I'm not really experienced with relationships. But anyway, we were dating for only two months. It wasn't a very serious relationship in my eyes but I guess it was pretty serious in hers. I started to just realize things I didn't like about her and it got to the point that I really just didn't care about her and was noticing other women that I want to hook up with. I guess in the beginning I really liked her but it went cold. She's making a really big deal out of it and being crazy. Did I do anything wrong?
2007-12-31 08:20:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright that's enough answers. Thanks.
I did break up with her. In person.
I told her I just wanted to see other people and that I dind't want to be in a relationship. I lied because I dind't want to hurt her by saying I really don't care about her anymore.
2007-12-31 08:33:22 · update #1
As long as you were honest with her, I don't see anything wrong.
You only dated 2 months, so how big a deal does she want to make it?
You liked her, went out with her, lost interest, and broke up with her so you both can look for someone else you're more compatible with. Sounds pretty reasonable to me, unless there's something you left out.
If she's going crazy over this, then clearly you did the right thing.
2007-12-31 08:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by whiskeyman510 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,it just was'nt meant to be.It would happen sooner or later.If you did'nt think it would work then it won't.It is better to get it over with ,and move on with your life.
2007-12-31 08:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just let things die and stop contacting her alltogether, or did you break up with her? Sometimes it can be a big deal if you are not honest with your reasons for breaking up.
In my eyes, it is wrong to let a relationship just go "cold".
Move on, you can't correct the way you broke up with her. What is done is done.
2007-12-31 08:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by MsSoccerBunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you aren't into her, then there's no reason in continuing with the relationship. But unless you gave her the impression you were way into her than you actually were, then you didn't do anything wrong. Some people get really attached even if the feeling isn't reciprocated....she may just be a little obsessive. Or, she isn't taking rejection well.
2007-12-31 08:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really but think of it from her point of view......of course shes mad! but its not really your fault and breakups happen. So dont blame yourself just apoligize about it. She'll come around.
2007-12-31 08:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you didnt, everybody has their own reasons and I guess she just takes things the wrong way! leave her alone and let her think if the relationship was rite or rong!
2007-12-31 08:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Soccer Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months isnt a long time, so no you didnt do anything wrong. You did what was best for you
2007-12-31 08:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by bianca 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
People grow apart, and she needs to realize that.
Does she want you to stay in the relationship and be miserable? Or cheat on her because you no longer feel the chemistry between you two?
I think you have enough justification to break up with her.
2007-12-31 08:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by erasedsilhouette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you do anything wrong?
yes, you broke up with her for lame reasons
If she was serious about it and you up and leave she's going to take it hard.
2007-12-31 08:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sydney Carton 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
no you didn't do anything wrong.
stay the course.
2007-12-31 08:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Doodles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋