yea... it seems that i only enjoy the beginning part of a relationship. as soon as it gets steady, i feel bored. then try to get a new one. i m so much afraid of thinking marriage (although im no longer young, people of my age got married years ago and their kids are half adults!) im a girl. girls like marriage, but I don't. what's wrong w me?
2007-12-31 08:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by shine question 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok, one more thing. i was in girls school, and had my first date at age 20. maybe im trying to compensate for the days i lost. not sure.
i can't tolerate boredness or loneliness. so im having a big issue now I guess.
2007-12-31 08:52:55 · update #1
You haven't meet the right guy yet.
2007-12-31 08:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you except you have a phobia of commitment it is quite natural for some people. I think your best plan to get some professional therapy sessions maybe it is time to figure out why you act like this in relationships. Why it is hard for you to consider settling down and staying with just one person.
I think you mayt have deeper issues you have not come to grips with and this is a reason you hy away for stability and
commitment. Figure this out first then you may be finally able to settle with one person and enjoy married life.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-12-31 16:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. If more people were like you, the divorce rate would be so much lower. I think it is honorable that you are waiting for the right person. Good luck to you.
2007-12-31 16:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by JoliCart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so quick to rope all girls in the same corral! Not ALL of us like marriage! I'm in it, but I wonder if I should be. Maybe I'm not made for marriage. You might need to find someone in your life who won't make you bored. Most people will make you feel bored...but you need to find a guy who maybe gets just as bored in relationships as you do. That way you guys can both commit to find a way that you can both be happy. I mean, like maybe it would make both of you happy to not be togehter for a short time. You could take a vacation or he could, then you guys could come back and bet together like you were never separated.
Being bored after the first part of the relationship is normal. There's nothing wrong with you! I just think that you might have a lower tolerance for boredom, which means that you'll need to find ways to keep things exciting and new. Don't marry someone who prizes tradition--they will bore you too soon!
2007-12-31 16:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does this make something wrong. It's just the way you are.
2007-12-31 16:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married. You might throw the baby out with the bath water.
2007-12-31 16:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You are just not ready to commit. I suggest you just date and avoid the relationship thing for a while.
2007-12-31 16:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met the right guy yet honey-that's all!
2007-12-31 16:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing,,,nothing at all...you like living alone and prefer it that way....
we are all different..this is what makes the world go round...as long as you are not misleading someone...you are doing absolutely nothing wrong..
2007-12-31 16:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋