I'll TRY to make this as short as possible. There's a boy in all my classes. We chat online for hours every night, text in class, he teases me ALOT & then smirks, makes fun of other boys I mention, blushes & we study together and flirt. Once when he thought I was mad @ him, he freaked & called & sucked up to me for hours after. He had a gf until recently, so neither of us crossed the line. His friends approached my friend saying how he tells them how we talk for hrs & study alone, so to them it means I MUST like him. Next day, when my friend asks him if he likes me, he paused a long time, asked if he gave the wrong impression and says he likes me as a friend. Then he kept asking her if I was mad he said we're friends...
Have I been seeing things wrong all along? Do guys act like this w/ girls they just think of as a friend?? Or is it cause of the recent breakup or something? Or is he leading me on?? I'm thinking of playing hard to get for a while...suggestions plz!!
2007-12-31 04:15:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is tough for guys to admit that they love someone. Don't take that too hard, keep being the same friend you have been so far. No to answer the initial question, there is no way of knowing what is going on in his head. He might be being a little withdrawn because of his recent break up, but if you two have been just friends for a long time, you may very well be just that unless one of you tells the other that you really like the other more than just friends. Knowing someone likes you more than just friends can take the relationship to the next level for both of you. You can make the first move, that is not wrong. Good luck to you, have a happy new years
2007-12-31 04:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by stormdog3269 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys feel "safe" flirting w someone when they are attached,when they KNOW you will not act on it because you have good character. But flirting is often just that - play - not serious, just harmless fun for one person, while the other person may think that it is "somehow meaningful." Don't overanalyze. He may be confused b/c of the breakup. Be calm. DON'T CHANGE THE WAY YOU ACT. Just be yourself. Barf, do not play hard to get.
2007-12-31 04:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like teenage drama. He may be put off knowing you like him... boys don't like pressure. And, you'll learn that never changes when you cross over into adulthood. Stop analyzing everything and just be his friend, nothing more!
2007-12-31 04:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get... too much time with him anyways. stay positive.
2007-12-31 04:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by chequemate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's playing your ***. Sorry.. But i'd say dont get OVERLY involved.
2007-12-31 04:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has been getting to know you all of this time to see if you are the type of girl he would want to go out with, and he's decided that he just wants friendship right now. Or his flirting behavior may not really have been intended that way? Or maybe you like him so much that you misinterpreted his actions as flirting with you when he really wasn't? Really, there are too many things to consider. and given that he's already said he likes you as a friend only, then you are way over-analyzing.
2007-12-31 04:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋