My boyfriend is busy all the time. I know he has a lot of work with his regular job and opening a restaurant. But he rarely answers my calls or calls me back lately. On the weekends he NEVER answers even though I know he doesn't work. Fri. and Sat. I called and left voicemails 3 times!! I still didn't hear from him until Monday. He has visitation with his son the weekends but am I being paranoid to think there is more going on? What do u think.
2007-12-31 07:20:12 · 28 answers · asked by princess_nubia 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't sound good and I would not call him anymore if he is not returning your calls. You do not seem to see him anyhow, so what is the point of having him as a boyfriend?
2007-12-31 07:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by patriots_champs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a possiblity he is cheating, but it could also be that he just isn't that into you and is too cowardly to tell you what's up, so he is purposely avoiding you! So, I think you should just ask him what's going on and see how he answers you and whether or not he can look you in the eye. If he can't face you, then that is as good a sign as any that he is not in the relationship. Maybe your New Year's resolution should be to find a new man........
2007-12-31 15:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by TLC♥1981 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well keep up the trust because if he is a boyfriend that is worth it, then you don't wanna lose him because your mind was playing tricks on you. but if i were you i would listen closely and pay attention to everything he does and says. i dont mean go on and spy on him but for example slightly listen to his phone cals whenever he's around or pay attention when he says where he's going or what he's doing. and don't let him know that you are wondering. Or you could just trust him
2007-12-31 15:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by elentari 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a man who has no time for you before marriage will have no time after marriage. obviously you are just a sidekick to your bf. it's time to move on to greener pasture princess. you deserve a prince NOT a jester.
2007-12-31 15:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by michelle_tmy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
im sory, but i think hes cheating. and anyways, even if hes not, he dsnt care about u enough to call u bak! so, leave him either way. u deserve betr
2007-12-31 15:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop calling him and let him call you. This will let you know how important you are to him. You could be paranoid, or he could be cheating. You have to trust him though till you have proof that he is cheating.
2007-12-31 15:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by bluemonarch17 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep, there is more going on. Girl, if a man does not answer your phone calls nor returns your messages, he is not in to your relationship as much as you think he is!
Let him be, don't call him. Let him return your phone calls. Go find something else to do to distract you: go out, call your girlfriends and hang with them. *ANYTHING* but call him!
And if he doesn't call you back: trust me, there are sooooooo many other men out there who will return your phone calls!
2007-12-31 15:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by MsSoccerBunny 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
OOOO not good. He isn't there for you honey..gotta let it go..won't get any better. Find someone who is really there for you..a real relationship. This is a whole new year and a time for starting all over again and getting things right. You deserve to be treated good and he doesn't have a clue obviously if he can't even pick up the phone..Get free of this and it will allow a TRUE love to come to you.
2007-12-31 15:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Christine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have every right to worry that's what we do girl you should look into that yeah he could just be busy and haven't had the time to call but if he truly loves you he would call you back or take the time to call you and let you know what's going on but you should ask him and if he gets pissed off then that should tell you something
2007-12-31 15:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by tammy g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's cheating
i AM so sorry:(
2007-12-31 15:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Aqua:) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋