My husband invited 2 of his female friends without my consent, told him when I found out that I didn't want his 2 female friends around for dinner but he still invited them. Infact right now they are downstairs drinking wine and getting drunk.
2007-12-29 07:38:48 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They even tried f**king him when I was out of the country.
Yes sometimes he is such an a$$ hole.
2007-12-29 07:57:11 · update #1
I do not think he cares what you think or want.
2007-12-29 07:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 6⤊ 2⤋
There are a myriad of issues here. Your age, the length of your marriage, the maturity of each of you, the intentions of the friends...and that is just the start.
A husband who ignores the sensitive needs of his wife is either very selfish or not respectful, or simply stupid.
Marriage is a marathon and often has many bumps and bruises along the way. However, if you maintain a proper and mature level of behavior while your husband does not, at least you will never regret what you have done. Sorry to say, but over 50% of marriages in this country end in divorce. The old adage of " born alone, die alone and in the middle you meet some people" requires that you maintain the values you have in spite of the actions of others.
tell him you would rather he not have female friends over doing that stuff and see what he does. After that you must determine your own action and stick to your guns. If you let him dictate to you things you won't accept, you will loose all control and end up a disappointed dormat looking elsewhere for respect and affection.
2007-12-29 07:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Allan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your married doesnt mean he cant have girls for friends. Stop nagging and either go down stairs and join them or go out and get your own friends.
Also, if you made youself a bit prettier and stayed away from the cookie jar he might have some more interest in you.
2007-12-29 07:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Calmly phone for a taxi when it arrives tell the girls to go do not start a slanging match just be firm. Hopefully they will get the message and depart. then kick your husband in the nuts. Good luck xx
2007-12-29 07:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is outrageous. Show him that wife doesn't have to cook , clean and slave out in the kitchen. She needs to be respected too. Control his finances , get a job and use a beauty parlour regularly for your own happiness. A confident woman makes a man purr around her .
2007-12-29 07:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by HimJoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooooo... go pour out the booze and kick him in the shins and throw his cloths out the front door! OR Ask yourself what you are doing in the marriage. Think about this. What are you going to do to remain financially stable. A Monday visit to the bank to close him out is probably wise. Hang in there!
2007-12-29 07:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by Gina C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's disrespectful of him to do that!!
Why not let this one go for now. Go downstairs and don't let it spoil your evening.
Tomorrow, when he's sober, let him know how unhappy it made you that he ignored your request.
I know so many people that have been widowed very young, so they would give anything to be with their husbnads right now - however angry he was making them.,
Life's too short hun.
Go have fun :)
2007-12-29 07:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by MISS B.ITCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you telling him that he can't have friends over? Is it just because they are female? Are you jealous? Or...I don't know. Is it possible you were being unreasonable? Still, he shouldn't have invited them over if you had a problem with it, that's disrespectful. Go tell those girls to please leave, you and your hubby need to talk.
2007-12-29 07:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Southern Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have enough respect for you to honor your wish not to have them there, he doesn't deserve your respect either. Don't do something stupid just to get back at him. Be more mature. But I wouldn't let it slide. Sit down and talk to him about it calmly later, not when either of you have been drinking.
2007-12-29 07:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go down the stairs and tell theses 2 females that your sorry but they,re not welcome in your house and you dont know why your husband chose to invite them as you asked him not to.He obviously has NO respect for your feelings.Humiliate him by saying this to them.He might go mad and you,ll probably have a fight but lets face it he wont do it again ha ha
2007-12-29 07:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has shown you no respect.
Why are you not involved in their little boozy party?
I think that it is vile behavior.
In your situation I'd be tempted to make a scene but try to stay cool.... Consider leaving him if he continues this huge disrespect.
2007-12-29 07:43:11 · answer #11 · answered by Siamese Triplets 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋