Other - Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

We have everything in common, and we love each other like nuts. im so confused!!!!

2006-10-16 05:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by SiNiStEr_THEORY666 1

My boyfriend has an ex-wife who at the moment is in jail. They have two girls together who are with him. They are 14 and 11. The ex is crazy and she plans on hurting me when she gets out and she won't leave him alone. She was the one who did drugs and cheated on him. What do I do to protect myself and the family?

2006-10-16 05:51:17 · 26 answers · asked by lakajunprincess 1

in a nut shell i didnt have a great childhood...i had the abcense of fatherly love....so as soon as a male showed me the littlest bit of love and attention i grabbed on to him and never let go...i feel like i used him as a crutch in the beginning to fill that missing space in my life...i am now still with the same guy going on 4 1/2 years...i know he loves me to death as do i love him....he has become much more then a crutch like it started.i put my all into our relationship and sometimes i feel he doesn't care as much as i do. I have been insecure forever, i guess since my stepfather has made me feel worthless since i can remeber back but i tend to take out my hurts of the past on my boyfriend. since i haven't been told how beautiful and special i am to someone until my bf came along, i think sometimes i dont believe it when he says it...i get very mad when i catch him with porn, or looking at other girls when im with him,i just feel that my confidence is killing us sometimes..help!!

2006-10-16 05:45:07 · 8 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3

I am married. I am not a prude by any means. I do my wifely duties. But it absolutely makes me feel unattractive when I know my husband looks at porn. Especially knowing that these women look amazing!! I'm not fat and unattractive. I am 5'8, 36-24-26, fit, mother of 2. I take care of myself to keep his interest. I am confused. Its pretty often (on the computer) It almost grosses me out. Strip clubs...what's it all about? I want to understand this. Please help me.

2006-10-16 05:44:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean i have heard of women going months without even wanting sex

2006-10-16 05:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I have lived with my boyfriend for about 1 month now and I love it. One problem. I have had a lot of problems with jobs and now that im pregnant it is harder to find a job cause no one wants to hire a preg. woman right? Dr appts., classes, and def sickness. So i havent worked and i havent brought in any money. he has been angry and i didnt get my check from my last job, they ****** me over and i cant get it. he is going to be SO mad and im scared he will make me leave. im tyring and i do other stuff like ALL the cooking cleaning laundry errands, and im ok with that. hes not. he has been on me about working and im stressin alot! doc said it wasnt good, its our first child and i want things to go well i feel im a burden to him and ever since i moved up here i have ****** things up...am i a burden, or is it all in my head? BE HONEST. Tell me what you think.

2006-10-16 05:41:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

He NEVER wants to get up in the morning and go, I don't know what to do. He stayed home today, said he is "sick". I don't believe him. He is behind on homework.

2006-10-16 05:29:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my girlfriend been together for 2 1/2 years , and we have a son together. we broke up and she is living with her brother, we broke up because she was talking to other guys without telling and she would hide, and got back together. Now she gets upset because i go out with my friends, i do spend time with her, now wat can i do?

2006-10-16 05:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by savage_linx 1

2006-10-16 05:27:49 · 12 answers · asked by phyllis_gene_levy 1

there are many types of men and women out there what type would you like to awake every morning too and if you had a choices what race would this man be?

2006-10-16 05:25:49 · 19 answers · asked by annjilena 4

and babysit my son so I can finish school. I am trying to work on my Masters, but haven't started yet because I got pregnant..I'm in no rush to get the degree because I have a great job and can wait a couple of more years ..I'm only 24 so I really don't mind. She is insiting on quitting and I really don't want her to. How do I convince her to keep working?

2006-10-16 05:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Meda1nonly 1

true or false in your oppinion

2006-10-16 05:17:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I am just learning that my husband has a shady past. He owes a lot of people money that I did not know about and they are calling for it. We have even had our number changed and they still find out and keep calling. Should I try to pay them or let him handle this on his own.

2006-10-16 05:17:56 · 11 answers · asked by babydove1821 2

Didn't call, text or come to see me the whole past week that i have been recovering. We have been together for almost 6mo and he was pretty much living with me. No; how do you feel, do you need anything or are you ok. I have tried to talk to him and tell him it really hurt my feelings that he was being so unsympathetic but to no avail.

I don't really know what to do. He spent the night last night but I didn't feel 11:00 was the best time to talk about it so I left it alone.

What would you say?

2006-10-16 05:17:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

And I'm going to have a baby (our second) for two months.
I'm 100% sure he's cheating on me.
I'm confused,I hate him and her.They both betrayed me.
What should I do?

2006-10-16 05:15:51 · 80 answers · asked by Madelain M 1

i have been out of an abusive relationship for over a year now and i still get scared when people argue, i think that it will go further then words, also i am scared that when i get back into a relationship with someone else that i will then be violent towards them, which i never was before (i used to fight back/defend myself with my ex that is).
my mind blanks most of it out, but parts pop up every now and then.
any help?

2006-10-16 05:14:18 · 6 answers · asked by jesie girl 2

READ MY PAST QUESTION!!!!!!!!!!..... How can i forget him ...I call him and he completely dosnt care .. i love him so much and i know i should move on but i dont know how... and it kills me .one day im fine one day i need him and i hate it ... he dosnt even think of me ? , how can a person forget everything in less than 1 month?

2006-10-16 05:13:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So there's this guy and there's a huge age difference between us.
We've just started getting serious but we have to keep it on the down. I mean he's not married or with anyone. And, well his personal business is really in the public eye. Im scared to get him in big trouble but its like being with a "not legal" guy. And you know, we've never had sex, it's just I dont want his reputation to fall apart if anyone finds out he's with an underage girl (I'm 16). Whenever we're out we cant do anything because if someone he knows finds out, he could be named the new pervert. What should I do?

2006-10-16 05:08:56 · 11 answers · asked by dewey_dew 1

I currently am studying a full time course at uni and i finish in 1 and a half years and so is the man i love he is finishing in 2 years. I plan to do work experience during uni and also apply for a job so once im out of uni i have a job. I meant that the engagement be during the time im in uni when the man i love and i arent living together but for sure after uni, we will both have jobs to provide for the needs of our family.

2006-10-16 05:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Further question: During an engagement, is it important to have a job even though your still being financially supported because you live with your parents?

2006-10-16 04:53:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was thinking about some type of plaque/engraved certificate that they have at like Things Remembered and places like that, any other suggestions though??

2006-10-16 04:53:22 · 13 answers · asked by monique... 3

2006-10-16 04:49:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Were on a break in our realtionship and its got to be comming up to 3 weeks since i last seen him properly.He txted me saying that the time apart is helping. I seriously want this to work as i love him so much.
Do you think after 2 and a half weeks he would know if he wanted this realtionship to work as much as i do or not?
Shall i give him more time?
tell me what you think.

2006-10-16 04:49:43 · 13 answers · asked by Gemma M 1

I am married to a wonderful man whose 2 sons live full time with us.. The ex- wife has visitation , but it is every other weekend and every other holidays. The thing is , she has stopped paying child support and we are going through court proceedings. She apparently doesnt think she should have to pay anything for her children. I try to be cordial but it is almost at the point that she makes me sick even to have to deal with her. I know it is nt my place to say anything but my gosh how could someone actually justify not taking care of their kids? Anyone know how to handle this situation? I am at my wits end with her. It is causing her kids to resent her and I dont know how to handle it but to tell them that she loves them and that sometimes parents make mistakes and let me let you know we did not tell them anything about her not paying she told them she quit paying !!!! I guess she thinks that is fine...

2006-10-16 04:49:43 · 10 answers · asked by luckygirl 2

I know that my new boyfriend will secure me financially, he's went 2 college,he's in the military and he's a real fun person to B around, but I feel intimidated by him at times and I feel happier with my ex despite the reason we broke up. I really feel like my ex has made a change and my heart is still with him. My ex and I was 2gether for 4yrs. and I'm caught up in new love and old love at the same time. My new friend has just told me that he love me for the first time and I told him back but now I don't know who I want to be with or even if I want a new relationship.I just really don't want 2 hurt my new boyfriend's feelings b/c he's had a very rough time with the ladies stomping on his heart and I think that he'll put me in the same category as all the other women he's dated. I know honesty is the best way but I stilll can't grasp the feeling knowing that I hurt him. On top of all that my ex and I live in the same city and my new friend lives about 2 & 1/2 hrs away

2006-10-16 04:48:58 · 11 answers · asked by chachaliscious 1

we have been going through some tough times with her because her family is gettin a divorce and shes taking it really hard. we have tried breaks but they wernt long she always comes back y after a day or 2. This time she says she wants a serious break she dont know how long but she wants to try and not talk to me. i know it wont happen. She tells me she loves me just right now she needs to have her fun and really her fun is stuff she never would have even thought before this hole divorce thing. i need a lot of help i have been waiting now 4 about two months shes not changing anything she says she will and dosnt. Should i move on or wait for the Girl that i love.

2006-10-16 04:44:28 · 3 answers · asked by lilpimptk101 2

2006-10-16 04:37:57 · 17 answers · asked by ABCD 1

What would you do?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 31/2 years and right now we are going through some problems. He really dont know how to be a good boyfriend, but he tries. I expect him to spend more time with me and take me out and romance me a little bit. He gets angry because its not in his person. He says to me "Why cant you just accept me the way I am?" He says this is all he has to offer. I love him so much and I know there are other fish in the sea but I cant seem to let him go. I see something else in him. He has never cheated (Thank God) but for some reason I keep complaining and arguing with him because he isnt the way I want him to be. Could I be expecting too much from him? I know relationships are not like the movies, you have to work and fight for it. What should I do? He is my everything. He says he's tired of arguing and hearing the same stuff all the time. He says I should be worrying about bigger things. Should I move on and throw all this away? or calm

2006-10-16 04:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by Jessi 3

I work with this guy and as time has passed we've become pretty good friends. He asked me to go out on "a date" with him, I went, we both had an awesome time, nothing happened, we just had fun. I'd dying to go out again, I know I should just ask but I want to be sure he wants to go and doesn't feel pressured into it, just because I'm asking. So..last night at work, he comes by, we're talking, he makes a phone call (to this little dive bar) to make sure they are open, looks at me and tells me he's going out and didn't ask me to go with him. Before we leave work he comes by again and just stares at me, says "what?" I say "nothing"..we both smile and he leaves, says see ya tomorrow with a wink. Now, did he want me to invite myself or is he trying to get rid of me?? I'm confused! Help!

2006-10-16 04:33:21 · 3 answers · asked by ohsouncertain 1

bf and his x went out decades ago. now, they live together with her sis/bro/one guy. i dont like his x n she doesnt like me. im always over his house on weekends cus he invites me. i know she doesnt like me around there. reason she doesnt like me is she believes i have something against her..(her past with her n my bf) she has a bf. my big worries are she depends on him for stuff ( do this n do that) n my bf helps her out. theyre being there for each other then and now. they see each other as sis/bro? i dont know about this. we argue about her a lot. bf even broke it up once but we got back toghether. he wants me to calm, trust him. how can i ..if i feel as if im 2nd best and shes always first...i feel this way cus theyre always there for each other.

we really love/care for each other but my bf says im too jealous and have insecurites problems. even his friend n his ex agrees. is there something wrong w/ me or are they all being biased about this situation? i need others input on it

2006-10-16 04:25:59 · 7 answers · asked by julie 1