Okay I was wondering if this is weird. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We are very much in love and are happy. But my friend was telling me that our sex life is off. Okay...we watch porn(sometime together and sometime not), I cyber and we flirt but we have the best sex afterwards. I support him masterbating and he does me and we are happy. I figure when we are doing these things its like our type of foreplay. No we havent went outside the marriage to have sex or anything with other people. But she was telling me it was basically nasty what we did. It work and been working threw our dating and threw seven years of marriage. Is it that bad or weird?
2007-12-31 03:24:36 · 20 answers · asked by Jenn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This friend, does she have a "normal" sex life? Maybe she's just jealous that her husband isn't willing to be as open as yours is.
As long as your not going outside your marriage, there is nothing off limits. Except for the online cyber we have done everything you have, keeping the spice in your marriage and love life makes your sex life better, its very exciting and also gives ideas of things he likes
Bravo to you! No its not weird... its working, thats all that matters
2007-12-31 03:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by just us 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude, each and every person wonders "what if?" it relatively is a classic element. you will desire to ask your self extra approximately why they end'd so all quickly &n what are you able to do for your self to make helpful the subsequent one would not end as rapid, & much less approximately having intercourse with them, with the aid of fact what does it remember in the event that they did no longer stick around? Had you long previous by way of with it, you may've end'd up extra connect'd so it is extra sensible to have not. i assume you merely weren't waiting or delicate then.
2016-10-10 17:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by coke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does "normal" really mean anyways???
Do what works for you and your man. If you are open, honest and happy then ..... ignore what others say!!
2007-12-31 03:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Just trying to make it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your marriage and if that works for you guys, then continue doing it.
Just because your friend sounds like a prude doesn't mean what you guys are doing is weird. She could probably use some of your tips to put a little excitement in her love life.
2007-12-31 03:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has its different kicks....your friend might be different in her relationship...but if this has worked good for 7 yrs why are you doubting it... i dont personally watch porn with my man neither do support it, b/c it makes me feel insecure and less important ,. i like to be the center of his sexual attention,,but again everyone is different and if it has been successful for you for this long i wouldnt doubt it becasue of a friends opinion....
2007-12-31 03:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you are talking and cybering with others online than your husband-- that's gross. Anything you do sexually should be guarded within yhour marriage. But wild sex within the marriage is great!
2007-12-31 03:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
As long as you and your husband are happy, who cares what anyone else thinks.
2007-12-31 03:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to STFU! It's not her place to decide what's nasty and what's not! Girl, you got a good thing going, you go on! Ignore that idiot.
2007-12-31 03:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are perfectly normal and fortunate that both of you are on the same page. Excellent!
Your friend hasn't got the slightest clue what she's talking about.
Keep doing what makes you happy.
Good luck!
2007-12-31 03:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by jasper addleton 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
No labels needed here. If this works in your marriage, then that is great and it doesn't matter what someone else thinks.
2007-12-31 03:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋