Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

to Iraq on feb.8,2008 as a mother do I look back and say good bye? are should I give him a big hug and say I love you so much and I'm very proud of you son? wow right now I'm losing it I don't want him to go

2007-12-31 04:02:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. im 13 and my friend is 12, im in 8th grade, and hes in 7th grade and were both straite , and i liek this girl, but ok. so i just met my best friend this year. and he has a condo at a ski place in maine. i was really happy that he invited me. so the first time i went up to his place, we slept in the same bed, because we had to, wearing our clothes, and i hugged him a lot.because im kind of depressed and he gave me something to look forward to . id hug him when we were in the same bed while we were lieing down and i put my head on his shoulder while holding onto him with both of my arms (rigjt arm under him, left arm over him) when we watched a movie and id put my arm around his shoulder..., and id be like..o thanks for inviting me, and id just hug him a lot and we did snuggle then,and we did tho on a couch, and wed lay down an id place my arms around his stomach rest my head on the side of his chest/stomachand relax but ive never had a friend before,being serious, and ive alwayz been a loner for my whole life, an i dont know how to be a friendor have a friend because id never had one before. but id hug him a lotand cuddle . and he started to call me gay because id hug him. and he accidently kissed my forehead when we were up there, so i kissed his his forehead because i felt bad and when i did, he'd start to laugh and giggle over it. but he'd call me gay, but i went over his house, and we were playing guitar hero, and he squeeezed my balls when he was talking to me out of nowhere...i had my pants and boxerbriefs over it, but it felt weird still....we've been together though in our boxer briefs before, through crew(rowing) and we're used to seeing eacother in our undies and in spandex (you row in spandex) so i didnt really care....we also showered together in DIFFERENT STALLS WEARING BATHING SUITS, and we only wore them becasue we were embarresed to get naked naked in front of eachother, but we'd always go to eachothers stalls and like, but soap on eachother,and like..talk and stay in eachothers stalls but i never saw his privates and he never saw my privastes

so basically.... i act gay just because i dont know how to be a friend....and is it gay to hug him and put my head on his shoulder and snuggle in the same bed...and kiss him after he kisses me accidently because i feel bad...and he did accidently..not purposely........so please help...and domt say stuff like that im gay..because i know im not..because i didnt like it when he touched my balls..at all..i felt violated...but remember that ive never been a friend ever a.and i luv the kiid as a friend, and i dont know how to be onetohugh , so please include maybe stuff involving what is ok..
thnx..
p.s.i never got an erection when we idd this just to add/...so disclude the gay thing

2007-12-31 04:01:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay, so i'm 8 months preggos, and i dont feel like doing anything for new years eve. i'm tired. my body is HUGE, and i just am not into this year. soo...me and my boyfriend were going to go to his brother's place, which is about 1 hour away, for new years eve, but i bailed--my boyfriend is still going.

should i be upset that we're not spending new years eve together? i dont feel upset, but i think i should be...unsure. i mean, shouldn't we spend NYE together? confused.

2007-12-31 04:00:28 · 27 answers · asked by happypants 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know Angelshezza of Habbo and if so, how often does she come online. We're friends from school and I know she's been having trouble with her internet lately but she was online on the 29th so I've figured her nan's sorted that but I wasn't online then and I haven't seen her online since and I'm really bored and have no-one to talk to on there.

2007-12-31 04:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Friends

As you may know my lil sis broke up with her bf yesterday. My family and I are goin to a New Year's Eve Party tonight and her ex will be there. He broke up with her by sayin we're over and then left her on her own. My bro is really mad at him for not doing it nicely. What should we (me and my bro) say to him if he talks to us and what should my sis say?

There'll be like 20 teens at the party and 10 parents.

2007-12-31 04:00:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so im dating this guy that has a huge plyr background he dumpd a grl 4 me is it possbile that he changed? Should i be careful i really want to know if it is likely for him to put all the bad hes done behind him and start again, weve liked each other 4 3 yrs and hes always run because we have smthn spcl and hes scared of it but we always end up back together and im afraid taht i love him!! So HELP!!! what do i do do i trust him or just be careful or how do i change him and make him the "right kind of guy?" tx!!
drna111

2007-12-31 03:55:32 · 9 answers · asked by drna111 2 in Singles & Dating

Give examples, please.

"Most of the so-called bad things that happen in people's lives are due to unconsciousness.....they are self created, or rather ego-created...."drama". When you are fully conscious, drama does not come into your life anymore....the basic ego patterns are designed to combat it's own deep seated fear and sense of lack. They are resistance, control, power, greed, defence, and attack. " Eckhart Tolle

2007-12-31 03:52:48 · 5 answers · asked by kindscorp 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Girls like compliments right? But not from ugly guys right? ....So what should I do? I'm not the best looking?

2007-12-31 03:52:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been taking my 4 year old daughter to a contact centre for the last year so her dad can see her, but she dont want to go and it now starting to make her ill. a cafcass officer said to me that no contact should take place until my daughter is ready, when i left my ex parter went and saw her, a week later i get a phone call saying that she had changed her mind and should keep going to the contact centre. what should i do for the best of my little girl?

2007-12-31 03:51:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-31 03:51:45 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 03:50:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

to get a bf's forgiveness?

2007-12-31 03:49:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I celebrated our 1st anniversary yesterday. Due to problems - it looks as though we might get custody of his newborn granddaughter when she is born in March. I am 46 yrs old, and a grandmother of 2 - I don't think I can raise another child! How do I handle this?

2007-12-31 03:49:41 · 22 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 03:47:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm wondering why so many women believe that if they don't get engaged by a certain time, their partner does not truly love them. Why is it that, if your partner says that he's not ready for marriage, you believe that he doesn't love you or is holding out for something better.

I have always thought of marriage as something to be done when both partners are wholly and entirely ready. Considering the current divorce rates, I find it admirable when a man can be honest about being scared, rather than rush into engagement to satisfy the woman's desire for commitment.

Am I the only one who thinks this way?

2007-12-31 03:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband and I were splitting up earlier this year, I began seeing someone else. I broke it off with the guy I was seeing and confessed to my husband. I changed my phone number recently because the ex affair was texting me. The man is writing us emails and bothering us now. His last email stated "Hope you guys had a good holiday because 2008 is gonna be one hell of a year for lots and lots of people". I am starting to get worried. I am not sure if he is trying to hurt me and destroy my family since I am trying to work on my marriage. I was considering a protection order. Do you think I have grounds to get one right now? ...since all we have been getting is a few disturbing emails? We did go to the same college together... he showed up last quarter to talk and I did not know about it. Until he told me he was waiting for me outside... and I just had left for school. I hope this all makes sense. My hubby and I are getting frustrated with the ex affair. Advice please! Thanks!

2007-12-31 03:46:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I believe in love but I see so many separations and divorces that it really gets to me. Is this because the nature (like interests) of a man and a woman are so different that it is difficult to stick to each other for life? Would like to hear opinions from anyone on this. I've heard so many women come to me and say 'you're lucky, you stayed single..I married the wrong man!'. Or, a guy recently said to me 'you are so lucky with your freedom. My wife and I have so little in common except for the children, so when her parents die, she will be very lonely'. On the other hand, I have some friends saying they are happy in their marriages. It is just that about half of those who are married seem to be 'unsettled' and envying the single life.

2007-12-31 03:43:50 · 15 answers · asked by online now 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey. My friends birthday coming up but i dont have a clue what to get her! Ive been mulling it over for a while now and cant think of anything. she loves oreos, but i dont know where to get them in the UK apart from cosco, which im not going until a week or 2 after the day i need to get her something. she is 14, likes really colourful stuff, random useless things. She is my best friend so it has to be kind of special but im a guy so dont want it to look like i like her or anything. Please any ideas at all would be much apreciated. im really worrying here cos i dont want to get her nothing, but i dont know what to get her!

2007-12-31 03:42:28 · 6 answers · asked by Dec 3 in Friends

Give me a good reason why I should choose you to take me out tonight...

2007-12-31 03:42:00 · 18 answers · asked by DIANE C 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf came to pick me up at my job and he knew I had my period and I told him I wanted to be by myself and if he could take me home cus I have pain and suddenly he lost it, said I mess everything up , and he ended it! he looked at me ice cold and said its over, I feel shattered! only yesterday he told me how much he loves me, what should I do?

2007-12-31 03:42:00 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a little story about my mom and my brother trevor.

Trevor was acting up so my mom said { jokingly } Trevor i brought you into this world and i can take you out of it to.

Trevor gave my mom a weird look, put his and up and said "o yea, you don't even have a rocket ship" very sarcasticly! he was only 4!!!!

any toddler stories you have to share?

2007-12-31 03:41:58 · 11 answers · asked by Kaitlyn_520 2 in Family

I just left university where I hated it for 2 years,and have depression and due to my unhappiness hypersensitivity to emotions and feelings (mostly bad ones these days of course). I am trying to find a therapist, so that is one step, but since I have been away for 2 years, any one I used to know doesn't want to know me because they are so hurt I ignored them for 2 years (I wasn't in my right mind and I wanted people to get on with their lives and be happy, and I didn't want to bother them).
Since I should have had a new university life but didn't, back home it is empty and dark for me; my life is completely isolated. I was isolated in university, totalling 2 years since I left my happy life, and I'm so tired of it. I used to do well with girls and have friends, but I simply don't know any one. I am going to university starting october 2008 but how do I get a life now. It has been a shock going from being loved by a fair few girls to nothing, and that's what I want to focus on aswell.

2007-12-31 03:40:24 · 3 answers · asked by . 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

um.... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-31 03:39:55 · 22 answers · asked by jackie c 1 in Family

There's this guy from my work that I like. We met months ago on a work get together but work in diff. states. We talk now and again by phone and have even got together once (kissed)..we like each other & he told me that. Also he has now called me and wants to come see me soon. I asked him what he was up to for the weekend and he told me that he had invited a girl to his house to work on a project with him. I asked him if this was a girlfriend and he said no it is a friend. His voice didn't hint of any feelings for her. Do you think he likes her as more than a friend? I mean, why would he call me & say he's coming to visit if he's into another girl? He does like travelling though and would love to see my city. Am I worrying unecessarily?

2007-12-31 03:39:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

last night a lad added me on msn, i dont know who he is, although i did sit and speak to him for a good few hours. he then said he'd seen me around college and told me he had feelings for me and that he'd tracked down my msn addi on purpose. id quite like to meet him, somewhere like starbucks thats public. can anybody see the harm in this?
or do you think this may give him false hope because atm i dont know if i do like him or not?
thanks in advance

2007-12-31 03:38:36 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and he wants us to have a baby. He's a very responsible individual (more than I). However, he won't even think of us moving into together unless I'm pregnant. He says I'm rushing him on that, but he's rushing on having a child. I told him if he wants to have a child we at least need to be living with each other first. I would prefer marriage before having a child, but at least living together is a start for a stable home. He says that he loves me and that time is running out for kids and that we can worry about moving in later. I would love for us to have a child together, but not sure if I'm wanting to compromise myself that far.

2007-12-31 03:38:35 · 32 answers · asked by Courtney B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a wedding coming up this summer and two of my bridesmaids will not get professionally measured for their dresses (which I'am personally paying for). They claim to be size 1/2 and 3/4 and I have tried explaining that it might not be the same size in that certain company and since the money is coming out of my pocket, I don't want to have to pay extra for alterations or order another dress altogether. I don't really see the difficulty in getting measured and they seem to be creating unnecessary problems that I don't need but I can't "un-ask" them to be a bridesmaid without seriously severing friendship plus one of the two is family. My question is, is there a tactful way of saying get it together or I will beat the crap out of you?!!!

2007-12-31 03:37:06 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

in which conditions?

i have read a book about the life of a saint- woman..she was virgin, she was christian. a man fall in love with her..she defended her body. he couldn't at least get her by marrying her .so the man went to a wizard , wizard casted spells etc..but the girl couldn't be seduced.then the wizard went to satan asked him powers things etc..satan tried to put spell on her and tried to give her erotic feelings for that man(but not love or reasonable feelings)she feasted and prayed and got the attraction out of her body.the wizard gave up became christian and a martyr togheter with the girl. i want to say that satan send illness over the whole town because of the girl who resisted that man or boy ..and the people even advised her and forced her to marry him..but she refused ..and became martyr..

so what do you think..can satan nowadays send seduction over people?did it happen to you?

2007-12-31 03:36:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I called him to apologize for being in a silly argument and wanted him to say the same for screaming & cussing at me. I checked our bank & noticed an expedited $8 mail fee, called & asked what was going on and he said Guess!?!

Alright, so he's leaving me, naturally I say just dont come home... why would I wana hear from someone who I had Christmas plans with that night that they are divorcing me.

We live in the state of Texas, we were married 01-23-2004 in Arkansas... in September of 2006 he finally convinced me & my disabled dad to move to Texas... we have NO way to move from here now.

He gave me $100 last week & yes I took $350 from OUR account to pay bills because I couldnt understand what was going on & I had to do something.

Now he doesnt want to do anything else to help me, my dad [who has lived with us & helped us TREMENDOUSLY] or OUR dogs..

I cannot get state help because I have a job, its not a grand job that'll carry us thru without him. Any advice or guidance for me

2007-12-31 03:32:17 · 27 answers · asked by pezkandydoll 2 in Marriage & Divorce

physically fit,intelligent and a great guitarist musician.

2007-12-31 03:29:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating