boy always annoys me in school, he kicks me and hits me...but it doesn't hurt....then he smiles back...he's a friend of my cousin though( bestfriend of my cousin). i don't understand.he pushes me and stuff...he hides around corners of my school and gives me a fright...wat does this mean?i'm 12yrso by the way and he is 13...he's kinda a friend of mine...but annoys me...pls help me...why does he do this?

2007-12-31 04:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and were meant to be going to a party tonight! Does this mean she doesn't want me to go? She is kinda like that.. anyway please help i feel desperate texting her again because i already have... hmm what should i do?

2007-12-31 04:13:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Alright, This question propbaly has been asked already. But I wanna know again. I'm from India and going australia for like three months I just wanna know what's aussie girl's perspective about indian boy. Do they still look down upon us? or It has been changed? Only aussie girls are allowed to answer. :)

2007-12-31 04:12:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 04:11:57 · 22 answers · asked by runnerguy 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I role play alot and he's told me on more than one occasion how his 1st time was some what an accident like they were just kissing and bam it slid in (not trying to be graphic here) anyway, so one stupid day i decide I wanted to know how it happened so i said show me........ and he did, but he was saying everything that was going through his head his 1st time and he kept saying "she" and "her" and was totally fantasizing about her..... we've had issues with this girl before, in the beginning of our relationship all of his friends warned me that he was still in love with her and blah blah we're past that now. But after that night I haven't been wanting his affection and I can't give him any........ I feel used almost I feel disgusting. What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel even though I allowed it?

2007-12-31 04:11:47 · 32 answers · asked by Daizy C 1 in Singles & Dating

To make a long story as short as i can my fiance has as 4 year old son with his ex..they havent been together for over 1 1/2 but she is making life in possible for him. She wants 500.00 a month on child support plus wants him to have him everyweekend, and i know
for a fact a judge wouldnt give her that much.
i really love his son and i love having his son around,, and i know how happy he gets when he has him. She has a restaring order on him and she calls him and is harrssing me who knows how she got my cell#. Well anyways im scared that she will call and get him locked up. She wants him back now that she see thats hes happy and that were having baby it kills her and that he is doing so well. even though she has a man.She dosent want to go through court and i know thats what he needs to do cuz shes gonna ended up coming between me and him and i dont want that.. What can i do to help him with getting vistation rights over his son and even maybe getting custdoy of. The only thing is that hes on parol and probation ... for the stupidest reason but anyways ... how can i he just doenst want to argue and he dont want me to stress... ??He wants me to find info for him but thats why i came here lol.. but can some one please help me.. i dont want to be the cause of him not seeing his son and i dotn want her to be the reason me and him brake up cuz we have a baby coming soon

2007-12-31 04:11:28 · 11 answers · asked by bashfulmexicana 2 in Family

Ivenever done this before-but im desperate my boyfriend of 1yr3monthsbroke upwitme.Myfamily is giving me so much stress for me actually falling n love with him n arent supportive.I still love him-i need to move on because he doesnt love me-he says its not that but offered alotof bs issues which i told him ido-i even said ill move out there-we r in a long distance relationship.Then he saidwecould be back but was mean aboutit-inwhen i mentioned newsyears together which i got days off forhesaid dont bother n go outwit whoever u want.I feel like a slut for sleepingwithhim.i know i sound incredible stupid.Buttomoftheline is thisothereguy askedmeout,but idonthaveitinme totrust anotherperson-nhonestly not bcause of him but everything else n my life.im dreaming abouttakingabottle of pillsn never waking up-its been about 2months with those thoughts-this past week hasmadeit worse..im very youngn(20)nknow theres moreout there but i dont have it inmeto be heartbroken again or hurtbyhimormyfamily.

2007-12-31 04:10:01 · 30 answers · asked by ladybug 1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know what to do about this guy. I am 22 he is 25
We have been seeing each other for almost three weeks now and we've been on a couple drink dates, almost all of which began after 10pm which is kind of odd. After our third date he seems to have lost interest in going out and just wants to stay home and "watch movies" which I know is in hopes that he will get some. He just seems ultra focused on getting me in bed. When hes not hot after my body he we have a good time together. Part of me thinks that I should just do it and then we can move on. Another part of me bellieves that if he has hung around for three weeks we might not just be after sex. I mean he does call a lot. I just don't know. Is this normal? or should I ditch him?

2007-12-31 04:09:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

Not having luck finding anything?

2007-12-31 04:09:38 · 18 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

my husband was working and enjoyed his job for about 1-2 weeks and now he hates it so he went back to sitting on the computer all day and all night. hardly talking to me or do anything with me cause he is looking for jobs. yesterday he spent all day on the computer and maybe applied for 1 job all day.
Anyway
i want to make my self happy but i am so use to sitting at home playing videogames, or working thats it
i dont know any hobbies i would like i have not found anything yet
how can i be happy again

2007-12-31 04:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by jamieloves31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 04:04:48 · 17 answers · asked by kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i just moved to this new school anyway these girls were showing us around and this to boy comes up and we were talking and i though it was good looking but i just found out he has a girlfriend but we always look over at each other i dont know y???

2007-12-31 04:03:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

:D

2007-12-31 04:02:49 · 12 answers · asked by hi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships