ive bin feeling quite down lately,self concious and missing the guy i really like!! i dont even go out with him but it feels like part of me is missing now! we saw each othe a couple of times but it turned out to nothing..he said he wasnt wanting a relationship just now but he said he wouldnt never go out with me..whenever someone trys to cheer me up it doesnt work,,what should i do?
2007-12-31 08:51:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i dont know your age, but either way..the fact is life is way to precious to spend it worrying over a guy that only wants a friendship or less! Be yourself and take care of yourself now. do not worry about how he feels, if you miss him..find a way to preoccupy your time. im sure hes not worrying about u so much rite now, hes not even bothering to waste his time. maybe you need to find out what you like to do as a hobby and in your spare time give urself a boost of confidence by going out and making a new friend by finding someone else you are attracted to somehow. be optimistic and never let a mans opinion about you bring you down...other nice cute guys may think differently. you seem like a nice person,. dress up and go out..let the new year bring u better opportunities, dont let it be the beginning of more stress!
2007-12-31 08:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie B, Unfortunetly we do not always get what we want but there is always tomorrow.Try to focus your mind on somthing reachable ! That does not involve someone else.
2007-12-31 09:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get like this too, and i hate it! it sucks how much males control our emotions doesn't it?
but you know what's been really working for me? although i never completely forget about guys, ive been using my time alone to better myself.
for example, ive been going to the gym a lot more, and giving myself manicures and pedicures. this way, i'm feeling a ton better about myself, and reminding myself that I am the most important person in my life!! also, since im working on making myself look better, i get a little more satisfaction when the boys come around, noticing my better looks and confidence.
i really reccommend you try this! YOU are the most important person in your life! put yourself first and take care of yourself. have fun with your friends and once you're happy with yourself things will work out better.
2007-12-31 08:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in touch with your mom, dad, family tonight, and whatever happens, I wish you a happy new year's!
2007-12-31 08:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try taking 5-htp. its over the counter they sell it at walmart for about $7. its wonderful! it will help you pull your self out of the dumps.
2007-12-31 08:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Aubrey S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you should go out with a nice guy like me instead :)
Cheer up!
Salazar
2007-12-31 08:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let time heal your wounds.
2007-12-31 08:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by wSw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UGH SAME FEELING .. THE HOLE CHRITMAS AND NEW YEAR THING.. REALLY UPSETS ME TO..MABEY IM JUST WEIRD..BUT I THINK ABOUT PEOPLE I WANT .. LIKE BOYS AND THAT REALLY UPSTEAS ME :s XxX
2007-12-31 08:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get checked
2007-12-31 08:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by twinkletoe111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep busy doing something else
2007-12-31 08:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by Being Happy is a Fairy Tale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋