I'm 36 years old, don't have the slightest clue of how to approach females now after not being in the game for more than 3 years now. It's like it's all new to me again,and I'm just lost. Girls are hard to judge,and I don't know when they're into what I'm talking about or not! I am not a bad looking guy,I have an awesome career and make enough to keep me happy,but would like to start dating again,but I hate clubs,bars and nightclubs...I've gone to church events and haven't found one yet,and it's getting real frustrating. I would really like some help from your viewers now,and hopefully they can help me with how to start out with girls or atleast point me in the right direction...I'm at a loss here people,and need some help soon...
2006-10-13 22:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by How do you Block calls on Nextel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First tip: Don't call women "females" or "girls". (Have you ever noticed how women don't usually call men "males"? They say "men", "guys", or even "fellas" occasionally, but using the "males" isn't something that is done very often by women.)
Women you would probably date are most likely beyond being "girls", and "female" is for animals or electrical parts.
I think all you can do is join as many things as you can, attend as many things as you can, and make as many new friends as you can (because even if they aren't people you'd date they may be able to introduce you to someone).
Maybe you shouldn't think of it as "dating again". Maybe you should approach it with the attitude of "I'm going to meet as many people as I can, and if I run into a woman I'd like to date then the setting up of the date will come naturally." If people kind of click it usually isn't a problem to say, "Hey. Want to have lunch tomorrow?" Its when someone is trying to date for the sake of dating that it can be awkward. If you meet someone you don't click with don't bother dating them anyway. Don't waste everyone's time just doing "practice dating".
Maybe you need to see your age differently too. The world is full of guys ("males") who put off relationships until they get their life more in order. Many guys are just beginning in the mid-thirties, when it comes to really starting to have the pieces fall in place. Just re-think how young 36 really is. It isn't 46 or 56 (and besides, 46 is the new 36 anyway; and 36 may be the new 26).
2006-10-13 22:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not imagine age must be a aspect see you later as they're both one among legal age. I extremely have dated youthful and older adult men and if there's a compatibility between a guy and a woman that's what counts. there is 7 years between me and my guy and that i'm the older in this courting. a large number of people imagine that's loopy that a youthful guy might want to elect to bypass out with an older female yet to me age is only a kind. i do not look my age that's fifty 2 and he's 40 5. I extremely have also dated adult men 10 or better years youthful than that. the daddy of my daughters is eighteen years older than i'm. I basically imagine regardless of works is what works. basically because someone will be interior a similar grade or a similar age would not cause them to correctly suited. Gotta bypass with what the middle says.....
2016-10-16 04:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 36 years old! And you consider your self as old!! Unless you lived in a well those 3 years, nothing has changed. Go find the girls (not feemales) where you used to find them before.
2006-10-13 22:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out myspace girls that live near you. You can get to know them a bit before you ask them out. Lunch dates have gone pretty well for me compared to dinner and entertainment. Don't be pushy or they will run away.
2006-10-13 22:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just 3 years you couldn't have forgotten that much in only 3 years!!
2006-10-13 22:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to social gatherings and don't go there with the intention on finding someone. just have a good time and someone will notice you..so you take it from there.
2006-10-13 22:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by candy_man313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with your nephews and be cool and they will attract the girls for you and then you score....be cool and it will all work out for you.
2006-10-13 22:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blind date
2006-10-13 22:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by DaVonna J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask anyone out
2006-10-13 22:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋