2007-12-31 08:58:35 · 30 answers · asked by smoothfella809 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop cheating?
2007-12-31 09:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Change your screen name?
2007-12-31 21:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Skittles are M & M wannabees 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth that all men cheat and to grow up and deal with it.
2007-12-31 21:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look at women in a way that shows you don't care what your wife thinks, or if you flirt, then you can't blame her for thinking that. I don't know what you're doing and whether she is wrong, but you have to tell her once and for all you are not cheating. Ask her to show you proof and anything she suggests is proof, you can explain how she came to that conclusion and how incorrect it may be.
Otherwise, if it is true, you're in trouble, brother, and it won't be long before she catches you in the act.
2007-12-31 17:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by ph1966 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most wifes don't just accuse her husband of cheating all the time unless they have been cought in the past . did you cheat on someone else to be with her? if so then she may figure you will do the same to her. are you spending your nights at home with her or somewhere else? has she caught you with girls names in your phone? has she caught you in lies? has she found expensives on your credit card for clubs or places you didn't take her? if you spend alot of time gone at night or when you are not working then she wonders why. no matter how many years you are married, you should still make her feel like she is the most important part of your life . she is the other part of your soul . if she didn't love you, she wouldn't care . she would just find someone else . it's reasons like this that women cheat of leave. you are the only one who knows why she might be feeling this way and only you can fix it . covince her with more than words . offer to take her with you . is this worth losing her for or is she worth fighting for ?
2007-12-31 17:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by wilma f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have a lot of time that you are unable to account for. If she is your wife, you should be home NUzzzling up with her. Or, whatever........... ( have fun Kiddies)
2007-12-31 17:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ol' Skool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me and then he told all our friend that my "suspicions" were ruining our relationship and he swore to all of them he would die before he would ever cheat on me. Then his other woman phoned me and the jig was up for him.
He swore in counseling and to me he was ashamed of his behavior and would never ever cheat on me again. Today I found a phone number written in red nail polish in my bedroom while I have been away to visit my mother.
Since he cheated the first time and was caught because she phoned me to tell me and asked me if it was true we were getting a divorce I would never trust him again.
I have prayed to forgive him and to be able to know he could be trusted, but I do not believe he can be.
A woman knows when there is something going on in her marriage. Men suddenly bring a new move in their love making, and there are small changes that show up, there is smells of another woman, there is guilty eyes, there are signs women know because they are more sensitive.
Last night my husband did something he has never done with me before and I knew someone taught him that. This morning I have found the phone number in bright red nail polish which I don't and would never wear.
2007-12-31 17:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you give her a reason to believe you cheated on her? What type of door did you allow to be opened that is causing doubt in her mind? Be as honest as you can with your wife at all times no matter what and keep open communication with each other. There is a problem and if you love your wife that much then you will have to help her get to the root of the problem.
I pray that this too shall pass and you and your wife will have a bless and successful marriage in 2008.
2007-12-31 17:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Tas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex use to accuse me too it was so far from the truth , my ex had a control problem.....
2007-12-31 17:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are or have you? What's the reason she doesn't trust you? Fixing that should be your number one priority.
2007-12-31 17:06:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she think that you are cheating? Did you suddenly start dressing more attractively, wearing aftershave, going out for long periods of unaccounted time?
Has your sex life changed? Have you become cold?
Was your father a cheater? Was hers? Is there a history of cheating? Do you like to oogle other women in her presence? Are you a flirt?
These are all things to think about which may cause her to think you are cheating. The way to calm her fears is to assure her that you are not and exhibit the behavior to match.
2007-12-31 17:05:42 · answer #11 · answered by realst1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋