i'm married with my wife for 3 years now, we have a 1year10moths son, and everthing else is ok. but why when i want to have sex with her she usually doesn't want to. i'm in the mood like 4-5 days per week but she sometimes seems none. she never show interest to have sex with me. what's wrong? is it her sex drive? sometimes we only have sex 2-3 times per month only.
2006-10-13 21:01:05 · 4 answers · asked by Mohawk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Being a mom is a hard work! So we are tired! Help her out with taking care of your son and make her feel special. That sometime works!
2006-10-13 21:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones are out of whack, working and a 1 year old, chores to do, clothes to wash, cooking.....there are so many things that happen when you have a child. You should not take this personally. I am still thinking that even if you take up a lot of the duties in your home, she is still not really going to want sex that much. It takes quite awhile to get that desire back. Sorry but patience is what it is going to take. By the way, being pissed at her or making her fill less of a woman because she isn't wanting sex is not going to work. Forget the guilt it doesnt work!
2006-10-14 18:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is more than likely worn out, it is a lot to look after a toddler. I can promise you, if you take the initiative to to more house work and day to day stuff she will take the initiative to have sex.
2006-10-14 04:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is hard with a child.
2006-10-14 04:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by *~Princess~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋