i was dating a guy called paul and yesterday i had to dump him because i couldnt lie to him anymore about the feelings i have for this other guy. The other guy is about 2 maybe 3 times my age, i only know his name and it sounds bazzar but its true, when i was dating my old boyfriend who works with this guy he was all over me like a rash, so i no he is into me but should i tell him im in love with him ?
2007-12-31 03:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't be with either of these guys because you don't love either of them. You just said you are in love with a guy and you don't even know him...how can you think you love someone you don't know anything about?
2007-12-31 03:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by TG 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how can you possibly fall in love someone that was 'all over you like a rash' and you only know his name? It would not be wise to tell him your feelings at all.
The older man got you where he wanted so when it is time for the two of you to hookup, there is no telling that he will be dancing in circles around your heart.
And if it happens, don't run back to Paul because if he has any self-worth he will not go back to a girl that dumped him for someone else.
You still have a lot to learn the difference between love and infatuation young girl.
2008-01-01 05:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by ranay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Big Age Gaps Arent Good
2. What Was Going On In Your Head
3. Learn More About Him Before You Tell Him You Love Him
As That Might Freak Him Out
2007-12-31 05:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. He's not going to want you now , your single. What man wants someone who doesn't have anybody. Besides you don't know a damn thing about this guy. Are you nuts?
2007-12-31 03:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Tee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is you problem, you dump a guy, so u can be with a guy twice your age. Why, because he has money? a nice car?. He's old hun! if your 20 he's 40. do the math. I hope your bf finds someone who will love him for what he is. Your nothing but a loser. Sorry, but it's the truth
2007-12-31 03:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by napolee_nj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it would have made more sense to get to know this guy that you're in love with first, then tell your boyfriend that you were developing feelings for someone else and didn't want to string him along anymore. People on here are going to criticize you because of the way that you are wording your question. You are saying that you were in a relationship with someone, who may have really cared about you and decided to up and leave him for someone that you don't know and who doesn't even know you, based on an outside infatuation. Not smart, not sympathetic and not realistic, to think that this guy will like you back, just because you like him. He doesn't even know you. Not only that, but he's like 3 x's your age. Come on girl, wake up. Best wishes though, and happy holidays.
-Knowledge24
2007-12-31 03:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're not in love with him honey, because you know NOTHING about him. Love takes time to grow and occurs because we get to know someone and like that person for who they are. Knowing a dude's name, isn't enough to build love on, sorry.
What you are feeling is lust, and possibly a little infatuation...but it has nothing to do with love.
2007-12-31 03:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 or 3 times your age???!!! your crazy lol
2007-12-31 03:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is pathetic. You need to not date anyone until you grown up.
2007-12-31 03:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Meg 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ummm.... no you shouldn't tell your old bf that your in luv with an older guy. and i think you shud find sum1 your own age. wow. you are soooo stupid. you THINK your in luv with some one 3 times your age! wow you are soo retarded.
2007-12-31 03:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Crazyydrunkb!tch<3 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋