she only lives 5hrs away with her two kids and she didnt visit like she had planned because my mom left unexpectedly out of town. My dad and brother spent the holidays alone. do you think? i think shes a F*ing B*. i was thinking of talking to her and getting things straightened out between us when she came for xmas and she didnt. she doesnt give a damn huh?
2007-12-31 09:18:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yh-- that sounds heartbreaking!!! why don't you send her an e-mail telling her exactly how you feel and then go work out to burn off all the anger!!!
it is her thats the problem!!!
heres an example of a long journey :
every year when i go to Ireland my parents are driving for 9 hours to get to the wales and then we go on a 3 hour boat trip accross the irish sea, then we drive again for about four more hours. We have done this at least once a year since my older brother was born. And we only stay for 2 weeks.
i think it is reasonable to be a bit annoyed!!!
xxx
2007-12-31 09:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't even imagine either of my brothers talking about me the way you just did about your sister. No wonder she doesn't come around. In my family, we don't call names. Why do you do it? What stopped you from going there to see her? 5 hours one way translates into 10 hours of round trip driving...and with two children. Why would you want her on the road like that? You are making a very big deal out of this. She has a right to decide where she wants to spend Christmas.
2007-12-31 09:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not know her circumstances!!! Couple years ago I didn't visit my family for christmas and I only lived 15 mins ago...and your point is. Maybe she wants to have some alone time with her kids.
..and why are you still ranting and raving about this? It's New Years..go enjoy yourself!
2007-12-31 09:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. I think you feel like it was her obligation but maybe she didnt come because of whatever it was that you wanted to ' straighten out' from the past. Maybe she just doesnt want any more drama. Or maybe its because your mother left and she wanted to see her and it is a lot of trouble to travel wtih children like she has. Try focusing on something else in the New Year and let it go for now and maybe with time things will change. Pressuring her wont work I dont think.
2007-12-31 09:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the plans changed b/c of your mother's absence. Do you think this is why? Maybe she didn't feel like imposing on your dad and brother or maybe something happened in her life. I understand you being hurt and upset, but I think you should talk to her and work things out. As long as the line of communication is open there is always room for change. Try your best not to let it close. I did with some of my fam and I regret it everyday. Good luck=)
2007-12-31 09:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dad and brother spent the holidays alone that means you werent there either. So how is that different from what she did? Im sure your dad is a big boy and handled it ok.
2007-12-31 09:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With the gas prices, I would understand and since she has kids you guys should go visit her. Kids on long trips are a pain in the ***.
2007-12-31 09:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by jacsrbetter1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean its not dat serious, okay she didn't come but I mean oh well if shes not mature enough to come then oh well, than its on her.
2007-12-31 09:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i would be pretty mad.
2007-12-31 09:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Amelie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
giver her a break dude, traveling for 5 hours with 2 kids is difficult...don't be a jerk
2007-12-31 09:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋