I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 3 years. Recently I've been talking to another girl who is just a friend but I've known her for longer. Well every now and then we engage in phone sex. Would that be considered cheating? Why?
2006-10-13 21:15:29 · 40 answers · asked by JBauer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
someone is looking for more excitment in the sex dept eh.
It does consider cheating in a way cos you lust for your friend.
Just imagine if your gf is having phone sex with a gd friend of her, what would you feel? Will it be cheating?
Better stop that soon, my dear.
How about asking your gf if she is keen/comfortable about that, then have phone sex with her. Engage in more dicussion about sexual activities with your girl and improve from there. Get some actions done!!
Good luck there.
2006-10-13 21:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by CindyHoneyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats cheating - even though your not physically being with this other woman, your making an emotional connection and saying things to her that only your girlfriend should hear. Do you think your girlfriend would get pissed off if she knew about it??? Of course! So stop doing it and show the person that you've been with for 3 years some respect.
2006-10-13 21:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is considered cheating because you aren't supposed to have ANY kind of sexual experience with anyone except your girlfriend (and yourself). Any time you do something with another woman that you feel you need to hide from your girlfriend, that is cheating even if there is no sex involved. It's about honesty and trust, not just sex.
2006-10-13 21:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know anyone who wants a phone sex, let alone when he does have a girlfriend, what do you get out of wanking.
I suppose that while your body grew, your mind did not match it.
Phone sex or cyber sex is all about wanking, I guess you cant get real sex.
It is cheating, see if you like your girlfriend having that with outer guys.
2006-10-13 21:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because even if not acting it out, you are still thinking about it. How would you feel if your girlfriend talked phone sex with other guys? Wouldn't you feel a bit cheated, if you suddenly found out?
2006-10-13 21:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because you know the girl, you are justifying that you have known her longer, meaning that you are reducing the position your girlfriends has in your life to excuse this behavior.
a good test, are you willing to be open with your girlfriend about your phone sex? if not it is cheating, not physically maybe but emotionally for sure
2006-10-13 21:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES you sick weirdo, well, if your girlfriend had a friend that was a guy and she engaged in phone sex with him every now and then would YOU consider that cheating???? sometimes you gotta use your brain, you know what that is??
2006-10-13 21:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes it is cheating in your heart
If you could physically have sex with this or another woman and your wife had no way of knowing, would that be cheating?
yes it is cheating in your flesh.
ask yourself
If you are unhappy and in need of some affection, you rightfully go to your wife. However she is busy talking to a man and tells you not to interrupt her - go away, you are annoying me, I am having a fun conversation now and I don't want to be bothered by my husband.
How do you feel?
2006-10-13 21:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by angle_of_deat_69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously... you ask this question like a kid man. Why don't you put yourself in her situation to see what would you think of her if she talks to another man and have sex on the phone..(don't know how that fuking works but whatever..) and see if you feel that's cheating or not. If you don't feel it, then i guess to you it's not cheating, if you feel jeaulous, fix your problem dude.
2006-10-13 21:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Tank D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't paying for the phone sex it's cheating.
2006-10-13 21:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋