I live in missouri. He lives in Las vegas. He is the most uhmazing guy ihave ever met in my whole entire life. He makes me feel good about myself.when im done he tries everything to cheer me up. But i have some trust issues My X-boyfriend got a girl pregnant. but she also was my best friend. He told me he would never hurt me. He did. I met jamie.My life started changing .my grades got better.my attittude changed. Jamie told a couple of my friends he wouldnt hurt me..i want to believe him but i cant. I have a couple of his friends on msn. and i asked them if they thought he really liked me, they said yeah . we got into arguement last night . because when i first met his friend he thought i was rikki. thats the girl that his friend said he acted the same way towards her. but anyways last night he told me that he was the only girl that hes actually loved. but i dont know if i want to be in a long distance relationship anymore.. Any advice. ?
2007-12-31 09:23:32 · 6 answers · asked by Breezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in a long distance relationship for the past 6 months. He was amazing and I totally fell for him. He made me feel good about myself and when I was down he was always there on the phone to cheer me up. He told me he was gonna move here for me and he even said he talked to his friends about me and they all told him to move here if I made him happy. He was the "Perfect" guy for. He wrote poems to each other. He was amazing and everything was going great. We talked like 5 or 6 times a day and then again before we went to bed and if we fell asleep without calling the other we always called them in the middle of the night ( but we agreed on that). Then 2 months ago I moved 20 minutes away from where I was living and all of a sudden he quit calling me, he wouldn't answer my phone calls, and he doesn't even email me anymore. I put him to the test and I didnt' call him at all to see if he would call me...he failed misserably. So I have pretty much gave up on him and I'm moving on,but he doesn't know i've given up on him. I'm just pretty much sitting here waiting to see what's going to happen and I'm talking to others and getting to know them.
30% of long distance relationships work out. The only way they will and can work out is....first of all you both have to know that is who you want to be with. second is communication, you have to talk things through and understand each other. If possible...traveling to see each other once in a while is also good if you have the time and money to do this. Trust is a big thing....if you can't trust someone or feel that you can't trust them then you pretty have nothing. You must be honest and truthful with each other. Hope things work out for the two of you....my long distance relationship isn't working out but that isn't my fault...it's all on him. So just take some time out and think about everything i've said and I sure hope this will help you out. Follow your heart!!
2008-01-02 13:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think of anybody desires to have an prolonged distance courting. life occurs and gets interior the way, you basically could paintings around it. If somebody desires to be with their long distance BF or GF sufficient/or they love them sufficient, they'll pass to the place the different person is and stop the long distance element. those people who've relationships over the internet or out of state "only because of the fact" are in all probability dropping their time. long distance relationships wont final if there isnt dedication.
2016-11-27 01:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a long distance relationship that lasted 6 1/2 months. I loved him so much and he use to... He suddenly broke all contact to me. Just be careful not to get hurt. I trusted him but I always couldnt help think he would leave me if there was a girl that cared that lived closer to him...
2007-12-31 09:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are good to me because you don't get tired of each other. But, if you have trust issues, they are impossible. My husband and I have lived in separate states for almost two years now and we get along fine. We are happy when we do get together and I think we appreciate each other more. We trust each other and that's why it works. Good luck in whatever you decide to do.
2007-12-31 09:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by spiritdawn415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide what you want ---- if you cant trust anyone that you are with long or short distance you are always going to have problems --- asking other people is just getting a rumour and you should never believe rumours --- what do you feel about him??? do you feel that he cares for you??? ---- and long distance is only good for a while if it is serious then you need to get together as soon as possible and make plans to stay together if that is what you want --- best wishes
2007-12-31 09:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think the guy is totally worth it then go for it, try to make dates to see each other often
but from experience long distance relationships suck. you never see the guy and well you just don't see him so it is harder to grow closer to each other if all you have is the phone, internet, letters, etc. seeing the person is so much more worth it then not seeing them.
but if you think its worth it go for it.
2007-12-31 09:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Amelie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋