Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

over a ex???
dont tell me is not worth it, and im sure anyone here already done it, just tell me what u done and what happen to them???

2007-12-31 08:59:55 · 54 answers · asked by Cuca C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today is my 16th birthday,, and i didn't have a party or anything..i'm just gonna have dinner and cake with my mom, dad and sister.And they got me an ipod =] But this girl i know is having a party today and it;s her birthday too. (The party is like celebrating both New Years & her b-day) Me and my best friend really wanted to go and were looking forward to it..but now i'm starting to doubt it because my dad isn't gonna be home, he has to go to work and won't come home until like 12 or 1 am. So my mom will just be celebrating New years at home with my 6 year old sister, she's not even gonna drink champange because she's gonna have to pick up my dad from work...even though we are having a snow storm..she wouldn't have to pick my dad up if she didn't have to drive me to the party. I feel bad, but i wanna go. What do i do? I talked to her about it and she said to not worry about her and just go have fun...but i feel bad! :(

2007-12-31 08:59:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-31 08:58:35 · 30 answers · asked by smoothfella809 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am curious...what is your favorite moment of 2007. if you dont have one then what is the worst moment (i dont want you to bring back bad memories or anything though).

happy new year everyone. have fun in 2008 :].

2007-12-31 08:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by Kaysee 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been out 4 times and talking for 2 months. I miss him because he is with his family about 350 miles away. Should I call him at midnight, text messgae him at midnight or just call him in the am????

Thanks!!

Happy 2008!!!

2007-12-31 08:56:35 · 44 answers · asked by RENEE915 4 in Singles & Dating

Some women from a church that my future mother in law used to work at have decided to throw me a bridal shower. This is very awkward for me first of all because I don't even KNOW these women. Our budget is tight and we are paying for the wedding and we don't want to pay for meals for people we don't know or love. Do we have to invite them since they are throwing me a shower and buying us gifts?

2007-12-31 08:55:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-31 08:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sorry if this is long.

One of my very close friends is getting married this upcoming summer. We recently graduated college in May 2007 and got jobs in cities about 1.5 hours from one another. We have both been rather busy starting our careers and getting settled, but talk on the phone and e-mail regularly and plan visits every 2-3 months. I was the first person after family that she called when she returned from Greece with her new fiance. We were sorority sisters in college and spent a great deal of time together and were extremely close.

I would say that her closest friends in college were two different groups of three girls. Our 'groups' liked one another a great deal and often went out together as a larger group of girls, but we were closest to the other girls within our smaller groups.

I remember talking to my friend about her wedding and she told me that she would like to informally ask me to be a bridesmaid, and of course, I agreed.

2007-12-31 08:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by Izzie 2 in Weddings

2007-12-31 08:54:22 · 29 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family

just because she's my mother, why does everyone think were supposed to get along. we are two different people, with different ideas, if i had never met her before, i still wouldn't like her. we just don't get along. is there anyone else like that?

2007-12-31 08:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive bin feeling quite down lately,self concious and missing the guy i really like!! i dont even go out with him but it feels like part of me is missing now! we saw each othe a couple of times but it turned out to nothing..he said he wasnt wanting a relationship just now but he said he wouldnt never go out with me..whenever someone trys to cheer me up it doesnt work,,what should i do?

2007-12-31 08:51:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked a question earlier dealing with "highschool sweethearts" and I got alot of answers saying they dont work... so i was just seeing how many people "higschool sweethearts" or just married couples made it that people know... or didn't make it. Thanks in advance!

2007-12-31 08:51:32 · 16 answers · asked by Katy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What do boys think about girls
Why I ask this question because I don’t have a bother to give me this lecture
So I would like to know

2007-12-31 08:50:35 · 32 answers · asked by IHaveQuestions 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for over 6 years and been the best of friends for about 11... yet I still get the giggly happy thing when I think of her.
If I could give all of you one thing for this new year it would be to have a babah like mine.

Happy new year everybody.

2007-12-31 08:49:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok. theres this one guy. well he and i first started being friends we hit it off rite away and were best friends. then rumors started going around about how we should go out and that he likes me, etc, etc. well we never really talked about them and i kinda knew that um liked me and i was begining to like him. then he didn't want to be my friend. all of the sudden he completely ignored me for about a month. i didn't do anything wrong. i was so upset.then um decided that he wanted to be my friend again. he said that he needed a 'break' and that he got off of it bc he didn't like the 'break'. well now i called him and he never answers. i txt and theres no answer. but the more he doesnt answer the mor e i want to talk to him. then i email him and (usually after a couple days) he answers thoughs. so y wont he call me.
problem:
i dont want ot nag him by saying wats wrong
i want to call him but i know he wont pick up or call me back.
hes great in person.
i want him to want me

2007-12-31 08:49:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 08:48:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i dont know nothing about my mother really.. no names.. no pictures.. no nothing.. i just know she was a muslim.. and she was 19 when she had me.. she wasnt suppose to have me until she was marride [[ but i think she had me with the guy she "DONE" it with ]] but idk.. i know i was born.. at the San Bernardino hospital born on january 11th 1995 but idk anything eles.. i was woundering.. is there any possible way of me finding her? i cant ask my parents about her because everytime i ask they say "i dont know" i guess its a hurt for them knowing that there "daughter" wants to know about her real mother right? pleeeeeeeease i need some help or advise on how to find my real mother!! this has been a HUGE hurt for me for over 7 YEARS! i have known this! pleeeeeeease help me! thank you!

2007-12-31 08:47:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Even when im mi self around people they tell me dat dey dont like me n dat im lame. I have no friends n i have no confidence n mi self b/c of it. I wish dat i could have a ture friend dta liks me 4 who i am n not b/c i have things dat dey want o need. all da boys dat i date expect to traet me bad but onlii b wit me 4 a little amount of time to get mi n bed n den leave me turst me im not liat ive learned mi lesson da first real b/f i had did dat to me he ****** me then left me sooo i dont do dat no mo.

2007-12-31 08:47:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

also do they automatically assume their $lu+$?

2007-12-31 08:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why? Why not?

2007-12-31 08:45:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yea... it seems that i only enjoy the beginning part of a relationship. as soon as it gets steady, i feel bored. then try to get a new one. i m so much afraid of thinking marriage (although im no longer young, people of my age got married years ago and their kids are half adults!) im a girl. girls like marriage, but I don't. what's wrong w me?

2007-12-31 08:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by shine question 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i need to get married (documents) what do i bring to the court house? Do you make an appointment? or just walk in? i live in california

2007-12-31 08:42:35 · 24 answers · asked by michele k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a twenty six year old Vietnamese female who has fallen in deep love with a Lithuanian 18 year old guy who used to go to college in New York but now has launched his singing career because of me so now were making our own album together we hope to model together now also the problem is things seem to perfect a little to perfect he has been sleeping over at my house now down in LA and he loves it we watch movies together party together and cuddle together no matter what me and him are always together and we never fight i love him to death he is the cutest funniest sweetest thing ever and tonight i think he may pop the question at tila tequila new years eve. bash i am scared though will things last forever like this PLEASE HELP?

2007-12-31 08:42:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23 and i wanted to save my virginity till i was married, well when i was 18 i meet this girl, and we dated for 3 years and was on the path to marriage and we decided 2 have sex, so we did and it became a regular habit...I was like a kid in a candy store, well come to find out she was cheating on me with my so called best friend so we parted, it took me a long time to move on and i finally did and meet this girl that was super hot, we had sex a couple of times, but then i started having problems getting it up, and when i did, in the middle of sex it would go down. I thought it would be sensitivity problems but we tried a couple of times without it and i was able to keep it up one time, other times it went limp again. Since i didn't ever sleep with more than 1 girl do you think it's my mind, worryin about performance and satisfying the girl? I even tried a 100mg viagra, and it stayed hard, but it wasn't a good hard on, like lately i've been havin like 6" erections, when the norm is 8

2007-12-31 08:41:18 · 10 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Singles & Dating

He asked me something that he had asked my before so I didn't notice but I was saying something with an attitude. Then he started threatening to beat the sh!t out of me and he was screaming and cussing at me and he was calling me an ungreatful little f*cker. What should I do? I hate him so much.

2007-12-31 08:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok my mom and dad got married and had me ten they got a divorce and my mom married my stepdad then my mom died and my dad got custody of me then we moved in with my stepdad and his friend and now my stepdad is going to get married and his new family is going to move in and i still live here and call him my stepdad and i would consider his new wife and stepson my stepfamily. is that screwed up? is that wrong?? help!!!

2007-12-31 08:37:22 · 12 answers · asked by drama queen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 08:35:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm hurting so much. over a year ago my 23 year old/only brother died. At the time i was with my best friend for over 6 years, always knew he wouldn't marry me because of cultural differences, his family not mine, my family loved him and already treated him like their own. it was so hard going through my brother's death but having him around helped alot, then last year he met a girl through his family and little by little they got engaged, they just got married. aside from a few e-mails he is no longer in my life. i have been seeing somene new, at first i was happy, but now i am dying inside. the pain of my brother's loss and the love of my life marrying another is too much to bear. i have good days and bad ones, this is a bad one. what can i do? i know it takes time,but months after i hurt even more. i go to bed and wake up with such horrible anxiety and pain, it's killing me. i travel, go out with friends and family but i see no end to this pain. I deserve to be happy, help!

2007-12-31 08:33:17 · 4 answers · asked by wahtthefuckiswrongwithme 1 in Family

I am engaged and I was talking to my dad the other day and he suggested that my fiance and i take time away from eachother ... like a week or 2... not talking or anything to see how we feel afterwards and to see is we still want to be together. Should I or shouldnt i do it?

I know i love him and i know i want to be with him and my dad said he did it with his current wife and they have been able to work things out SOO much better than he was able to with my mom (then again my mom is reallly stubborn). I know he is looking out for me and not trying to break us up, if he was he would flat out say we should break up..hes tried to break up an ex and me before and flat out said it...so he is just looking out for me.

so what should we do? should we take the break or should we just keep talking because we both have said we dont need to figure it out because we know?

2007-12-31 08:29:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 08:29:39 · 13 answers · asked by ajeta 1 in Singles & Dating