Other - Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

Hi sorry about being morbid over the Christmas period but Ive been dumped by my boyfriend of 5 years just before Christmas day, think is, is he's still here do you think its because he still loves me and is testing me? or do you think he's still going? I mean wouldn't you have found somewhere to live 1st before dumping me? He say's he's looking for somewhere to live but if he felt like this a few weeks ago wouldn't you be looking for somewhere to live 1st then tell me it's over as he has somewhere to go? I'm so confused about it all and ive asked him but he says its definetly over. But seriously would you not have found somewhere to go before you finished it?

2007-12-25 23:29:59 · 26 answers · asked by vikki w 4

she is now meeting her dad whom she hasn't see since she was three she is six now. the last time she saw him he was married and had one child.now he is still married and has two children.she cries and says she doesn't want to meet him.she doesn't remember him at all.she thinks he only loves his new wife and sons and that he hates her.The first time she saw him was when he was at the park kissing his wife with their kids playing.He didn't know she was thereand i didn't know he was there.he insist on meeting her with his wife nd parents there. how can i help her get through this?
when we saw them at the park she new him right away by a photo i had show her.and was sad when she saw them together ans started crying. this happened a couple of days ago.
she does question why we broke up
i never filled her head with anything. she is accustom to her my husband whom she has know since she was 4

2007-12-25 23:14:59 · 10 answers · asked by Hmmmmmm 3

2007-12-25 22:33:42 · 5 answers · asked by meix 1

Is it better to be alone and therefore avoid being eventually disappointed by people or is it better to start yet another relationship with someone (romantic or otherwise) and run the risk of being disappointed for the billionth time?

I can't decide.

2007-12-25 22:19:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 22:09:33 · 8 answers · asked by meix 1

This world is full of gift. Which gift I should give to my girl friend who is so young and beautiful. Suggest me gift according to her age and nature of 20 years girl.

2007-12-25 20:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by ashok k 1

does it mean you have stopped caring about someone??

2007-12-25 20:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Growing up I endured abuse as a child and lived in a stressful family environment. As a teen, I suffered severe depression and had many incidences where I did wild things and even once seriously attempted suicide. Medical statistics say that people with that background have more difficulty finding stable romantic relationships.

I'm extremely fortunate and have been with someone for 3 years, he loves me dearly, wants to marry me, and all my friends say that he's just a dream man, with a good job, family values, he's even gorgeous to top it off. Thing is...I haven't really had trouble finding men to stay with me. I'm not trying to sound stuck up, I admit that I'm moody, get depressed easily, and even have emotional flareups commonly. But I am extremely affectionate and try to make it up after calming down.

Anyways, long question short, I feel like of all people I'd have the most trouble keeping someone, so what exactly is it that keeps a man in a relationship?

2007-12-25 20:07:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know people believe in reincarnation or that a life replaces another life but It's just crazy that in my family, whenever there's a death, there's almost always someone else in the family who's either pregnant or just had a baby. For example, I was born a few months before my great grandma died and I think my cousin was pregnant at 2 different funerals. It happens all the time in my family. I just had a death in the family and I predict that someone is gonna announce their pregnancy soon!

2007-12-25 19:45:53 · 3 answers · asked by Thing 5

Ladies what will your reaction be if your husband did not buy you a gift for Christmas but you went out of your way & bought him many gifts.

2007-12-25 18:48:08 · 6 answers · asked by Cute 2

2007-12-25 18:05:40 · 5 answers · asked by ravish s 1

2007-12-25 17:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5

more for a few years I want to grow old with both if not just one... ok Ive loved this girl for 10 years that kind of remembers me yet the other one known for 4 years and Im told she wants babies with me and wants to be my wife I want both of their children but am afraid of losing either one of them over time and I am wondering if a marrage of 3 people could or would last untill old age

2007-12-25 16:46:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know in my heart this relationship is over. He make me so unhappy, stresses me out everyday, makes me cry, takes enjoyment out of things I love. He doesn't hit me or call me names, he just has his own way of making me feel like crap. But I'm 100% dependant on him for money. I have no job training, or an education for that matter. I'm a stay at home mom to our wonderful children. If I leave him then I have no way to take care of our kids and I know he won't help more than he has to. Wich isn't even enough to pay one months rent. I also have some minor, yet difficult, health problems and no family other than him & our kids. Do I try to stick it out til our kids are at least school aged and I can get job training, or do I uproot all our lives and live in a shealter? What do I do????

2007-12-25 14:46:02 · 7 answers · asked by qwerty8404 1

My mom was telling me about how she wants her new boyfriend to move in with us this weekend. I told her it was fine but first of all, her divorce doesn't go through until next October and it wouldn't be legal for any man to move in with us until it went through. Also, they've only been together for a month. So... should I tell her my true feelings? If so, what are some things I could say?

2007-12-25 14:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by Hood Smart; 2

If she died, I would literally kill myself. I am pretty sure though, that she likes more than just a friend. And, I think that I might possibly be in love with her, too. But, I dont know what to do? Please help. She doesnt know I feel like this yet.

2007-12-25 14:27:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, my name is Brady. I'm a boy 17 years old and I like to wear girls underwear.

I tried on my first pair, when I was 11. I was playing hiding-go seek, with my friends. And I was look through drawers in the bathroom for a falshlight, cause it was dark. And I opened a drawer and it was my mom's underwear. I tried on a cheetah thong. It was really comfotable. After that I went down there to bring 3 pairs up to my room. And I wore them to sleep. I really like them. And I don't want to give them up. But is this wrong?

2007-12-25 14:25:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i always lived a decent life, i think.. i always used to 'play santa' at christmas, for the kids.. i'd go out late at night on christmas eve dropping off presents.. i'll admit i drove fast sometimes but, there was never any traffic out on christmas eve and i was always in a hurry, dropping off the many gifts.. i dont really remember the accident but, one year, i was in a wreck.. i'm paralized from the mid-chest down now.. and i just get so sad this time of year.. often i think about suicide.. i'm so helpless and lonely in this world.. i have nothing to do but get on yahoo and make up crap stories like this one.. ha ha

2007-12-25 14:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

her and her boyfriend are having an arguement..
her boyfriend says that if you hold in gas you die..
and my mom says its not true..
she told me to ask yahoo answers....
its stupid.. but can you answer so they can stop?

2007-12-25 14:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

last friday i took off work. thats usually not a big deal. BUT i had to go to work because i forgot to right vacation time on my time card. when i got to work, one of the techs says "dang heidi, i wish i could get a Friday off!!!". i was totally SHOCKED! but anyway, i'm wanting to take off on Thursday because my Great Grandmother's birthday party (she's now 102 years old). i have to take off because it's out of town. i have to ask the girl that was mad @ me if she could work for me. but i was thinking that i could say, she can take off on Friday and i'll work for her all day. i need the hours anyway. should i even ask her. i did forget to say, about 4 hours later, she texted me and said she's sorry for blowing up @ me, and that she didnt mean it. what should i do? ask her or not?

2007-12-25 13:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by ○HiD○ 4

that doesnt make me a social outkast right? doesnt that just make me more of independt type person...be HONEST what do you think?

2007-12-25 11:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by babygirl0 1

some time ago i found something in my teenage son's room, when i was cleaning it up....it was a photo of me, that he had obviousely taken sectretly while i was changing in my room and the door was a little open. it showed me from behind, bending over, in only a thong (and a t-shirt)....and recently i even found one of my own (worn!) thongs besides his bed. i know he has lots of pictures on his PC, mainly of women's behinds in thongs. he obviously has a thong-fetish....but with all the pics from the internet, why does he get turned on by MY butt? is his brain turning off, as soon as he sees a female butt in a thong?

i know that teenage boys can be very much influenced and controlled by their hormones. so i decided that i won’t talk to him about it, cause that would embarrass him too much and be just terrible for him.

but i'd just like to understand....why does he masturbate looking at HIS MOM's butt, when he can look at any other girl's thong/butt?

2007-12-25 11:51:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

miss school. its weird i hate it when i am there but once i get away from all of my friends i wanna go back so bad. i actually miss the people that get on my nerves all day.

2007-12-25 11:30:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well i hav this guyfriend and he told me he like me and then i told him i like him then he ask me out and i said yes and i am worried about our friendship what should i do do you really think it will mess it up or wat?

2007-12-25 11:24:36 · 6 answers · asked by penguin101 1

Do you prefer it that way?

2007-12-25 10:53:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy who everytime he txts me he tries to humiliate me he is kind of a bully.what would u do?

2007-12-25 10:44:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 09:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by House 1

ok me and this guy that I work with used to have a thing goin on..well I quit my job for like a year and now I am with someone and he is with someone, but we have discovered that we still have feelings for each other...and have been seeing each other again.....I love him soo much, and I think that he loves me....well he used to before, and I got him a card for Christmas and wrote a little note in it letting him know that I did still love him and he hasnt said anything about it???? what is that about?? and then today we were...well....you know?? LOL and right in the middle of all the action, he asks me if I want to have a baby??? =( what is going on with this? I told him we would talk later and when I ask him about it he just said he meant later on down the line, when we could be together just me and him, that one day he would like to have another child. He has one and so do I? ok can someone help me with this? do you think he loves me and just doesnt say it or what??? help I am lost!!

2007-12-25 09:49:53 · 7 answers · asked by ashleyrenae21 1

Christmas eve we had an argument.. bottom line she slandered my integrity as a man.. so I told her if she feels that way than we shouldnt be together..

Long story short she left. Christmas Morning she wants to tell me how she was wrong and that she said things cause she was upset but didnt mean it.. Im like you say things so much I can only take so much..

Heres the thing we made up made love and she never told me that she threw my Ring away.. My mom peep't it out while at her home Today.. I was devastated by that cause I never checked.. I got up from moms house.. took the fiancee' back to her car... and said have a good day with your family.. Now im home cleaning up and thinking that her impluses is a deal breaker.. She says she sorry that I had to find out that way. But my thing is that she could have told me when she was apologizing and saying she want us to work.. I think she says what she feels just to get by.. Im so Heart Broke..

2007-12-25 09:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by ☻Jay ™☻ 4

My male friend nagged me for ages to go look at his new flat which i did but ever since i said to him oh ill have to come over again sometime he answers like he didnt read the email properly. I hope he hasnt gone off me we still go to lunch and when we email its back n forth. The thing is he wont give me a straight answer yet will give me his new mobile number and when i told him someone else was teaching me to play snooker he seemed jealous like oh whats wrong with me teaching u. Im so confused

2007-12-25 08:29:05 · 2 answers · asked by shelley 1