ok me and this guy that I work with used to have a thing goin on..well I quit my job for like a year and now I am with someone and he is with someone, but we have discovered that we still have feelings for each other...and have been seeing each other again.....I love him soo much, and I think that he loves me....well he used to before, and I got him a card for Christmas and wrote a little note in it letting him know that I did still love him and he hasnt said anything about it???? what is that about?? and then today we were...well....you know?? LOL and right in the middle of all the action, he asks me if I want to have a baby??? =( what is going on with this? I told him we would talk later and when I ask him about it he just said he meant later on down the line, when we could be together just me and him, that one day he would like to have another child. He has one and so do I? ok can someone help me with this? do you think he loves me and just doesnt say it or what??? help I am lost!!
2007-12-25 09:49:53 · 7 answers · asked by ashleyrenae21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whoa slow down! Baby? Where'd that come from? How can he ask you for a baby when you don't even know what you relationship status is? Are you guys just hooking up, going steady, what? And what do you mean "then today we were...well...you know??" clarify on that? Anyway, you should talk to him about it and discuss how serious your relationship is and whether you want to stay in a committed relationship...then discuss the baby.
2007-12-25 09:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ketty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well' that seems strange to me in a way. because it used to be that a person would ask someone to get married. before ever thinking about asking something such as that. so I will answer that as a no' he does not love you. if he did he would ask to marry you, then have a child. if not, he could just walk away when he feels as if he does not want to deal with the responsibility. that is the reason for marriage. to hold two together, as to form a family. as a bond and respect to each other. with out respect, and marriage you have nothing.
2007-12-25 23:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not lost. You're cheating on your boyfriend and he's cheating on his girlfriend and you're talking having babies...what don't you understand here? You need to each have ONE relationship at a time. You are both playing a stupid game and you are all going to be losers! Grow up!
2007-12-25 17:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your thoughts are foggy because the sex is so good.
2007-12-25 18:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go with how you feel..and if you are ready..ask yourself..is he the man you want to spend the rest of your life with??
2007-12-25 17:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by bubblez aka smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i dont know yooh need to sit down and talk
2007-12-25 17:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait...are you cheating or something? that is just so sick and wrong. i feel bad for your kids...
2007-12-25 17:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by steffo:D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋