Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

what do men really want in women

2007-12-31 09:25:55 · 9 answers · asked by gin 2 in Singles & Dating

need some real in depth avdice on carrying a conversation with guys. im quite a shy person. but once i open up...i am friendly and apprently 'funny' :)

but in general im just dont know what to say to the opposite sex. i tend to get nervous, stutter and try to avoide those quiet moments, when just dont know what to say. i just hate the thought of coming across boring! coz im not! i just cant get that normal relaxed placid person out.

however...i can manage on one to one conversations fairly well...like keep the convo going ..but when confronted by a bunch og guys...and me the only girl...i clam up! freak out! try to end the conversation sharpish.

so bascally HELP ME!

thanks happy new yr

ps. im 21yrs old girl!

2007-12-31 09:23:57 · 7 answers · asked by girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Hes so nice and i really like him, funny e.t.c we have tonnes in common but hes 19 soon, and im 15 in may, hes told me he really likes me e.t.c but theres almost a 5yr age difference...i know its not as bad when you get older but at the moment. just like some opinions?

2007-12-31 09:23:53 · 46 answers · asked by Toni ;] 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. She broke up with because she said she didn't love me the way she used to. We talked it out and said she was too busy for a relationship (which isn't bullshit she really is always busy), she also said she was still physically attracted to me, and that she can still see herself in a relationship with me after she graduates from her dance academy (this summer),maybe. I'm wanting to ask her to be friends with benefits since we still hang out a little and have remained friends. I'm willing to accept that it is sex and purely sex. I not going to be led on or be expecting what we once had. I know she enjoyed the sex with me, but I'm not sure she wants to have sex outside a relationship because she never has with me or previous guys. How should I go about talking to her about this and asking her. Help me.

2007-12-31 09:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in missouri. He lives in Las vegas. He is the most uhmazing guy ihave ever met in my whole entire life. He makes me feel good about myself.when im done he tries everything to cheer me up. But i have some trust issues My X-boyfriend got a girl pregnant. but she also was my best friend. He told me he would never hurt me. He did. I met jamie.My life started changing .my grades got better.my attittude changed. Jamie told a couple of my friends he wouldnt hurt me..i want to believe him but i cant. I have a couple of his friends on msn. and i asked them if they thought he really liked me, they said yeah . we got into arguement last night . because when i first met his friend he thought i was rikki. thats the girl that his friend said he acted the same way towards her. but anyways last night he told me that he was the only girl that hes actually loved. but i dont know if i want to be in a long distance relationship anymore.. Any advice. ?

2007-12-31 09:23:32 · 6 answers · asked by Breezy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 09:21:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she only lives 5hrs away with her two kids and she didnt visit like she had planned because my mom left unexpectedly out of town. My dad and brother spent the holidays alone. do you think? i think shes a F*ing B*. i was thinking of talking to her and getting things straightened out between us when she came for xmas and she didnt. she doesnt give a damn huh?

2007-12-31 09:18:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hey there everyone, i know the new year is coming soon and all, but i think that i've hurt someone that i care very much about. the minutes r just going by... and i have no idea wat to do.

i don't want any of us to start off on the wrong foot.
any advice? thx everyone. and a happy new year.

2007-12-31 09:17:10 · 11 answers · asked by Kellie K. 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 09:17:04 · 14 answers · asked by pharmacy mama 2 in Singles & Dating

your husband came home from work and not ten minutes thru the door announces he wants to go to the CASINO? .....Did not ask if I cared to go.
(Maybe because I'm 34w4d pregnant and barely getting around seeing as how baby is already estimated to be about 8lbs. 13ozs.)
But then gets an attitude because you don't want him to go.
One of us is being selfish do you think it's me or him?
And why do you think so?

2007-12-31 09:16:57 · 22 answers · asked by THIC007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at my friends boyfriends house with my friend Katelin..her boyfriend Adam..and his friend Jo. I really like Jo..but he doesnt want a relationship with me =( I read his texts secretly and hes talking to this girl again sayin love you loads at the end of his texts with LOADS of kisses =( ...anyways I really like him so im ok with just being like friends with benefits && well me and jo were in adams bed bcoz his parents wernt in && adam n katelin were in his parents bed. Adam came in the room once looking for a pair of shorts to wear instead of his trousers because he was too hot and jo started to finger me while he was in the room..yeah he did it when he wasnt there too but we were in the middle of a rest when he walked in. Also the next mornin adam and katelin came into the room again and layed on the sofa bed and he started doing it again. Why does he like doing it even more when people come in the room? I know I shouldnt but its really hard to resist LOL

2007-12-31 09:16:43 · 5 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 09:14:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a pretty energetic person, which leads me to not watch my mouth. i can barely sit still and when i have to, i start to talk a lot and loudly. most of the time, i do not even watch what i say. i just say random garbage that turns people off. also, i tend to ask a lot of questions, which people find annoying because they feel like they are being interrogated. people say i am a really nice person, but they find me annoying. i am starting to notice that people will not even come around me. i thought my school is anti-social, but i now realize that people are just anti-social around me. what are some tips for remaining nice but less obnoxious?
8 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-12-31 09:13:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anything you like about girls put down or anything guys like about them put down

2007-12-31 09:13:31 · 18 answers · asked by Annie S 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so a guy a like told me about a month ago we should just be friends. but the other day at our christmas party at school. he sat next to me in the same chair and he took a brush and starting playing with my hair. then on the bus, he started to ask me questions like what my last name was, or why my hair was so pretty. so does he like me or not?!

2007-12-31 09:13:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man 40 yrs old who I have been dating for 3 months. everything going fine, he said he was gonna call me the next day at 1pm to tell me exactly when he was coming up because he wanted to spend new years' with me. He never called. i left messages on his cell and home. I know he got them. 36 hours later i have not heard anything. I don't know what happened here. Last time I seen him we exchanged xmas gifts and he stayed for dinner at my parents place. WHY WOULD YOU GET SOMEONE A XMAS GIFT IF THEY DIDN'T PLAN ON SEEING YOU AGAIN?? I typed a letter expressing my feelings and emailed it to him, whether i get a reply or not, who knows. I didn't want to keep calling so thats what i did. So here it is New Years' and I'm alone. I thought he would be man enough to atleast call me with an explanation. the message i left on his cell was>... no matter what the situation good or bad please call me and let me know,

2007-12-31 09:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Singles & Dating

i made plans to see gogol bordello with this hot dude and he has his kid so his ex can go out and his folks are giving him trouble for asking them to babysit.i'm disappointed...should i still go to the show or should i scalp my tix and go party with my friends?either way i won't be with him and i'm upset.also should i ask my babysitter to watch his kid too?

2007-12-31 09:11:21 · 3 answers · asked by ladydredlox 2 in Singles & Dating

asked by mario from Italy---have you an happy new year!!!

2007-12-31 09:10:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

u go to tell me boys!

2007-12-31 09:10:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello, my ex-boyfriend whom I was in love with in high school and college recently contacted me.

I moved very far from my hometown to go to college in Boston. My ex and I tired to keep contact with one another, but it was too much distance. It also didn't help that I started to see his best friend (who was also at college in Boston).

I married his best friend, about 3 years after graduating. My ex was fine with things, was at the wedding, etc. However, shortly thereafter, my husband and I lost contact with him.

My husband passed away over a year ago now from being involved in a car accident. And my ex contacted me last week in a long letter saying how he heard about my husband but couldn't bring himself to come to the funeral, and how he misses me, and was wondering if it was alright that he came and saw me.

I would like to see him and catch up with him, but is this a bad idea? I do not want to give him false hope, or anything along those lines whatsoever.

Thank you.

2007-12-31 09:10:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My SIL has never liked me & was in high school when my husband & I started dating. A lot of our disagreements came because she failed out of school & she wanted my husband & I to aide or cover for her irresponsible behavior. SIL has never liked me, she's never made it a secret she wished her brother had married the girlfriend she liked. What threw me for a loop is my mother in law recently stated that SIL has been trashing me to family friends and that MIL was fine with SIL trashing me to her and my FIL, but not to family friends or exteded family members. What does this mean? My SIL is one of those girls who has her parents wrapped around her finger, she always gets to do whatever she wants. Is SIL trashing me just an extension of her never being repremanded or does my MIL not like me? My husband thought his parents liked me, he says they've treated me better than anyone else, but my hubby and I are confused by this. I feel akward around MIL now, please help.

2007-12-31 09:09:19 · 27 answers · asked by MazyStarFan 1 in Family

Do you women out there like long hair, short hair, shaggy hair.. or no hair?
im bored as hell and curious lol

2007-12-31 09:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend told me i was the only girl he loved. Well thats until he met someone new. He told me he loved her, but wasn't in love with her. Silly enough i believed him and i stuck around. His relationship with her lasted longer than anyone could even imagine. My hope was up. I gave up on him. And i told myself that i would never look back because he hurt me too much. But now he is not with her, and he recently contacted me asking for another chance. Believe it or not. I still love him with all my heart. But i some ways i feel like he doesn't deserve me. but the love in my heart is too strong for him. and i feel like he feels the same, even though he has hurt me as many times as he did. now i'm lost on what i should be because he claims he will never hurt me again. and that he wants to be with me forever. what should i do about my situation?

2007-12-31 09:08:37 · 10 answers · asked by chocolateanglebabe 2 in Singles & Dating

what she is doin is all wrong(i have written more questions on this b4) but anyways now she wants everything she gave me back should i give it to her or just keep it or throw it away should i get my stuff back to? help thanks

2007-12-31 09:05:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

please say if you are a guy or girl and answer this about your ideal person to date then answer the following questions:

1.brown, blond, red, or black hair?
2.what style hair? (long & straight or short & curly, ext)
3. What kind of clothes? (abercrombie, skater, goth, ext)
4. Personality? (nice, caring, sweet, full of themselves?)
5. tall or short?
6. skinny, super skinny, normal, chubby, fat, or really fat?
7. and anything else you wanna add.

2007-12-31 09:05:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 09:04:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why do guys pay attention to the girl's body instead of her facial beauty?

2007-12-31 09:04:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him in 6th grade and I was always put in pairs with him and after that I just can't take my eyes of him. (his initials are: LS) Please help me TT~TT

2007-12-31 09:02:53 · 13 answers · asked by Lola™! 2 in Singles & Dating

A few days ago I asked my boyfriend what was the plan for New Year's? He said he was going out with two of his friends but didn't invite me along? All I said was I thought we would be spending it together. I'm not the type of girlfriend who gets bothered by guys spending time with guys on their own... I totally get that. I'm also not the type who needs or expects to be with each other all the time. But I'm confused about this one. Do most guys want to be with thier girlfriends on holidays or do they do it out of obligation? It didn't matter to me if we are with a group or just he and I. A friend of mine told me my boyfriend is acting like he's not in a relationship. I would appreciate any insight. Thanks!

2007-12-31 09:01:41 · 19 answers · asked by Charlotte's mom 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and a couple friends were driving into the city for a night of partying, we live about 40 min away. Anyway as we driving one of my friends had to pee because alcohol (not the driver). So we pull into a gas station but guess what - it's just a person in a booth, no service or bathrooms!

So my friend ran around to the side of the building and past this soda vending machine. And she just went for a pee there on the asphalt, squatting behind the vending machine!!!

What do you do, if in the same situation?

2007-12-31 09:00:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends