Other - Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

2007-12-29 22:22:16 · 25 answers · asked by javidetroit 1

i have a stalker. any tips on how to deal with him?

i've already mastered the art of lying and keeping a straight face cuz i'm in drama. i'm good at ditching him cuz i'm short and quick, but he knows where i hang out and with who.

here's some background info: (u don't have to read it)

- i'm a 100% sure that he's gay.
- he denies the fact that he's gay, even though he stands, walks, talks, dresses, and acts gay
- he's 'my best friend' according to him
- he does anything he can to make my life a living hell (tells everyone all this crap about me that's not true, threatens me - he's huge, annoying, and fat, he thinks i'm a worthless peice of crap so he tells it to people who he thinks are listening to a word he says, i hide my comments on myspace, which he sumhow hacks into, reads, and shares with others, forces me to be his partner for projects since he can't find one due to the fact that everyone hates him, and there are plenty more)

2007-12-29 18:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by janey ♥ 4

Out of the blue, my aunt left my uncle and moved across the country to be with her boyfriend. She left behind four small children and she hasn't contacted them in three months.

How could this happen?

2007-12-29 17:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by Due March 9th, 2010 5

curious...

2007-12-29 16:33:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a sales associate at Ny&Co my store manager is completely rude and plays favorites .As well she hired her friends to work there and they get the best hours. The sales associates and other managers feel the same way. What can be done ?

2007-12-29 16:14:36 · 4 answers · asked by gocrazyy 1

2007-12-29 14:38:27 · 18 answers · asked by . 6

I don't know if writing here will help me but I am kinda desperate and would like to know what others think that may be able to make me feel a bit better than I feel. This year has been a horrible year. I mean prob one of the worse. I am bi polar and have been my whole life but never knew it until about a few years ago. I am 25 and still going to school and trying to get my life in order. Recently I was arrested because my mom and Igot in afight in the car and she was driving and I hit her. I know that is horrible. I know that I should not have done it. There are two sides to the story though. there is alot that she does that she does not own up to. I feel she has always kinda put me down and made me feel worthless. I get these rages that I have gotten since I was little and always was told it was a behavioral prob and it was in a way but it was actually do to my manic episodes I think. I am trying to get my emotions in control but the day i got arrested ... I don't knwo what happened

2007-12-29 14:26:48 · 14 answers · asked by janet w 1

So it all started about 3 years ago when i started to use the computer. One day i felt bored so I made a poser page and mess with a few friends.( I know I'm wrong.) I won't state what sex I am but I am going to tell you that I made a poser which is the opposite sex as I am. so "IT" came to my site and said hello. and ever since that i got caught up and keep going at it, and talked to "IT". 3 Years ago was a young age for me, I'm starting to understand things little more clearier now & No ..I'm not talking to "IT" anymore. I realized what i've done and what I was doing.I feel guilty,hurt,confuse.& really MISS "IT" miss our convosation what we shared. "IT" really made me happy, I don't know why but I feel like I've fallen for "IT" 3 years has pass and I still miss "IT" ..We'll we both shared a huge chemistry.. we told each other how we felt "IT" always want to see me but knowing that i wasn't what she thought hurted me. so I havn't talk to "it" anymore knowing that i hurt IT.

2007-12-29 14:06:43 · 6 answers · asked by Chewy 1

Say if your female or male. Why do you regret it/Why dont you regret it?

2007-12-29 13:12:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 23 and have a girlfriend anna who is the mother to my 2yo daughter katie,iv been with anna for 5 years, im 70%happy in the relastionship. when i was 15 i dated my old next door neighbour natalie for something silly like 2 weeks, natalie was the first girl i really felt something for however after 2 weeks i just left her without saying a word and basicly ignored her.i dont know why i did that, maybe it was because i was shy or scared or just to imature to process those feelings i just dont know. now 7 years later im thinking about her all the time, and i feel really depressed like im suffocating, why am i feeling this after so many years, surely by now i should have completely forgotten about natalie,shouldent i?is it just that i want to be 15 again and have young love or is it i want natalie?shes engaged and has a child, i havent seen her since i was 15 so whats wrong with me. or is bcoz im thinkin what it would b like now if i had stayed with her, if id made a mistake 7years ago

2007-12-29 11:48:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

In all honesty I would have a bit of money if I didn't have kids. I told him to travel the world and be adventurous.

2007-12-29 11:17:57 · 39 answers · asked by D 7

2007-12-29 10:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by rob m 2

How many children does a person have before others think it is a lot or too many?

2007-12-29 09:58:50 · 7 answers · asked by Luck Y 1

2007-12-29 09:46:49 · 7 answers · asked by April 5

I need to run far far away. What is the best place to run away to start a new life away from family and friends?

2007-12-29 09:25:31 · 26 answers · asked by TheDoll 3

To revise for my A Level Business exam!!!!! I have Btec travel and tourism coursework to do as well. i am so scared that i will fail i have notes and know what to revise but i just don't know that how shall i revise and the best and how to stick the information in my brain for week!!! i want to pass but i know that the style of the answer needs to be different as well that makes me nervous as well!!!! thanks for help

2007-12-29 09:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a professional woman, but I barely have had serious relationships in the past. At the moment Im single and would love to meet new guys, etc. I miss being in a relationship, that is. And as I'm soon to be 30, I still haven't met someone who's worth and that is into commitment.

I've heard and read that women that have children after their 30's have less chances of having healthy kids and in many cases don't have children at all. I've been told and have read that the eggs in women by their 30's and after reproduce less and are unhealthy eggs. I don't want to be waiting to be 40, 50, etc. to have kids.

If I don't meet a man who's willing to commit by the time I reach 35, should I not have my kids, and forget about it. Should I wait to find the right man to have them with? what do you suggest?

Ps: Every woman's dream is to be professional, successful (I have acomplished that thank God), but also to find a loving husband, and of course have children, a family. Any single moms?

2007-12-29 09:13:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

even though he said he would never be with u again and that he hated u...either with or without kids involved.
and did it work?

For guys who answer this question, when u say all this things do u say cos u mean it or sometimes is just to be nasty and hurt us?

2007-12-29 08:24:23 · 6 answers · asked by Cuca C 1

I left my ex the beginning of 2007 and moved to out of state with our then 2 year daughter and I am learning that it is not that easy to take care of her on my own and I need to know what if any resources are available to she and I. So far I have
tried to give him a chance to by an active (paying) part of her life, but he gives excuses left and right so I have enrolled in school and I really want to take classes full time, but I know that financially we will be lacking. I want to know how to maximize social services without being dependent.....

2007-12-29 07:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by yp_vasi_gwynn_oak 2

My husband invited 2 of his female friends without my consent, told him when I found out that I didn't want his 2 female friends around for dinner but he still invited them. Infact right now they are downstairs drinking wine and getting drunk.

2007-12-29 07:38:48 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 25 n ive been going out with my fella 4 years next month.
i love him 2 bit n he loves me.
2 be honest the relationship is moving slower than i thought it would. i thought id be engaged n living with him within 2 years but hey we're not.
i really want to start a family. i know he isnt interested. we always use comdoms he insists on putting them on...

i just dunno what 2 do about this. everytime i see a baby or hear that someone is pregnant i get all jelous and wish it was me.

2007-12-29 07:33:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 07:12:25 · 11 answers · asked by A S 1

I have known this for a long time. Go back to your home planet of gurgleboby.

2007-12-29 07:07:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 06:41:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 06:28:50 · 2 answers · asked by tricky 3

Okay. So, let's say you're 17 or 18, dating--you know, the usual high school puppy love stuff. Your girl moves because she has to. You guys are fine with it at first, but then, she writes to you saying she found someone new. Fast forward, seven years later. You're high school sweetheart and your best friend are engaged and set to marry. Unfortunately, your best friend dies. But before he dies, he makes you promise to get back with her. You're torn between getting back with her and breaking your promise to your best friend because all of the hurt is re-openned again, as you see each other for the first time again in years. What would you do? You still love her, and she obviously still loves you. But the hurt keeps coming back. Would you get back with her and fulfill your promise to your best friend, or would you let your ego get the better of you? What would you do?

2007-12-29 06:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend/now fiancee of about a year used to always call me gorgeous and how much he loved me and everything but now he is always telling me i need to put on weight because i lost a lot..(i dont know why though) and all he talks about is sex and things he wants to do, he still tells me he loves me and stuff but it almost seems like he loves me mostly for my looks now.. what should i do?

2007-12-29 05:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by Ally 2

One of my personal goals for next year is trust women more. Here's the deal:
For some reason if a woman does something nice for me, or says something nice about me, in the back of my mind, I'm asking myself "what does she want"? I realize this is all in my head probably, but I've watched over the last few months with the females I do know, they have time for me when they want/need something from me. I was brought up to help my friends no matter what time of the day/night, and I always will. I'm just a plain average guy (looks, income, possessions, etc), and a single parent 24/7, so my encounters with women are very few. When I say "hi" or "how was your day"?? etc,,,they don't have time. But when they need something, they're around a lot more than I can count. I'm even at the stage when a female friend says "hi", I ask her what she wants. I know this isn't right, but how can I overcome this if the only time I see them is when they need something.

How can I trust more?

2007-12-29 05:48:11 · 30 answers · asked by yafvoc 3

hi
recently we had broked up now we are no more in contact n i have accepted that the reality. now i dont find anything to do, financially i m storng . i dont know w hat to do and how to pass this life..?huh
i dunnoo drink and i have already pursuaded my grad..utaion,
i thought to do a lot of things w hen ever i m go and start a new thign she comes in my mind and i tart crying ... n i again sit in the same situation
HI
I TRIED MY LEVEL BEST TO BRING HER BACK BUT NOW SHE DOESNT WANT TO HAVE ANY MORE CONTACTS ...SO I NEED TO RESPECT HER DECISION IN THE LIFE

2007-12-29 05:22:11 · 1 answers · asked by workholic m 1

Someone told me that a kid is the best gift but I much rather have a bank account of money to know that I am secure and my happiness back along with freedom. Kids cause me too worry to much about finances their well being and everything else that it takes to live. I had a stress test done and I rated in the 500 range ready to have a heart attack.

2007-12-29 05:17:13 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1