Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

For food we are having a buffet table, so its not like the waiters need to know where people are sitting to bring them the food they ordered or anything...Are there any other purposes in having a seating chart?

There will be about 60-70 guests and I would prefer to just let them sit wherever they want.

2007-12-31 08:29:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He asked if I would mind if he went out for a few beers while I stay at his place and make a dish for his friend's New Years party. I am curious if this is selfish, if he should have taken me too.

2007-12-31 08:26:10 · 24 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Singles & Dating

My Wife of 4 years is driving me up the wall. I want to leave bad to be on my own and not because i met someone I just want to be free of her. I am only 26 I care for her but I have put her through hell and I don't think there is any going back or making it work. I have cheated and lied, wait she has too. We have split up and got back togeather to many times to count and now when we fight she has started hitting me. Now by no means is she hurting me I am well trained and in the army so she really isn't hurting me it just scares me. I take the blame for the way she acts but I have had enough and I am not afraid of moving on anymore. The fighting is starting to affect my Two young girls too. We are both good parents this only seems to be bad when we are together. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-12-31 08:22:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-31 08:21:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I plan to call my biological father tonight. He walked out on me. Last time I saw him was at age 9.

To put 2007 behind me and my past, I plan to call him tonight.

To ask:
What are you doing right now?
Why did you walk out?
Why did you never contact me?
Why was I never worth your time?
Why don't I mean anything to you?

I plan to do that tonight, then to leave it in 2007, and start 2008 off free from my past.

Has anyone ever confronted a biological parent before? How did it go?

Any tips on what I should say or ask?

I feel like telling him that I hate him for failing me, for never comunicating with me, for showing me I was not worth his time. I feel like telling him I hate him, because he knew my mom married an abusive guy, and he never ever offered to rescue me. He also failed to pay child support, which I don't really care about. What bothers me is he was never there for me. Never there for special moments, or to make me feel special, never there to direct me.

2007-12-31 08:20:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm not really experienced with relationships. But anyway, we were dating for only two months. It wasn't a very serious relationship in my eyes but I guess it was pretty serious in hers. I started to just realize things I didn't like about her and it got to the point that I really just didn't care about her and was noticing other women that I want to hook up with. I guess in the beginning I really liked her but it went cold. She's making a really big deal out of it and being crazy. Did I do anything wrong?

2007-12-31 08:20:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Having had 3 relationships with women that have deep commitment phobia issues , im starting to wonder if i have similar issues, since I chase these types of women in the first place.

I also tend to get them to fall for me quickly, being the white knight always trying to help or protect them, promising them the world emotionally and genuinely meaning it.

I then hang around when the initial "honeymoon" period has ended and its obvious that they have issues with the reationship. I end up being treated badly until the relationship is virtually worthless. Im also confused by their inability to say "Go" to me or to say "Lets finish it" .....

Finally I always hear them say but "I really love you , but dont want to hurt you" ....very confusing since their action are doing exactly that and I keep coming back for more....rather than saying this relationship has changed and get out myself.

Instead I try to get them to fall back in love with me and rekindle the "Honeymoon" period

2007-12-31 08:19:51 · 6 answers · asked by i k 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend really needs to wear a bra. People talk behind her back about this. I tried telling her before but I couldn't. How do I brake it down to her without hurting her feeling?

2007-12-31 08:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by heartsqueen101 3 in Friends

im so sick of life,and getting depressed cos its new years eve,and im alone(well my daughter is in bed),ive had a really rubbish year,and the thing is im sick of been alone,all the guys i know say im beautiful etc but theyve either gor girlfriends or say they dont want anything serious but they willing to sleep with me,so i dont do that,cos i think i deserve more then that,but i just dont get why it seems like im not girlfriend potential or something anymore?

2007-12-31 08:12:35 · 18 answers · asked by sharpay 1 in Singles & Dating

ok its soo weird!! but im 13 and i dont want to grow up.
I still want to do kids stuff but everyone is like "grow up" you are a Teenager!!! not a kid!! that really annoys me what should i do??
should i just grow up?

2007-12-31 08:12:11 · 9 answers · asked by Amy C 3 in Singles & Dating

Please serious answers!

2007-12-31 08:11:48 · 18 answers · asked by THEMrsMinLa&Momof2 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 08:10:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 08:10:41 · 2 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

So do u think its wrong to think of someone else while you are already in a relationship with someone, is it cheating? or is it lack of interest in your current relationship? Thanks

2007-12-31 08:10:14 · 29 answers · asked by live_life_large 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 08:10:05 · 23 answers · asked by GOODE OR GOOD AT IT!!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For quite sometimes now I've seen this guy who I now care about. We dated for a brief period of time 6yrs ago. But things didn't work out because I was too young so I broke it off with him. We went our separate ways. Thereafter I got married to now my husband. During our marriage, my husband had done so many unfaithful things. To make the story short, I met him again during my rough marriage time. I start to care for him and I want to end my marriage. I told my husband what happened but the thing is that my husband seems okay with it. I meant he wouldn't get mad if I go to see this guy. He still treat me like a wife. This isn't what I'd in mind when I told him the story. Some other husbands would've already shown the wives the doors, but not my husband. Why? He even let me go to see the new guy if I want then pretend that everything is okay and still says he loves me and continue on ourlives. I'm shocked!

2007-12-31 08:08:49 · 26 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is always making me cry and is really mean to me....and its if like i am doing something bad all the time....like i just called him from mexico but i had to borrow a phone so i gave someone like 50 dollars just to use it and when he answered he told me that i just wasted my money and that i was a dumb whore....he never used to be like that....what do i do....i am so confused we have been dating for like almost a year why has he suddenly changed...

2007-12-31 08:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by biancadeniseee. 2 in Singles & Dating

When i went off to college, i met a great guy who i've been dating for almost four months. I really care about him, but we live on opposite coasts, the distance is really difficult over the long breaks. i've also kept in touch over the semester with a guy from my hometown, and would find myself flirting with the guy over emails and such. We hung out once recently, and i told him that i couldnt talk to him anymore because it was getting in the way of my relationship. he was a little upset, but then i gave him a hug, and a kiss as a sort of final goodbye. No tongue or anything, just a peck. I didnt mean that much by it, but i'm still unsure if i should tell my boyfriend or not. I wont do it again obviously, but what should i do???

2007-12-31 08:03:23 · 19 answers · asked by lovelylady098 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm still a virgin, but I was going to have sex and I couldn't get 'turned on' I mean, I was turned on but... I was really nervous and it got really really little. (And I'm not that big anyway.) But I could tell my girlfriend was really freaked out. She said she didn't care, and it didn't matter, but I think she was lying. It was so embarrasing, I don't know what to do... I haven't talked to her since then, and I don't know what to say.

2007-12-31 08:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Gals, how do you handle guys in a bar/club that get a little to friendly with you when you want nothing to do with them or are not interested in them at all. And when you indicate you aren't interested they still flirt/hit on you.

2007-12-31 08:01:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he stops tallking to me whenever for weeks and months ... it bothers me and i am ready to d anything for him but he doesnt want to say anything and singles him out even from kids

2007-12-31 08:01:05 · 13 answers · asked by idijo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Also what is best liquor for sexy time on New Year's Eve?

2007-12-31 08:00:33 · 13 answers · asked by bigbuttcheek 3 in Singles & Dating

If I have any tax penalties will he suffer the consequences?

2007-12-31 07:59:08 · 10 answers · asked by Confused2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the most annoying little brother like i was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and i was saying something about my yahoo 360 and my little brother walks in and was like no that's shea's 360... well mmm no that would be weird if that was his... cause that is mine... wtf... i hate when my little brother gets in my business... he really pisses me off... and i wish he wasn't my little brother.. i hate him, walking in on something that he doesn't even know what was being said or anything... **** that dude... really...
From The Person Who Doesn't Want A Little Brother Any More...

2007-12-31 07:56:39 · 10 answers · asked by tieu30thu 2 in Family

This is probably the fifth time he has gone to jail in the last 4-5 years. We have three small children and we do not own any property. He treats me nice sometimes, buying me jewelery and handbags. But he is constantly yelling and criticizing me. He keeps me stressed and depressed. I'm tired of the whole thing. In the past there has been physical abuse. He has stopped that, because I have told people about it, but he still threatens the abuse if I don't shut up. I need to get away from him. He has gone to jail and we do not have enough money to cover all the expenses. I am giving up our apartment and will put his things in storage. The guilt comes in when he is released he will not have any home to go to. Should I feel guilty? Should I try to get him someplace to live? Or is it his problem. Also, I will be paying his truck note and car ins while he is away.

2007-12-31 07:55:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi! I'm having my rehersal dinner at my parents house. I'm looking for ideas on themes, or food, anything to make it special, but not overly expensive. I thought of doing chinese food because my fiancee and I met at a chinese food place. Any thoughts are appreciated!

2007-12-31 07:52:44 · 19 answers · asked by just me 4 in Weddings

2007-12-31 07:52:40 · 26 answers · asked by shorda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Kay so theres this guy that I REALLY like... he walks slowly by me and doesn't care if his friends pass him. He comes over to my house just to hang out. He smiles and laughs when ever he looks at me. He trys to act cooler than he actually is around me. But around his friends he likes to tease me...
He has his moments where he says "i didnt know your eyes are blue" and he stares me straight in the eyes for what seems like minutes. I asked him to a dance and he said "sure" but wouldnt buy a ticket untill his friends went to buy lunch. Yet while hes around his friends are evesdropping he wont talk to me. He wont accept the food he asked for that I bought him until they leave. And he always says I DONT LIKE HER to his friends but they say he does!! But not around mee. I really like him but i dont know who should ask who out and if he likes me! DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!?!?!?! SOOO guys.. i need your help...

2007-12-31 07:52:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I give you orgaisms every time we have sex but i want to give her a maxium orgaism. Also i want it to last longer for her. PLEASE HELP

2007-12-31 07:51:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so there is this guy who i have liked for about a month. He will flirt with me and be all cute then sometimes just totally ignore me. Then I will get mad but then the next day he will smile at me and talk and flirt and all my anger goes away. What should I do? I am starting to get sick of the mixed messages.

2007-12-31 07:48:24 · 11 answers · asked by Cleveland Browns Girl! Go team! 2 in Singles & Dating