tips on having / dealing with a stalker?

Question

i have a stalker. any tips on how to deal with him?

i've already mastered the art of lying and keeping a straight face cuz i'm in drama. i'm good at ditching him cuz i'm short and quick, but he knows where i hang out and with who.

here's some background info: (u don't have to read it)

- i'm a 100% sure that he's gay.
- he denies the fact that he's gay, even though he stands, walks, talks, dresses, and acts gay
- he's 'my best friend' according to him
- he does anything he can to make my life a living hell (tells everyone all this crap about me that's not true, threatens me - he's huge, annoying, and fat, he thinks i'm a worthless peice of crap so he tells it to people who he thinks are listening to a word he says, i hide my comments on myspace, which he sumhow hacks into, reads, and shares with others, forces me to be his partner for projects since he can't find one due to the fact that everyone hates him, and there are plenty more)

to the person that said kick him in the testicles, u can't kick wuts not there.

and i told him to piss off and that he was starting to get on my nerves...bad things came of it.

and i change my password a lot. but it turns out that he knows how to read em without my password.

Answer 1

Everytime you see or talk to him, ask to borrow a hundred dollars.

Answer 2

Assuming you and the stalker both are in school, it might be a wise idea to inform the Principal or campus security about this creep, what he's doing and how it makes you feel.

School and college administrators now take student safety VERY seriously, given the school shootings like the Virginia Tech incident; as a student, your safety is most important to them.

As for the creep's hacking your MySpace page, I suggest you change the password every 5 days (careful to write down the password AT HOME). After about 2 or so weeks of password changes, the creep will likely give up trying to hack in and mess up your MySpace page.

But don't take this flaky creep lightly--tell your school's administration about him and let them deal w/ this scumbag.

Answer 3

Talk to your teachers!! Talk to your parents!! Tell everyone and anyone what this guy is doing. A harasser/stalker's best friend is silence. Tell everyone. Tell it from the rooftops. Don't worry about embarrassing him. Change your myspace password. Report him to myspace (hacking is illegal). DO NOT put up with this behaviour and DO NOT allow him near you at all. Don't talk to him, don't be near him, don't partner with him, don't have anything to do with him.

Answer 4

Okay, I have an idea, but you'll need a ten gallon bucket, two sticks of butter, and an old shoe...

Okay, maybe you'll need a toaster too, but anyway, tell him you want him to leave you alone and then tell him just why you think he's annoying.

And if that doesn't work, kick him in the testes and run like hell.

Answer 5

tell the police and get a restraining order.


if you dont want to go that severe, eliminate him from your life.
stop talking to him and ignore his gossip.

You true friends wont believe his lies.
both you and them know what the truth is.

Answer 6

Talk to a parent or the schools office.
If it doesnt stop, call the cops.

Answer 7

Tell him to get a life and to get out of yours. Obviously he needs to, seriously.

Answer 8

easy, you hit him with a fraying pan or run for r life.

Answer 9

get a restraining order

Answer 10

hmmm