I don't know what to do about this guy. I am 22 he is 25
We have been seeing each other for almost three weeks now and we've been on a couple drink dates, almost all of which began after 10pm which is kind of odd. After our third date he seems to have lost interest in going out and just wants to stay home and "watch movies" which I know is in hopes that he will get some. He just seems ultra focused on getting me in bed. When hes not hot after my body he we have a good time together. Part of me thinks that I should just do it and then we can move on. Another part of me bellieves that if he has hung around for three weeks we might not just be after sex. I mean he does call a lot. I just don't know. Is this normal? or should I ditch him?
2007-12-31 04:09:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ditch him. TRUST me he just wants some puzznatch. ditch the fool..
2007-12-31 04:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Romero Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can sympathize with you...the same thing happened to me. I went out with this guy twice and had a great time. He wanted to sleep together on the thrid date and I told him we needed to slow down, he then informed me that all the other girls he's dated wanted to do "it" by now. He actually looked at me and said "honey, how long has it been since you've been with a guy"...as if I was some sort of freak! I kept my dignity, and never heard from him again. If this guy cares about you he will wait until your ready...if not...he can hit the road like my guy...lol
2008-01-02 08:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by donna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't put out after the 3rd date he's stupid for still hanging around so he must like you forr more that just sex
2007-12-31 13:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you even askin this? its more than obvious that he just wants to sleep with you, you should defenitly ditch him, and every guy who just wants to sleep with you!!! i cant believe you were actually thinking of giving him what he wants, jeez have a little self respect maibe that way men will respct you.
2007-12-31 12:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Diaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just do it to move on. Do you want to have sex with him? If you do then go for it. If you don't then tell him, if he doesn't call after that then he wasn't the right guy for you. Never let a guy pressure you into anything, you will regret it.
2007-12-31 12:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberlee B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him why he doesn't meet you until after 10pm? Seems a bit dodgy to me... maybe he has another 'life' of which he isn't fully-fulfilled... How would you feel if you did go all the way with him and then you don't hear from him again? I would ask yourself all these questions and more before thinking of going further... Unless of course you would be happy with being dumped after the event...????? Good luck with your decision! :)
2007-12-31 12:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by sunflora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like this. I say ditch him. Especially if he only wants sex. OR just don't have sex wsith him and if he leaves you or something yo will know you werent supposed to be in that relationship anyways.
2007-12-31 12:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by Gildragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off a little and see what he does. Be honest. If he's just after sex, he'll move on. If he does, good riddance.
Don't let anyone pressure you into sex. Respect yourself and others will respect you.
2007-12-31 12:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by Likeitornot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really sad that you would consider having relations with this guy-First of all save yourself for when you get married-Yes I know HA HA HA who does that nymore-Well would you rather risk pregnancy and or disease to find out he wanted sex and than ditches you-If he does like you than maybe he should be spending more time respecting you and gettign to know you-Respect yourself, pick your dignity up off the floor and move on-His loss!!!!!!!!
2007-12-31 12:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by mof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love that word: "puzznatch".
Heh.
2007-12-31 12:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋