Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

i was dating a guy called paul and yesterday i had to dump him because i couldnt lie to him anymore about the feelings i have for this other guy. The other guy is about 2 maybe 3 times my age, i only know his name and it sounds bazzar but its true, when i was dating my old boyfriend who works with this guy he was all over me like a rash, so i no he is into me but should i tell him im in love with him ?

2007-12-31 03:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy I used to work with. Now he got transferred to another country..so we dont really see each other but chat now and then. Also he calls me sometimes and we have flirted too. He has just been promoted so doesnt have much free time (and this is true I know). I invited him to visit and he said he had to see his family for new yr but will come on his next vacation. do you think he is interested in me? On our last meeting we did kiss.

2007-12-31 03:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we sit right next to eachother, we don't realy chat, but we laugh at eachothers jokes only when it is said to other people in general
he mirros my actions, e.g. when i click my pen he does, when i put my pen in my mouth he does, and i've seen this happen quite alot, but i don't think he realises that he's doing it.
we went to a party of a mutual friend, got drunk and danced togethar for about a minute
but we've gone back to not talking at all, just the way it was , as if nothing had happened.
i went to a girls school for 5 years and now i'm in college, but i have no confidence when it comes to talking to boys :S
how can i break free from this cycle of events..
and am i looking too much into it, maybe he doesnt like me at all?!

2007-12-31 03:28:08 · 2 answers · asked by it's me 2 in Singles & Dating

record? Does anyone realize the effect that this will have on Americans? All of a sudden the U.S.G. creates a manmade crisis that will have over time cause more and more people to be denied employment and housing! Guess whos' going to pay for all of this mess?! And I'am sure this is going to be their answer to the problem! Make us all pay for it! If u don't get what i'am saying let me explain as simple as i can. Say u did somthing stupid 20-30 yrs. ago and its on ur record but have had no problem getting a job or renting or buying housing because companies and landlords did not really do background checks exstinsivley untill after 9/11 wich u were protected under the credit laws after 7 yrs. wich just recently the federal trade commission just dropped without any concern for the millions of people that this is going to effect including those of us thats going to have to pay for this manmade disaster! What are we going to do about this mess they have created?

2007-12-31 03:27:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-31 03:26:53 · 43 answers · asked by Hayley S 1 in Friends

My new boyfriend parties in Italy, my old friends party on their own, my university mates went home for holidays, none of my so called "friends" have even bodered to see how i'm doing.. Is it only happening to me or the people u care the most just stab you in the back? Well what goes around comes around...
I guess this gives me a new goal for 2008 -make new friends!
Happy New Year!

2007-12-31 03:26:35 · 7 answers · asked by together_ro 1 in Friends

is it right to take his girlfreind that he loves very much and for him not to see her for a week or talk to her on the phone

2007-12-31 03:25:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-31 03:25:00 · 17 answers · asked by jose p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I was wondering if this is weird. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We are very much in love and are happy. But my friend was telling me that our sex life is off. Okay...we watch porn(sometime together and sometime not), I cyber and we flirt but we have the best sex afterwards. I support him masterbating and he does me and we are happy. I figure when we are doing these things its like our type of foreplay. No we havent went outside the marriage to have sex or anything with other people. But she was telling me it was basically nasty what we did. It work and been working threw our dating and threw seven years of marriage. Is it that bad or weird?

2007-12-31 03:24:36 · 20 answers · asked by Jenn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

if your partner is keen on the idea of putting it in your bum does it mean he has gay tendencies, is curious, or is just adventurous?

2007-12-31 03:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did some catching up with my cousin over the holidays with her new set of twins, only to find out that she is in an abusive relationship with the babies' father. Not only are they physically fighting each other, he is biting her!

I can't remember if I've read somewhere or heard someone mention this, but is it true that in an abusive relationship, if the male begins to bite, he will likely end up killing her? The biting comes from a canine instinct in some males to bite or kill in anger?

I've entered various forms of my question on Google, but I'm in a loop and the information presented is not answering my question. Does anyone have a site link that they can forward to help save my cousin from this relationship?

2007-12-31 03:18:44 · 18 answers · asked by cookies 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really dont understand this and wondered if anyone can help in anyway

im the nice guy out of a group of friends im the one that if you run into us on a night out either I will be the peace maker if a fight breaks out or im the one who if we run into some ladies and they are completely drunk then I hope they get home safe even if I have to see them home after chatting all night lol

yet the guys who I thought were my mates have been really quiet and I havent heared from them or seen them in a few months and although I was going to ring up and say hey hows it going I found out by chance (by walking past a couple of them and saying hi before I entered a class at uni that they were talking about the five a side team we played in) so it hurt in a way because ive always been good to these lads and it felt like they basically ended one team to set up another without me and ive always given lifts home if its on my way or close by - yet everyone has gone silent on me - so I decided ...

2007-12-31 03:16:46 · 3 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Friends

Thank You

2007-12-31 03:11:48 · 42 answers · asked by spring 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 03:10:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my desire for 2008 is changing something in my life... and so...do you think i can really leave Italy for leaving in UK? is it possible take this important decision without regrets?... have you had similar experiences?? like start a new life abroad...??
pls help me to find my way! thks

happy new year!!!!!

2007-12-31 03:09:55 · 2 answers · asked by clara 2 in Friends

My husband has a daughter from a previous relationship who lives with us all the time, since her biological mother passed. She is 14 and has no respect for me at all. Yesterday we were getting company and I asked her to pick up somethings of hers laying around the house. Her response was "No, you b*tch. You are not my mom go pick it up yourself you lazy "F"er." Then she ran up to her room. My husband(her dad) was at a friends helping him fix up a car. When he got home, I told him what happened and he went upstairs and slapped her for being disrespectful. After we all cooled down, me, my husband, and his daughter had a talk about how even though I am not her biological mother she was expected to treat me with respect.

But I can not help but feel bad. It was my fault that she got hit. If I wouldn't have told my husband what happened then she never would have. So was I wrong for this?

2007-12-31 03:08:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have been dating since April 2005 and have been talking since September 2004. I am 29 and he is 28. I brought up the subject of marriage in December 2006 and he said that he wanted to think about it for a while. So I brought it up again this December 2007 and he says that he doesn't know if he wants to get engaged in 2009 or 2010. At this time, he doesn't want to get married but has told me that I am wife material and would make a great wife, but doesn't think that he would make a good husband at this point. (He didn't say why).
I respect his answer, but I am ready to get married and to start having children. I am very much in love with him, but since I feel that he's not in love with me, I want to break up or either take a break and possibly get back together later? What should I do?

2007-12-31 03:05:41 · 29 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

our children range from 12-16, i just want the children to be happy, and my husband, i have hurt him badly

2007-12-31 03:00:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello Friends
I Look Good, Good body, Hieght,Face, But Little Bit Black In Color(Brown),
And I Failed in 12th, I Learnt Lot In Computer And Got Certified By Companys Too.
I Am Only 20, I Lost My School Life And College Life.. By my Habit, I Addited to computers. I Was Very Poor In Education.. And My Intrest And Performence was very low on college and school..
Now I Am Suffer Metaly.. I Got To Know How Imported Study is. And As Well As School And Collge Life...
Now I Earnt lot Knowlege but I Am Not Getting That Enjoyment Between Friends. And No GF's, No Parties, No Entertainement
So Can You Guys Suggest Me Where I Can Find My GF?
Dont Suggest me Dating Website...

2007-12-31 03:00:08 · 8 answers · asked by Searchingeye 5 in Singles & Dating

WISH YOU ALL
A BLESSED ,
PROSPEROUS AND
HAPPY NEW YEAR...!

with love ,
sundar,
December 31,2007,9:30 P.M
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2007-12-31 02:59:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

tell your gf that you have been to the doctor and she needs to be tested for std's. Points for originality.

2007-12-31 02:55:53 · 2 answers · asked by Joe Angus 7 in Singles & Dating

My brother needs a place to mature, he is 16 now and has no where to live after our Mom died. My aunt is considering taking him in, and so have I. She is well established with a nice home in San Diego. I have a small apartment in L A area, and can't offer him much. He had trouble with the last family he stayed with because they were very religious, and I worry that my aunt may not realize the stress her expectations in that area may bring. even though I can't offer much financially is he best off in a more relaxed environment, or is it worth putting up with the religion for a more affluent lifestyle?

2007-12-31 02:54:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

of course everyone is different and has different size lips and levels of passion and preferences but I wondered if theres a common theme that would crop up about what makes a guy a good kisser - because I hope I am one lol =)

2007-12-31 02:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

I go out with this girl and we break up. After a little while later she starts calling me names and all this crap. She ignores me whenever she feels like it, then whenever i say something to her she always gives me answer that makes me look bad. The problem is some of her friends are my friends and i don't want them to get pissed off at me. I want to tell her that i hate her becuase she thinks she can use me for anything

2007-12-31 02:50:54 · 27 answers · asked by Someone 3 in Singles & Dating

I moved to another city after just getting to know this girl who is really friendly. We contact each other sometimes, kind of flirt sometimes. I told her I got a new job and they need more people and she joked 'will they give me a job'. I kind of went all shy when she said this (as I like her). What does this mean? Also she is going to come to see me on her next vacaction.

2007-12-31 02:50:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been seeing this lad for a few weeks and we had sex a few days ago and we've been txting since,but he has'nt txt me today,ive text him but no reply..whats happening u think?

2007-12-31 02:45:56 · 8 answers · asked by lacey 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 02:45:36 · 23 answers · asked by KEITH B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

mines are gerard butler and adrien brody.
how about yours?

list as many as you like!

2007-12-31 02:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 02:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by Lori L 1 in Family

for a while...would anyone say good bye? If someone were to leave, for awhile...they would surely miss their contacts...even if she couldn't say good bye...because chatting is a no no..and we wouldn't want to do anything that would be a no no...but just in case anyone see's this....Happy New Year....and hope to answer more questions on days off! ♥

2007-12-31 02:42:16 · 14 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7 in Friends