2007-12-31 02:45:36 · 23 answers · asked by KEITH B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont even know how someone would want to watch someone els nailing their partner.
Whatever floats you boat, but that is just not me in any way!!!
Thats not wife material thats for sure!@!!
2007-12-31 02:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Laffy_Taffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she does want this just make sure your ready for it to seeing your girlfriend have sex with another bloke it's ok with fantasy but when it come's down to it could split you up.
2007-12-31 19:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how really feel about it. Do you think it would be ok, you just want validation? Or are you having some problems deciding if it is right or appropriate for you, or if you are having a serious problem with her for wanting to do this.
One thing I'd caution you about is not to disrespect her for having these feelings. We all have fantasies we wish would come true, and she has ben honest enough with you to share hers with you. I would respect her for that, and not be judgmental about her in any way.
If you're having some moral scruples about it - if you feel that it's just not right - I doubt that what anyone says to you is going to alter your views.
If you do it againt your own better judgment, just to make her happy or to keep her as a girlfriend, that would be the wrong reason.
In order for you to proceed, you've got to be open-minded, you've got to be willing to seperate any jealousy from the pure sexuality of it - in other words, if you don't feel you would enjoy it for any reason, better to probably not. I didn't say tolerate it - I said enjoy it.
Having said that, there could be some benefits for you as well. You'd be sharing something she regards as delicious and she wants to do with you. It's a shared experience. Hey, at least she's not out there cheating behind your back. She's coming to you with something she wants to do - big difference. I'ts not cheating if you're doing ir right in front of your partner with their consent, and he is participating.
Many women have this fantasy, it's not all that uncommon. Many don't act upon it, and reserve it for a fantasy alone.
But others thrill to the idea, and from a sexual standpoint, it can be exceptionally gratifying for them. I'm sure she's told you that the idea of two guys paying attention to her turns her on. It will, you will see her turned on like you can only imagine now.
I think she has the courage to act on her fantasy, and she also wants to share the experience with you. I hope you don't think any less of her for having these feelings. I don't.
But ultimately, if you agree it would be fun, erotic, pleasing to her and yourself as well and a wild time - sure, you should consider it.
But if you're having a tinge of potential jealousy, fear that she might end up liking the other guy more than you, wondering if you will "measure up" against the other guy, are struggling with the "right vs wrong" issue, or for any reason not fully and completely accepting it, it could be harmful to both you and your relationship.
Good luck.
2007-12-31 11:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by jasper addleton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse of course.
2007-12-31 11:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Catherine P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it hahaha..........................
2007-12-31 11:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by wtiger17470 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no. If you love her then don't do it, it's not worth it. I speak from experience. We both were 100% percent into it and we had rules the whole nine.........But in the end we are no longer together. Explore each other it's the best way.
2007-12-31 11:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww no! 3-somes are vile! She should break up with you if she wants to shag someone else!
2007-12-31 11:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by meeting in the aisle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is already sleeping with this guy and is trying to find out how you feel about it. Sorry dude it may be time to move on.
2007-12-31 11:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by johnathan112usmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf no , tell her you want one with her and another girl first
then never do it with teh other guy and her, say you lied about that
2007-12-31 11:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's gross, like a lot of people said above. It's something that some people enjoy. But you all have to be 100% into it and 100% committed, and lay down ground rules beforehand. Figure out how you're going to stay safe (condom use), and what is and is not acceptable. Realize you're going to see another guy having sex with her right in front of you. It's a decision that only you can make, but like I said, make sure you're 100% comfortable with whatever you decide.
2007-12-31 10:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Real American 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋