okay i like this guy and i've never met him in person because he lives an hour away and doesnt go to my school also my parents wont let me talk to guys because they are really over protective. well alot of my friends know him so i know hes not some predator or somethin. anyway i talk to him all the time on the phone and aim..well i heard hes gonan ask me out tonight, and i liek him should i say yes, or shoulde i wait till like 3 years[[hes probly be gone]] but should i wait 3 years when im allowed to see a boy; that way i actually see him first before i date him [[i have seen billions of pics of him from my friends]] ansd they tell me all about him and stuff so hes not a stranger, but should i go out with him
2007-12-31 07:48:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2007-12-31 07:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by jimcowboy23 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, you can go out with him.
But only go out with him along with a whole bunch of your other friends, please. This way, you won't have anything to hide from your parents.
mmkay?
Hope it works out.
2007-12-31 08:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time & maturaty your parents will let u have friends of the opposite sex. You shouldnt rush into things & should really concentrate on your studys right now . I know thats like no fun but u will see it will pay off when you get older. Im sorry to say but you will soon see that "most" boys are only after 1 thing . There is nothing wrong with meeting him but make sure it is in a public place & go with a friend. Do not go alone with him anywhere! You may want let your parents know who u will be with & keep them informend. You will see that the more you communicate with your parents the more they will trust u .Just be very carefull!
2007-12-31 08:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by HA HA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yeah!!! if u really like him. Don't let your parents get in the way of your love life. If they do just say.... If i grow up to not love anyone you know who to blame.
2007-12-31 07:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure you can say yes and "go out" with him but do you think that relationship will last since you won't ever get to see him or meet him, at least, not until 3 years go by?? If he does ask you out explain the situation with him and if he is ok with not being able to actually see you then go out with him. Talking on the phone and computer is not having a real boyfriend. Having a boyfriend includes dates and such so you won't be going against your parents wishes if you say yes.
2007-12-31 07:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by j 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try talking to him the minute you get the chance to, ASAP.
whether it be on aim or on the phone or even in person if you get the chance to do so soon.
find out even more about him that you know.
if you like him, try it out!
...but, if you get a notion that its something you really dont feel you should be doing, just stop dating him immediately.
you shouldnt have to hurt yourself or the trust your parents have in you over some guy that you dont particularly know.
personally, just go for it but if you begin to feel uncomfortable, just stop =]
good luck! ..and do what you feel is right. after all, this is just MY personal opinion.
2007-12-31 07:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by nelss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by your question I can only assume you're not very old. If your parents have reasoning to not let you date, due to age then maybe you need to wait. Parents are pretty smart like that sometimes. And if you think that by dating him now you'll keep him around then you are going to start dating him for the wrong reasons. If he's single in three years then wait until then, or just be friends, wait until its a time when you can meet him with friends there, as you'll be more comfortable and have more to talk about with support from your friends.
2007-12-31 07:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by nu4196 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? And how old is the guy your talking about? Yes this does matter........
2007-12-31 07:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by angel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey how old are you? Your parents r not overprotective, this world unfortunently is all messed up. Be careful, older men are after one thing no matter what they say. Yoiu stay awauy unless you have 3 4 friends with you, a cell phone and a back up plan. Never think your parents r out to kill your fun, they just want you to make it. Be smart think twice, What is it that you like about him, you haven't even seen him. If it is just the attention you like, then just keep talking to him on the phone, but never be alone with him.
2007-12-31 07:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by erinsamruiz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u like him then you should go out with him. also dont try to sneak and talk to boys just ask them nicely can you talk to boys on the phone. if you wait 3 years he will probably find someone else to go out with and not like you anymore, so if you like him go out wit him. i hope my advice works
2007-12-31 07:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by T0p N0tc# Gl@m0ur C#iick!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him call me in 10 min.
go call your friend who has a bf and see if you guys and double date you parents could drive and they drive 30 min he drives 30 min let your parents to to him over the phone and...........check out this
http://360.yahoo.com/my_profile-Sa0VZgMyc7QKClZiORM4YIZ81_AyPx88TQ--;_ylt=Aip5vGjf7.RR0hv7ES_9cWjyAOJ3?cq=1
2007-12-31 07:53:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋