Cute guy I REALLLYYYYYY like invited me to his work for a concert, however I don't know his number, it would be akward alone, I didn't know when it started, when it ended. All he said was "you should come bye we're having a concert tonight". The next Monday he asked why I didn't come. I told him I didn't know where it was (true) and said tell me next time they have a concert.
Guys, how would you feel if that was you?
2007-12-31 00:58:12 · 18 answers · asked by arwww x p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. If he really expected you to come, he would have made sure you had all the necessary details.
2007-12-31 01:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great opportunity for you to go to him and say: "so hey, justy to make sure this doesnt happen next time, you wanna give me your number?"
Kill 2 birds with one stone, and he will know you like him on the DL
2007-12-31 09:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Gregg L (JPA) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have felt rejected until you told him why you didnt show up ... lack of communication ...if he invites you again .. agree to meet up with him first or at least get clear plans
2007-12-31 09:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you didn't know where it was. He should have been more specific.
2007-12-31 09:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy was an idiot who assumed you knew where he was playing. What, are you a mind reader? He expected you to do all the work, and didn't have the courtesy to get you a ride or anything. Why are you so concerned with how he feels?
I mean would you invite someone to something of yours and leave holes in the whole thing expecting them to figure it out?
If I were you, I would worry less in how he feels and more on how his lack of information made you feel.
Good luck.
2007-12-31 09:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first what kind of idiot is he if he didn't realize you didn't know where you were suposed to go? And no he probly didn't feel rejected because he never told you where to go , you had no number for him nothing.
2007-12-31 09:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by twistedtoad03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have felt rejected by you but it's partially his fault how he hasn't given you any information about this. You should've asked too! It's possible how he was testing you...seeing if you are interested in him by asking him more about this.
I think it was more of a miscommunication though. Since he has told you how he'd tell you the next time...wait and see.
2007-12-31 09:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's his fault for not telling you where & when the concert was. You shouldn't worry about it.
2007-12-31 09:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by dweebken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it clearly was not your fault, I would feel rejected nevertheless. If you had asked him where and what time the concert was, he could have at least saw that you were interested. Things may have been different then.
2007-12-31 09:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by Slick98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he offers another invitation, stop him. Ask when and where the concert takes place, what time it starts, etc. Ask for his phone, so you can text/call and be in the right place @ the right time.
He was not very direct in helping you make the show.
You were not very direct in getting the info.
Next time don't leave the door open for either of you to feel awkward, or for him to feel rejected.
If I were him, I'd be feeling like a fool for not being more confident and direct with you. I'd want you to see that I wanted you there, with me.
2007-12-31 09:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he asked you why didnt you ask him time place all those other basic questions. And if he left you hanging like that than it doesnt seem to me he was so excited on you getting there.
2007-12-31 09:12:59 · answer #11 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋