my bf came to pick me up at my job and he knew I had my period and I told him I wanted to be by myself and if he could take me home cus I have pain and suddenly he lost it, said I mess everything up , and he ended it! he looked at me ice cold and said its over, I feel shattered! only yesterday he told me how much he loves me, what should I do?
2007-12-31 03:42:00 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told me that I could be at his place too and rest there , but I wanted to be at my place, cus I have my clothes there and when Im in serious pain I prefer to be alone, then he replied that if he has pain that he still wants to be with me... but everyone is different!
2007-12-31 04:14:37 · update #1
he told me that new years eve is the most special day of the year and that I ruined it for him cus I want to be alone cus of my pain! thank you for all your answers!
2007-12-31 04:21:38 · update #2
Man, what a jerk!!! I'm sorry that happened to you. That totally sucks!!!!
You know he's going to come crawling back don't you?? Oh yes he will. So you need to decide if you want him back or not.
What he did was just plain wrong. See, guys just don't understand period pain. You can't see pain so it's hard just in general to sympathize with it.
If you decide to take him back, tell him there is one thing he has to do first. He has to let you kick him in the nuts and you get to scream in his face while he's huddled on the floor in the fetal position.
That's the only compromise I can see.
What jerk nut!!! If he's going to act like that over you being in pain, how's he going to act if you get your leg cut off by a chain saw?? Is he still going to give the "you ruin everything speech" what? What's he gonna do??
If he does come crawling back I'd razz him so hard over this and say stuff like I just wrote. HA AH AHH HAAA HA H A AH
It's not funny he did this to you, but I was just thinking how it would all look if you did scream at him after you kicked him in the nuts ha ha haha
GOOD LUCK!!! You deserve much better then that.
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2007-12-31 03:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to meet you and get your brothers/solid mates/nuts folk u know whatver and get them o give him a right doin for being such a prick that shouldteach him to be a gentleman x
2007-12-31 03:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he cant except what you want cause you are in pain, then he really doesnt care about you, so the feelings he told you he had, he was lying, because if he did have them feeliings he would have took you home and let your pain go away not dump you because you are having period pain
2007-12-31 03:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by BrandiLea! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah it feels hard now, but give it a few weeks-a month and you will realise how much better off you are with out him. he sounds like a horrible person who is completely ignorant, uncaring and has no understanding of how other people feel. I bet he is one of these me me me people, or he is/was spoilt by his parents as a child, or oth
2007-12-31 03:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dec 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously not ok in the head. How long have you two been going out? If not more than a month then he doesn't know your cycle and probably had something special planned which biology ruined. As to why he flipped out...who cares go find someone new to be with.
2007-12-31 03:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he'll come crawling back tomorrow
2007-12-31 03:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Charlene 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like much of a loss to me. If he can't sympathise with you when you're in pain, then do you really want to be with someone like this ?
2007-12-31 03:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by StuBoy 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
seems a bit of a cnut to be honest
2007-12-31 03:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This means he doesn't really love you. That was very immature of him but at least you can move on and find someone who will respect you.
2007-12-31 03:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Meg 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth.
2007-12-31 03:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋