Other - Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

My ex-boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few months ago. I was very crashed over it. I asked him not contact me in order to move on but he has always contacting me, saying he finds it hard, he misses and loves me. He even came to see me twice as he missed me too much. But he said we cannot get together as the long-distance situation hasn't changed. Last time he contacted me, he told me he wants us to work things out but then he backed off again saying it's still not the right time for us. I was hurt again so I asked for no contact even though I really love him and want to be with him. Its hard really. But he eamiled me a week ago saying he can't help his feelings but he misses me, thinks of me and doesn't want me to think he doesn't want me anymore.I replied but I got upset when he said he is going abroad with his friends to celebrate New Year. He said he will leave me alone now as he can't take blames from me. I am so hurt. I love him. I am 30 yrs. Now his phone is off.

2007-12-30 23:34:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My relationship with my fiancee is in a shambles because we do not have sex. I'm always being pushed away and it seems like shes never in the mood. I don't think that shes cheating on me but I have reason to believe that she is having intimacy issues. She says that she just doesn't feel for it. And even when we do occasionally have sex. I can tell she cant wait for it to be over. Could it be the abortion she had about a year ago troubling her. Or the birth control shot she took after she terminated the pregnancy the she still continues to take. I just don't know what to do. I really love my girl but I cannot live like this for much longer. She tell me that if I'm really not happy with her that I should move on. She is aware of the problem and my fustration but I really don't see any effort on her part to compromise and please me in other ways. Or fix the problem all together.

2007-12-30 23:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by KEVIN B 1

Is this normal? And if so--why? I've been married 16 years and just turned 40 a few months ago. I've always been satisfied with sex once a week (more in the early yrs of our marriage), but I want it ALL the time now and I'm going crazy! Hubby loves it and is able to do it on average once a day, sometimes twice (at least 12 hrs in between). But I'm still constantly horny and wanting more. I've never ever ever cheated, but am now fantasizing this and it scares me. On top of that a few weeks ago some guy called the wrong number looking for his wife (supposedly) and talked me into having phone sex. He calls maybe once a week, sometimes less, but this has just added to my already high sex drive and now I want to meet him--although scared he might be a freak. I am exercising more than ever because that tends to get rid of some of the sexual energy. But, like I said, is this normal? If so, why the heck is this happening and how long will it last?

2007-12-30 22:56:32 · 8 answers · asked by kk 2

2007-12-30 22:43:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-30 22:01:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

No names, now...

2007-12-30 20:58:29 · 22 answers · asked by gone 6

Is my partner tight like a snappers a**hole, or what? We do it on average once or twice a week.

we have two little boys 1 and 2 years. does any other guy have the same situation or does thier missus still put out?

2007-12-30 20:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by hello! 2

there is this guy im absolutely in LOVE with but he is 5!!! years older than me......should i give up all hope.....but i haven't felt this good about a guy in a long time he makes me feel so special...is age just a number??

2007-12-30 20:24:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I loved her kind heart,her words,her huggs,her kisses.
I can remember before she died few days.
we almost knew she was dying,she was weak and refused to eat.
I went to her just few days before her death and brought some buiscits and made her eat from my hands.and she ate after they were trying to make her eat.
while she was laying on the bed,I was looking at her face and she was looking at me but I didn't know if she was really conscious or just looking like that.
and suddenly she smilled peacfully at me.I don't know why but I just copied this smile in my head and said that this will be the last time I see her face.and she died few days after.
till now I can never forget this image at all.
once I remember her,all I remember is this smilling face of an angel.
anytime I remember the scene I cry.
just wanted to talk and express some of my feelings.
anyone had similar story to tell???

2007-12-30 20:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by Pinka 3

Sometimes we take our anger about work or school or whatever, out on the very people we love the most. Whjen you are on the receiving end of someone's anger, what hurts you the most, emotionally? What did that person do? What did he or she say that hurt your feelings?

2007-12-30 19:24:37 · 15 answers · asked by ThisIsIt! 7

So I found out the guy I have been in a relationship with for over four years has had a relationship with this girl for almost three years. I was devastated by the way, It is factual because she apparently has met our son, his mom and is great friends with his sister, I know this because I talked to her. She told me that my fiancee had said that he (23) was with an older woman (me) 27 with kids and that he was no longer with me because he just lost interest in me.. This girl is 21. I have always taken care of myself physically workout regularly and have three kids one with him. I make really good money and have never taken bull from anyone. I am all about my kids but, when she told me he had said that about me to her, it made me self conscious about myself. I have never had a problem attracting the opposite sex and in fact, I have always been loyal to him turning down others advances. My self esteem has been a little low since then and when I think about it, he is not even all that.

2007-12-30 19:13:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that a lot of people especially women think that men are not physically abused by their female partners. So I would for myself like to know how many men out there have experienced this problem and what they actually did about it.
It is also important for me to say that whether you are a man or a woman, no one should feel they have the right to abuse you in any way.

2007-12-30 19:11:07 · 5 answers · asked by suerone 3

its pissing me off ...me and my sister are really pretty and some of our female relative aint happy with that..like one of my uncles wife is always after my sister oww she is short oww she is chubby oww how come your weight is so low while you look so fat...argghh and last night when we went out for dinner this other cousin started commenting on me your teeth are out(which aint) blonde highlightes doesnt look good on you, you need to have brown highlightes instead..Man that pisses me off and i seriously dont know how to answer them back...what exactly should i do to get my attention off when they say such things about us and why are they doing like this ?why why why?

2007-12-30 19:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by Yasmin 3

2007-12-30 18:00:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-30 17:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother-in-law is in trouble. He is the sweetest person in the world. He has done a lot to help other people out of the kindness of his own heart. It's time that he got somthing in return at this time in which he is the one who needs help. It would be the greatest thing if you could please pray for him. This is a man who fed hungry children and a homeless man out on the street and bought an old lady he barely knew an air-conditioner when it was a hundred and three degrees outside and she could barely afford a fan. Please.........God bless all those who help someone who has helped so many others. Just pray for him and God will know what he needs and who he is. Thank you and have a blessed new year.

2007-12-30 17:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by ☠princess_gabrielle... 3

Basically earlier this yr my gf told me she was pregnant after a few arguements,about 5 months went by not once had she prooved she was pregnant or looked it to be infact and never went for scans then around august time she went away for the weekend with what i was told wer m8s she never rang me once while away ,she came back arguement broke out because of this the following friday she dissapppeared for 2 weeks leaving me worryig wer she had gone
it was over a month b4 i found out what she had been up to turned out she met a lad online n went stayed with him fo weeked n then the 2 weeksn slept with him twice acording to the lad she sed she did it cos she lost baby arguements went on but i forgave her, recently i cort her on the net flirtin with lads again and 1 was convinced he was goin out with her i spoke to him on the phone and they wer planing to meet once he kew about me he called it off, i really love this girl and been wid her 3 yrs b4 trouble any ideas ,Thanks in advance

2007-12-30 17:15:27 · 8 answers · asked by Rage 1

If you were a young women could you find an older man attractive. What would draw you to him. His rugged good looks or his wallet.
Not interested in answers under 20 by the way.

2007-12-30 17:13:54 · 4 answers · asked by Michael 2

she quit her job and moved to live with me..it has been 6 months and now she says she does not want to be committed..she is not working and has no where to go..she at times feels bad about her change of heart and apologizes, but i am left with a broken heart and she is content to live as roomies..but she also wants to keep me HANDY when in need..wtf!!!
please help.

2007-12-30 16:50:22 · 3 answers · asked by KT 7

Also if it happens often and you can't do much about it because you live with the person what should you do?

2007-12-30 16:48:58 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I promise that I won't tell.

2007-12-30 16:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not usre what to think. I used to use it as a line with my Ex. When i needed time to think. Now that we have been broken up for a yr. I hope its true. I know relationship need worrk and 110% from both ends.

2007-12-30 15:35:27 · 17 answers · asked by MommieMarcie 1

2007-12-30 13:59:40 · 7 answers · asked by trinisugar 3

We work together and he is always saying I'm beautiful and he loves me, but he seems kind of shady. I never encouraged this. I try to be nice and ignore his comments but it's starting to really creep me out. The other night I had a really bad nightmare about him. And he always wants to see me outside of work but I try to dodge his questions. I don't know what to do. Should I continue to do nothing? Should I tell my boss? Should I tell this guy how I really feel?

2007-12-30 13:39:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to jack off at least once an hour. it is affection my job and my family what should I do

2007-12-30 13:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, me and my other friend are trying to persuade our parents to allow us to go on our senior trip to Europe.
We both make A honor role, and rarely get into trouble.
We understand the cost that it would take to go there and yada yada yada. (Even that we might have to take one of our parents with us ... :( )
So what's a good way to persuade them? What can we tell them to allow us to go?

2007-12-30 13:38:03 · 10 answers · asked by DesperatleyNeedingmyQsAnswered 2

He said he never received any affection from his father and that his father rejected him ever since he was 2. This bothers him a lot. He always had trouble making friends when he was younger(5-20). He began reading books on making friends and now he has about a dozen close friends. A psychologist he knows says she thinks he has Asperger's but did not make a formal diagnosis. He is extremely bright and always was. He had difficulty communicating with his peers because they were unable to understand his language. Adults would love him because they understood the advanced words he he used. He would have trouble with eye contact when he was spoken to. Everyone who meets him really likes him because he is so honest and understanding. What is his real problem and how can he be helped?

2007-12-30 13:36:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is not concerning me, but more or less is concerning my sister. I can openly say that I have had sex with my boyfriend of 2 years, but for us its not something we do everytime we see each other.
My younger sister of only 14, is turning into a bad example out of nowhere. I know she has begun having sex with her boyfriend of only 2 months, and from what I hear from her friends she is having it constantly. I know shes not emotionally mature enough yet to even think about having it so my mother, my older sister as well as I have all sat down and talked to her about it, but its like she doesnt care. Were afraid that if this goes on she may end up pregnant or contracting a std/sti. She acts as if she is aware of this but in reality she doesnt. Has anyone ever dealt with something like this before, what have you done? Or does anyone know of any help sessions we could all go to, to help her?

thanks:)

2007-12-30 13:32:10 · 2 answers · asked by jahnaa 3

Ok, I'm 13 years old but extremely mature for my age (mentally and physically), as is my boyfriend, Alex. He's 15, 6'1, and 160lbs of mostly muscle. I've been with him for 3 and a half years now and we're so in love, it's crazy, I didn't think it was possible to fall in love at my age. Anyways.. So.. I'll just say it, I've been raped a few times by the same guy and I'm not turning him in (it's too complicated to explain, but trust me they're good reasons). Alex is always saying he wants to protect me and everything, but I didn't think he'd be able to defend both of us against the guy and his friends. I guess to try to comfort me, he told me he would be able to because he learned from an old martial arts class how to kill somebody without any weapons. That scared me to death, and I'm still really afraid of him now. He knows, and he's sorry. He said he never wants to scare me or hurt me.. And I know he means it, but I can't help but be afraid.. How can I get past this? Any ideas?

2007-12-30 13:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok when i was in high school i lived with my aunt. There was a teacher renting a room, so he became a member of our family. I helped him a lot cause he was nice 2 me and he called my aunt mom, my dad uncle and my mom aunt. He ate all the meals with us( my aunt and my sis) We did his laundry cleaned his room, polished his shoes. He would give me money for school...like a sports trip, school choir and he would buy me clothes if i ever wanted anything. He had a gal friend but not living with him...when he was not home the girl friend would ask if i needed anything for school..like money. He always told me that he loves me( not the other kind of love like) But i would just smile. After high school i moved again to live with my other aunt. One day i went to the publick phones....and when i came back he asked me who did i call ..i told her that i called this guy..she got mad at me and asked told me that was wrong. I did not say anything cause in my culture u dont argue with the elders.

2007-12-30 13:27:15 · 1 answers · asked by Boom 1