Other - Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

During a relationship break up/argument why do women get more emotionally hurt than men? Are men completely emotionless????

2006-10-13 23:52:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mate has found a bargain of a holiday that means me and my son will be away for a week come back christmas day well night really. its a proper bargain all inclusive in gran canaria. But with it being on top of xmas should i go or should i stay here for the great tv and family get together?

2006-10-13 23:52:14 · 20 answers · asked by delaruedebbie 2

Should I send an e-card to this girl I sincerely, really like to tell her my feelings? I really can't keep it all to myself anymore and I find a need to inform her. We are fourteen and when do you think should I email the e-card? Should I inform her first? What should I say? Please help me because this is a very crucial matter for me...

Thanks
Dr. Asker

2006-10-13 23:51:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll give 10points to the person who can come up with the most hurtful, realistic answer. xx

2006-10-13 23:44:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 23:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by hazzard176 1

2006-10-13 23:29:09 · 12 answers · asked by :..: 3

2006-10-13 23:27:43 · 8 answers · asked by :..: 3

So this morning there is this brat who keeps disturbing the girl I like. He disturbed her so much and I tried to keep silent for a few times. However, there was a point of time when I could not bear it anymore and these words just flow out of my mouth: "Shut up, I do not like to see the way you treat people". He was unhappy, but I didn't care, love is the best!

Is it too late for me to warn him?
Would that girl get the hint that I like her and would she appreciate it?
Am I correct and have I done the right thing?
What can I do to improve myself?

2006-10-13 23:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a male 27, looking for a good girl, i am educated and well established. though much shy when it is matter of girl. please answer.

2006-10-13 23:08:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 23:08:16 · 15 answers · asked by ettienne 2

okay, im having a relationship problem.. i think. my boyfriend for the past couple of days has been acting different! yesterday it was as if he didnt even realize i was there majority of the time. like, sometimes he would walk beside me, and hold my hand when i held his, but he would always let go or walk to his mates and talk to them. he wouldnt hug me much either like he always does. i think something is wrong but he just tells me it is lack of sleep from when he stayed up with his mate on thursday night.. but thursday he was acting a little more different aswell. am i over reacting and should just wait to see what happend or should i try talking to him about it?? if so how, please help me!!

2006-10-13 23:06:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 23:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by Toya 3

2006-10-13 22:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by tha_game78 1

I'm 36 years old, don't have the slightest clue of how to approach females now after not being in the game for more than 3 years now. It's like it's all new to me again,and I'm just lost. Girls are hard to judge,and I don't know when they're into what I'm talking about or not! I am not a bad looking guy,I have an awesome career and make enough to keep me happy,but would like to start dating again,but I hate clubs,bars and nightclubs...I've gone to church events and haven't found one yet,and it's getting real frustrating. I would really like some help from your viewers now,and hopefully they can help me with how to start out with girls or atleast point me in the right direction...I'm at a loss here people,and need some help soon...

2006-10-13 22:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by How do you Block calls on Nextel 1

Does any body care that i'm alive

2006-10-13 22:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by CAMELS 2

Heres the thing..my boyfriend has this thing about honesty. We broke up in the past because I kept something from him that I knew would upset him and when he found out he couldn't even look at me... But we got back together later anyway and I promised to always be honest no matter what. So i took it quite seriously. I've just started uni and I've made alot of male friends and he keeps asking me if I find them attractive or more attractive than him. So i said 'they are good looking people but I am not attracted to them' which is the truth. So he got really sad saying how i didnt care about him and that i must think he's ugly or something. now he keeps questionng me all the time about ex boyfriends and people i know and if i think they are better looking than him. He has such low self esteem right now and it's obviously my fault cos' I don't think my bf is extremely good looking really. I could have lied but I learned that lying got me nowhere in the past. What do i do cos' i love him??

2006-10-13 22:04:57 · 27 answers · asked by toyotagirl 2

I love him alot but everyday it's a different story.This will be my third 3rd kid, my oldest ain't his. But he also has another kid with someone else. And he always brings up the past w/me but dosen't look @ himself w/the past. He left cause of (the past) that he just found out. But theirs so much past that i found about him and i let it go because i love him. I don't know what to do. What should i do?

2006-10-13 22:03:12 · 9 answers · asked by CRISTY B 1

If you are with someone who you really love, do you admit it? Yes you messed up, temptation go the best of you, you don't deserve to be with them, but do you admit the truth and face losing them? Please note your sex and explain what you would do.

2006-10-13 21:33:59 · 21 answers · asked by JBauer 1

2006-10-13 21:31:58 · 5 answers · asked by :..: 3

How do you feel about you bf/gf watchin porn or w/e? Cause I have a few friends that say that just nasty and that they would break up if they ever seen him/her doin that. I personally don't have a problem with it, I just wanna know what yall think

2006-10-13 21:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3

Who would you prefer to be with : a romantic, a sugar daddy, or a millionaire ?

2006-10-13 21:28:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom has told me once or twice, maybe more, that it doesn't matter how many times I say ' I Love You', until I show her that I do she won't believe it. I love my mom very much and it hurts me that she says that, but I don't know how to show love to her or to anyone. Can someone help?

2006-10-13 21:21:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 21:20:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 3 years. Recently I've been talking to another girl who is just a friend but I've known her for longer. Well every now and then we engage in phone sex. Would that be considered cheating? Why?

2006-10-13 21:15:29 · 40 answers · asked by JBauer 1

i'm married with my wife for 3 years now, we have a 1year10moths son, and everthing else is ok. but why when i want to have sex with her she usually doesn't want to. i'm in the mood like 4-5 days per week but she sometimes seems none. she never show interest to have sex with me. what's wrong? is it her sex drive? sometimes we only have sex 2-3 times per month only.

2006-10-13 21:01:05 · 4 answers · asked by Mohawk 2

I've said and done some pretty awful things that I regret, and that have hurt people. I didn't mean for anyone to get hurt and at the time didn't see how it could, but somehow someone always does. I look down on myself for alot of stuff I did, and even though my family doesn't mention it much I feel like they always expect me to screw up. I can't let myself move on and i have tried to do right but always end up repeating my mistakes, how can I move on?

2006-10-13 20:56:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words.

When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured.

The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.


1. Let me help:


Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

2. I understand you:

People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.

3. I respect you:

Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

4. I miss you:

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

5. Maybe you're right:

This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication when you say "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting, "maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have an argument with someone, all you normally do is solidify the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can
open the door to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the
other person.

6. Please forgive me:

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to
faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is
wiser today than he was yesterday.

7. I thank you:

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

8. Count on me:

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds
people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you
can count on me."

9. I'll be there:

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from
home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there."Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

10. Go for it:


We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow
their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

11. I love you:


Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs.

The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little
words: "I love you." Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is gone.

Never take some one for granted,Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realise that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones." Remember this always in life.

2006-10-13 20:55:30 · 4 answers · asked by ashok kumar 3

ive been trying to find if there is a way to find someones e mail address or unlisted phone number on the internet, i recently moved back to the usa from east africa and have lost contact with some of my dearest friends and ive tried everything to locate them, i guess after nearly twenty years living out of the country i have no idea where they are,if they are, etc.....

2006-10-13 20:49:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think its time I stopped sending my kids off for visits. These are my reasons.
1. I get no child support.
2. He cancels about half the visits at the last minute anyway.
3.He has never called to talk to the boys I have to ring when the boys want to talk to him.
4. He tells my son terrible lies and some truths that are not for a 6 year olds ears.

My son misses his dad and asks to go. My kids are 6 and 7.

2006-10-13 20:46:29 · 14 answers · asked by Mel 2

I read in. {Gen 11:31} we see that Abraham took his family out of his home land "Ur of the Chaldees"


Therefore, Abraham could not have been a Jew because that is a part of Iraq. He was more an Arab than a Jew. Secondly, the name Jew came after the existence of Judah, the great-grandson of Abraham.


Abraham in the Bible is called "a Hebrew" {Genesis 14:13} which means a human from the other side of the Euphrates. It also means pertaining to Eber a descendant of Shem, clearly not "a Jew".


The descendants of Jacob were called Israelites {Gen 32:28} consisting of twelve tribes. Judah was nicknamed "Jew" so that only Judah's descendants were called Jews originally.


Moses, was from the tribe "Levite" {Exodus 6:16-20} therefore also not a Jew. The name Jew {according to the Bible} is not a reflection of "an organized religion" as you put it, but a Tribe, a fore name, an ancestor branch off of a large family tree.
So What do you say?

2006-10-13 20:26:13 · 4 answers · asked by me3laki 2