Broke up ,now i dont have anything to do..HELP PLZ....?

Question

hi
recently we had broked up now we are no more in contact n i have accepted that the reality. now i dont find anything to do, financially i m storng . i dont know w hat to do and how to pass this life..?huh
i dunnoo drink and i have already pursuaded my grad..utaion,
i thought to do a lot of things w hen ever i m go and start a new thign she comes in my mind and i tart crying ... n i again sit in the same situation
HI
I TRIED MY LEVEL BEST TO BRING HER BACK BUT NOW SHE DOESNT WANT TO HAVE ANY MORE CONTACTS ...SO I NEED TO RESPECT HER DECISION IN THE LIFE

Answer 1

I am sorry for your loss of a the relationship you had. Yes, you need to respect her decision and move on. It is okay to grieve and then move on. I find that volunteering to be a way of helping others and helping you forget about your problems, at least for a little while. You will also get out and meet others. You will put a smile on others faces and and put a smile in your heart. As time passes, you will still remember but the pain will not be as bad. Do not stay inside and do not try to start dating someone else because you would be considered being on the rebound. Get out and meet people and consider them as just friends. When you volunteer, you meet people. Do things with your friends and family and do not go to where you frequented with her or where you think you might see her. You will be just fine. Have a good New Year.