some time ago i found something in my teenage son's room, when i was cleaning it up....it was a photo of me, that he had obviousely taken sectretly while i was changing in my room and the door was a little open. it showed me from behind, bending over, in only a thong (and a t-shirt)....and recently i even found one of my own (worn!) thongs besides his bed. i know he has lots of pictures on his PC, mainly of women's behinds in thongs. he obviously has a thong-fetish....but with all the pics from the internet, why does he get turned on by MY butt? is his brain turning off, as soon as he sees a female butt in a thong?
i know that teenage boys can be very much influenced and controlled by their hormones. so i decided that i won’t talk to him about it, cause that would embarrass him too much and be just terrible for him.
but i'd just like to understand....why does he masturbate looking at HIS MOM's butt, when he can look at any other girl's thong/butt?
2007-12-25 11:51:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ya know, I'm kinda wondering why you have asked this very same question 8 times. That and your thong pioneer question. If you are so proud of your hot little butt, hows about giving us a little peek? It's not like there aren't any pictures of it laying around................
Looked at your answers. You love your butt, and smacking guys in the balls. Very strange, but somehow very interesting and intriguing.............
2007-12-25 12:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
It's probably not that YOUR butt is turning him on, but rather that it's a Real butt! His brain probably is turning off when he sees a thong! I had a similar situation with my younger brother...he tried to spy on me in the shower, but I think it was because he wanted to see a naked woman...Hopefully...
2007-12-25 12:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would get the pic's of myself off of his PC and I would be alot more careful when changing and so on! Yes, he will notice that the pic's are gone but he will not approach you about it and of course treat him no different than you have been! Good luck!
2007-12-25 11:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are that age you sometimes do weird stuff, because of the hormones, but you get over that when you grow up.
2007-12-28 14:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by M_H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably some sort of an Oedipal Complex (sexual fascination with mom). You MUST talk to him about this, embarassing or not. Then you MAY need to get into see a counselor, depending on his reaction.
2007-12-25 14:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lee K 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree with Mimi....and I also think he is selling your pics to his buddies for cash...to buy his own thongs to wear.
2007-12-25 15:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
ohhh plueeezee...grow up. i don't care how hot you are...BOYS DON'T THINK OF THEIR MOTHER AS HOT. either you are a perv or your son is selling your thongs and pics to his buddies.
btw...this is a funny (but disturbing) question. next time change your son to your step son and this question might work.
2007-12-25 14:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
tell his father, he'll know the appropriate way to address it without making him feel bad.
2007-12-25 11:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by charmed 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋