Should I tell her off?

Question

I go out with this girl and we break up. After a little while later she starts calling me names and all this crap. She ignores me whenever she feels like it, then whenever i say something to her she always gives me answer that makes me look bad. The problem is some of her friends are my friends and i don't want them to get pissed off at me. I want to tell her that i hate her becuase she thinks she can use me for anything

Answer 1

tell her off. if your friends dont like you for it, then they arent really friends and will be gone later in life anyways. she needs a reality check. dont let anyone just use you.

Answer 2

i think you should definently stay the bigger person and try to keep your mouth shut. But if you do say somehting, it shouldnt be in front of everyone else. That saves her the embaressment and you the guilt of somethign happening between your guys friends. Hope it helps
-Me <3

Answer 3

I can imagine how angry this makes you feel, and it really is nasty of her to hurt you by her words and lack of words {ignoring}. Thankfully, you had the wisdom to break up. Unfortunately, she is still seeking attention from you and this is what this name calling and ignoring and nastiness is all about. It is important to remember what a wonderful person you are, and not to change in the face of this attack. Move on, and in doing so you are showing class, and maturity. Eventually she will seek you and want to apologize, l am sure.
Distance is the key here, resist the urge to clear your name, and remember that your friends will know who you are and stick by you. She is feeling wounded, and acting out, but you can't control this. what you can control is yourself, and take care of yourself. So begin to seek a new girlfriend, date a lot of girls, and find fun and laugh...leave the past behind and resist getting near her or those friends around her, because she needs to heal and get over the relationship and so do you.

Answer 4

she is immature and telling her off would do nothing. Just ignore her, be the better person, if your friends know you, they will believe you, if not they are not good friends to be worrying about. move on!

Answer 5

dont do it,when she gets tierd,she will stop it.

Answer 6

Be sure to approach her in public because it is the best way to make sure that what you say is not repeated in a way you didn't mean it, tell her that when she treats calls you names and is mean it hurts, tell her that maybe things didn't work out for you as bf/gf but that you both have mutual friends and out of respect for those friendships and what they mean to you, you haven't insulted her in public and tried to make her look stupid, tell her that if she continues to behave this way you Will lose all respect for her and then you will never be able to repair your friendship, ask her for a fresh start on a friendship, but be sure to never date her again, she is not a very mature person and has a lot of growing up to do, good luck.

Answer 7

Be a man and keep ignoring her.

She yells at your face? Ignore her. Tells your friend **** about you? Ignore it.

She's just being a *****, it'll probably lessen.. in a few.. years. Or you can confront her and tell that she's acting like a little brat, and then ignore her.

:D

Exit with a bang!!

Answer 8

I think you answered your own question--just be more subtle about it. Tell her your sooooooo done,but if she changes her attitude --maybe you can be friends. And if your friends are really your friends--they will just stay out of it--or find new ones of those also!!!!!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

Don't tell her off. She will just turn it around and make you look bad. Don't badmouth her either. If someone asks about her and what happened, just say things did not work out. The next time she says something nasty to you (preferably if others are around) just ask her if there is a reason she is being so cold towards you. She'll probably be caught off guard and maybe will nip her behavior in the bud. good luck, but as previous poster mentioned, the more space between you the easier it is to move on.

Answer 10

Just shake it off, You dont want waste your energy on her cuz she's not worth it. she will stop soon once she see's that your way over her and you dont care what she dose to you your still happy no matter what. she is trying to bring you down and make your life horriable. Dont fall for it.
~MavsLover~