What are the most important qualities women...?

Question

seek in a man? Now i understand different strokes for different folks, but there must be a set of core attributes that women must have in their man.

How high does sense of humor rank? And what about being muscular because not every guy is a beefcake..

1000 pts for the best answer

whats more important, the face or the body?

Answer 1

In my personal and empirical studies I've found that sense of humor counts for a lot. In general the heirarchy is something like this:
Appearance
Personality
Confidence level
Sense of humor
Values
Ability to tell the truth
Ambition
Physical prowess

Good luck!!!!

Answer 2

I'm a girl and the three I think for I guy would have to be: The ability to laugh at himself/funny Cute/Handsome/Goodlooking Able to make me feel better on any given day :)

Answer 3

Not all women are alike, so what interests them will never be the same, especially when we are young, as we grow and mature our tastes often change and start to converge a little. I guess maturity has its benefits.

When I was in my 20's I wanted a modern Indiana Jones. Someone who single-handedly rescued a million Everest climbers then wrote a book on an ancient dead language while giving life to refugees in Dafar.

My college roommate, on the other hand, wanted an Italian Stalin- a John Travolta look-a-like who would be the boss. He would tell her what to do and take care of all the problems and needs in her life. Her best friend wanted a guy with a lot of money, while her best friend wanted a fat guy so that when she stood next to him, she looked thinner.

Today, I have very different priorities. My boyfriend and soon to be husband is kind, caring, and highly intelligent. He is responsible and respectful. I love these things about him more than I ever loved the idea that some guy I dated worked for National Geographic or another guy had been to India.

Yes, I took my boyfriend on his first camping trip, his first non-mid-west American meal, and introduced him to his first the poor minority family. Yes, he is a far cry from my altruistic Indiana Jones ideal, but over the years I realized that so were the other men I dated. What matters to me much more nowadays isn't what someone pretends to be, but what they actually are, kindness supersedes status, intelligence supersedes plastic enlightenment and responsibility supersedes dreams .

I'm not in touch with many of my old college friends, so I couldn't tell you if everyone that I went to college with had my "relationship epiphany".but I did hear from one a few months ago - the one who wanted a fat husband so she would look thinner. In all of our e-mails she never once mentioned him even though I knew they were still married, so finally I asked.

"Yes, we are still married..." she wrote cautiously, "but I've decided that being view as fat is worse than being being with a distant man or giving your children a poor father." My guess is that our belief on what is most important in a man are closer together today than when we were in college.

On the other hand, I spoke to my friend's 95 year old mother who had been married to t kindest, most thoughtful man for 75 years. After his death she told me that he was wonderful and that she was very glad that she had spent her life with him, but..... She does still wish that she had dated a cutie with a hot car at some point in her life.

So I guess the bottom line is that none of us are computers, we aren't all programed alike.

PS- my amazing boyfriend is far from a beefcake. He is super thin- and I am much physically stronger. Who cares?!?!?! Certainly not I.

Answer 4

i think its really more about the personality than the looks. he can be funny, sweet, charming, understanding, and doesnt have to look like johhny depp, and still get all the chicks. being good in bed (giving a girl what she wants) is also a plus.

Answer 5

sense of humor is very important to me. muscular is good, but too much is just too much. he's also gotta be honest.

Answer 6

Honesty
Intelligence
Caring
Sense of humor
Not grotesque-looking (no comb-overs)
Clean


After that comes muscles, smile, nice butt, good job, good in bed, and getting along with the in-laws.

Answer 7

i dont care about looks at all. i just want someone around my age who cares for others , swallows their pride and most of all , makes me laugh

Answer 8

If they are sweet, nice, friendly, outgoing, responsible, funny, pretty much whatever the woman wants to see in him. It mostly depends on the woman. If she likes a Bad Boy, then she'll fancy those kind of guys, but if she wants a nice and civilized kind of guy, then she'll fancy that kind of guy! Also, if she is a Christian then she'll seek a Christian man who's kind and generous and makes God one of the main components of his life.

Appearence is only a small part of it. If the guy is like a serious body builder but a complete jerk, then the woman will probably not go for him. But if he was like the fattest guy on the planet but the sweetest thing ever (ex. fat albert), then she also might go for him.

Also, guys shouldn't be too funny and crack jokes at every second he gets or he might annoy the woman too much so she'll start being weirded out by him.

Answer 9

lol, 1000 points? You really want to know. Honesty, sincerity, passion, faithfulness, a sense of humor, being able to count on my man.

Answer 10

having a sense of humor is definitely very important to me, and buff guys can be cute, but most of the time too much muscle is gross to me. also, i hate cocky people. gross!