im so sick of life,and getting depressed cos its new years eve,and im alone(well my daughter is in bed),ive had a really rubbish year,and the thing is im sick of been alone,all the guys i know say im beautiful etc but theyve either gor girlfriends or say they dont want anything serious but they willing to sleep with me,so i dont do that,cos i think i deserve more then that,but i just dont get why it seems like im not girlfriend potential or something anymore?
2007-12-31 08:12:35 · 18 answers · asked by sharpay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT BE DEPRESSED! Theres a guy out there for you. I think all those guys are afriad you are just to good for them..THIS IS COMING FROM A GUY so believe me. You are very beautiful
2007-12-31 08:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by KansasGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People, in an effort to be supportive, will make all kinds of suggestions. Some will show some measure of insight, others will be downright idiotic. I would like to address those that relate to your daughter. If having a daughter keeps you from meeting certain people in your life, you aren't missing a thing because those people truly weren't worth your time or worth knowing. Yes, being a single parent is a difficult, sometimes thankless job, but you want to surround yourself with people who realize that your children are the most precious gifts you'll ever receive and raising them is the most important job you'll ever do.
Now, (back to the original topic), what's wrong with you?: Nothing...being a parent isolates you somewhat because you have somewhere else to be, and you have a duty to be more skeptical than the average person because you have to be guarded about who is allowed around your child. There are mothers and fathers all over the place experiencing the same things, but they're generally too busy to find each other. So busy they barely have time to think about themselves, so tired they've left the house in mismatched shoes on a well-baby doctor's visit; so lonely they lie awake some nights wondering if their better days are already behind them...but so honorable that they'll get up tomorrow and do it all over again.
I don't have a crystal ball to tell you how things are going to turn out, but I know none of us are really meant to be alone...but we have to play the cards we're dealt until the situation changes. I wish you every happiness and best of luck, now and in the future. Happy New Year.
2007-12-31 16:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya,im simular situation as yourself my daughter is in bed and im just on this computer feeling sorry for myself lol..ah no i know how you feel suppose we just havent met the man of our dreams yet!!!if he exists.
chin up girl we wont be on our own forever even if it feels that way now.
all the best for 2008 things can only get better i hope!!!
happy new year at least we have beautifull kids to be proud of what could be better than that.be thinking of you at midnight.god bless...
2007-12-31 16:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by miss curiousity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow calm down
2007-12-31 16:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by wakeboardchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always told that I was always attracted to women that weren't available. The saying goes " we always want what we can't have". You're attracted to men who aren't attracted to you and you should probably look around, you probably have some guy right under your nose that would love to be your boyfriend and treat you better then you've ever been treated. You like the bad guys don't you??????
2007-12-31 16:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by seakametoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be because your thinking of yourself in that light.. try to look foreward to each day with your daughter and love the life you live for awile.. you might find that a perfect guy for you will come along when you stop looking for him ;p really..
fyi: when my mom was single and i was a baby, i was her new years date one year, the pictures we still have are priceless and i guearantee that we were all eachother needed at the time
live the life you love and love the life you live!! good luck!
2007-12-31 16:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by *~shorty~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u ever notice how when your happy with your life and not looking for a boyfriend thats when someone comes along? Men are funny that way.. its like they can sense you want them and it repells them somehow.. Also maybe you are looking for the wrong sorta Guy.. The best guys are the ones sitting in the corner.. there shy.. even might be nerdy or a bit overweight.. If you can look past that you will find the most sweetest men.. the kind that know what they have, don't want to loose it.. and will treat u like a princess..
2007-12-31 16:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holidays are very tough for people. Winter can also be tough. I doubt that this is the answer you want to hear, but take care of your daughter for the next few years. Learn about who you are. Do volunteer work and that will make you feel better about yourself and who you are and what you are doing. I don't think you have good taste in men...take a vacation from them and do other things. When you learn that you don't need them, you might find that your taste improves. Best of luck. Don't be sad...you'll be fine.
2007-12-31 16:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because you have a daughter.
most guys just don't like going out with someone who has kids.
2007-12-31 16:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by JH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is something wrong with them? Or maybe, they are not the right one for you. You have a whole world of people on the internet, so you are not alone! The right guy will come along!!
2007-12-31 16:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by michial1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋