ok so im dating this guy that has a huge plyr background he dumpd a grl 4 me is it possbile that he changed? Should i be careful i really want to know if it is likely for him to put all the bad hes done behind him and start again, weve liked each other 4 3 yrs and hes always run because we have smthn spcl and hes scared of it but we always end up back together and im afraid taht i love him!! So HELP!!! what do i do do i trust him or just be careful or how do i change him and make him the "right kind of guy?" tx!!
drna111
2007-12-31 03:55:32 · 9 answers · asked by drna111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and btw I DO NOT WANT TO CHANGE HIM, i know i cant i want him to change for me though. i know i cant change anyone thy have 2 want to change or they wont
2007-12-31 04:09:21 · update #1
first of all i learned from personal experience to never try to change a guy because then he's not goin to bethe one you fell in love with...and if he really does care about you then you have nothingt to worry about....just give it time and if he does love you he will changed or maybe he already has just for you...and another thing is that you are right guys are afraid of actual love thats why sometimes they run because they are either not ready to commit or if they do love the person they are afraid to show that they care cuz to them its a weakness....dont worry trust him...
2007-12-31 04:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by His True Love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope as soon as someone else catches his eye he'll dump you too. you can't make a leopard change its spots
2007-12-31 13:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well, that happened to me too.
I agree with the person who said. If he dumped a girl for you. He might dumb you for another girl. But there might be a diffrence between you and the other girl he dumbed for you. I mean, maybe he didnt like her at all . Thats why he dumbed her for you.
Just give him a chance. Give him ur heart hoping he wont brake it. and steal his heart. Thats how u could change him
GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-31 12:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by SOCCER GIRL! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change anyone. Not even judges with prisons and other punishments, can. Unfortunately, unreliable, flighty men, seem to have a special attraction for women and you are one among millions. But some times, young men mature and change by selves.
The chances are very much against you, but since you love him, give him the benefit of the doubt and try. But keep your guard up and only lower it slowly as the years reveal his character.
2007-12-31 12:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The most common mistake most women make is to think that they can change a man. What you see is what you get!
2007-12-31 12:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lose him hun. once a player always a player. You don't deserve that
2007-12-31 12:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by napolee_nj 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No no no no! You don't "change" people! They are what they are. If he is a player, he is unlikely to be serious about you. I'm sorry.
2007-12-31 12:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you cant trust the one you love who can you trust?
2007-12-31 12:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...if he dumped a girl for you, then there is no reason that he wouldn't do the same thing by dumping you for someone else. While it is possible to change, please know that change doesn't happen overnight. Honestly, I wouldn't get my hopes up.
2007-12-31 11:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋