My gf was working with someone on a music project, HE fell in love with her. I told her that he was manipulating her. She kept working with him, he confronted me for being her boyfriend, a position he feels he should have and I gave him a proper beat down. I told her all the while he wanted to break us up. Now she's regretful for ever having worked with him, how can I forgive her for continuing to work with this guy in the past to spite my my warnings?
2007-12-31 00:37:25 · 16 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She regrets working with him, he made a mistake and now she's aware of it, you can't ask for more than that. Forgive her because she had her own mind and she was looking at it from a different angle. You have to let her make mistakes, even if you know what's best. She didn't give into another man being in love with her, that is sometimes a difficult thing to not get caught up in. You should be grateful that she didn't. It's so hard to see your girlfriend doing something while you're there knowing something's wrong with it, you were looking out for her and your relationship. Good. This is not an issue anymore. Please stop making it one.
2007-12-31 00:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It should be despite your warnings.
Anyway she can work with whom she wants Why on earth should she pull out if he falls for her? He should be asked to pull out. He's the one misbehaving not her.
Very male point of view the women should make way if bf says so. Bu**ocks
2007-12-31 09:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by MissE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was not her fault that this nimrod did what he did, if she had encouraged it or acted on it maybe you would have some right for outrage, but you did not indicate that was the case so grow up and get over it, or she just might move on since she is just a girlfriend and not a wife right?
2007-12-31 09:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by ron s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay busy
2007-12-31 09:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, she obviously learned a lesson from this so why are you having such a hard time forgiving her. Let it go and concentrate on your relationship now. You can't change the past and dwelling on it will only make you and she upset.
2007-12-31 09:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compliments on the proper beat down..
Ok so you were right and she was wrong. She realized that now and you should just forgive and move on. You won dude, let that be enough.
Some women have to see things for themselves and until then it's frustrating to us guys but still, in the end she's with you and that guy is still reeling from the beat down you laid upon him. End of story. You can't live in the past and expect to move forward.
2007-12-31 09:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Dude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is she with you or him??? You won...relax
2007-12-31 09:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by Leannamick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should have been the one to set this guy straight to begin with. you shouldnt have been the one to do it. hopefully he got the message when you beat him down, if not you maywant to have a chatwith your girl about telling people to back off, that shes with someone when put into that kind of position.
2007-12-31 09:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by jstagirl1969 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back off! She is not your PROPERTY! She has done nothing wrong except put up with your childish behavior. You have a problem with HIM....NOT with her. I feel really sorry for her if you think you have the right to FORGIVE her over this.
2007-12-31 09:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Gina C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you LOVE her!
2007-12-31 09:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by itsmetrea 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋