I was at my friends boyfriends house with my friend Katelin..her boyfriend Adam..and his friend Jo. I really like Jo..but he doesnt want a relationship with me =( I read his texts secretly and hes talking to this girl again sayin love you loads at the end of his texts with LOADS of kisses =( ...anyways I really like him so im ok with just being like friends with benefits && well me and jo were in adams bed bcoz his parents wernt in && adam n katelin were in his parents bed. Adam came in the room once looking for a pair of shorts to wear instead of his trousers because he was too hot and jo started to finger me while he was in the room..yeah he did it when he wasnt there too but we were in the middle of a rest when he walked in. Also the next mornin adam and katelin came into the room again and layed on the sofa bed and he started doing it again. Why does he like doing it even more when people come in the room? I know I shouldnt but its really hard to resist LOL
2007-12-31 09:16:43 · 5 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's simple "Because I can".
If he does it while someone can tell, then he comes across as the big stud showoff. You're stuck because you want to avoid a spectacle. If you try to stop him, slap him, whatever - I bet he'd say "You didn't object 15 minutes ago". More humiliation for you, ego boost for him.
It's the same reason as sexual harassment happens - he's in control, you're helpless. Ego boost.
2007-12-31 09:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a player.. if he is telling one gurl that he loves her and what not but then playing around with you!!
You have to think to yourself, would you want to be in a relationship with a guy like that? When he is telling you that he loves you loads over a text message, what is he doing with another gurl who is over visiting or what not?
He sounds like trouble to me.. I know that it's going to be hard because he is showing you the attention that you want, when the time is right for him... BUT.. how is this fair on you? It's not.. Find yourself a better, loyal, caring guy!!
2007-12-31 09:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One word -- exhibitionist. He also wants to have his cake and eat it too, playing with you while texting this other girl that he "loves" her. He needs to get over himself!
2007-12-31 09:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by confidentgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like hes doing it to look cool......
2007-12-31 09:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by vicky s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because it's risky...hey go for it!!!
2007-12-31 09:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋