2007-12-31 03:50:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well, guys prolly feel the same way about women! Honestly, I think the real reason is that we all have hidden assumptions and beliefs about what marriage is supposed to be - even the most intelligent people with the best communication skills get tripped up by these hidden beliefs. You just have to communicate your way past it, in the belief that the other person is genuinely on your side. However, there ARE some ppl who are covertly aggressive and controlling, and after marriage their true colors are revealed. These people are candidates for divorce.
2007-12-31 03:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes...boys will be boys. But I know who my husband was before we got married. =)
2007-12-31 05:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We ALL change after marriage. It just happens
2007-12-31 04:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Dreamweaver back for more 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should not be marrying a boy, you should be marrying a man.
If the person seems to change once you are married it means that you did not spend enough time with them and date them for a long enough time to learn about them before marrying them.
Some people get very carried away with the idea of being married, having the party, the ceremony, and all the fun things, but do not realize or do not want to realize that you actually have to learn to live together and work together to make the relationship work.
If you are married and having a difficult time, get to a marriage counselor to try and repair things before they get worse.
Good luck and have a Happy New Year.
2007-12-31 04:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the problem is people are marring boys. Wait till there a man and they are less likely to change as much, Boys have a lot of growing up to do, of course they are going to change.
2007-12-31 03:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Meesha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, we are both 30 so we didn't really have an issue with this.... I think this happens when your little immature and young.
2007-12-31 03:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just remember this they will always be boys. And yes they do change because they can relax now that they have you.
2007-12-31 03:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Green_eyes 69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋