So it all started about 3 years ago when i started to use the computer. One day i felt bored so I made a poser page and mess with a few friends.( I know I'm wrong.) I won't state what sex I am but I am going to tell you that I made a poser which is the opposite sex as I am. so "IT" came to my site and said hello. and ever since that i got caught up and keep going at it, and talked to "IT". 3 Years ago was a young age for me, I'm starting to understand things little more clearier now & No ..I'm not talking to "IT" anymore. I realized what i've done and what I was doing.I feel guilty,hurt,confuse.& really MISS "IT" miss our convosation what we shared. "IT" really made me happy, I don't know why but I feel like I've fallen for "IT" 3 years has pass and I still miss "IT" ..We'll we both shared a huge chemistry.. we told each other how we felt "IT" always want to see me but knowing that i wasn't what she thought hurted me. so I havn't talk to "it" anymore knowing that i hurt IT.
2007-12-29 14:06:43 · 6 answers · asked by Chewy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is hard for me to give up the past, i have dones things i have never done..each time i think about it makes me wanna cry. sometimes i ask God why couldn't I be the one..maybe i'm to selfish..
2007-12-29 14:08:10 · update #1
Well i wish that could be easy. but misleading someone and lying to them hurts.
2007-12-29 14:12:48 · update #2
You mean cry? Well dont everyone cry for the one that love or care?
2007-12-29 14:15:36 · update #3
Oh barnicals! what an iodiot i am. Thanks guys.
2007-12-29 14:19:30 · update #4
I hope so..
2007-12-29 14:23:04 · update #5
For one miss thang is WRONG! lol...just cause this person said the person they were talking to was a she does not really tell you what sex this person is...think about it...Anyways don't feel so bad honestly alot more people do that then you think...I mean that's kinda what the internet is good for right?..being able to be someone your not if you want to...Hell alot of people on this site act different then they really are in real life...or at least I hope they do..lol..My point is that yes it's messed up to pertend to be something or someone your not..but people do it all the time and don't even realize...People should not put so much trust in strangers on the internet..cause that's what we all are...Strangers...if the girl you were talking to was really that heart broken over someone they didn't even really know..then she has way more issues then you...I think the chances of you telling her the truth about it all and her being cool with it are slim to none...cause honestly no matter what kind of "connection" you had with her..it was not "real" cause she does not know the real you...
2007-12-29 14:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked_Angel25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you, but you are learning what it means to regret your mistakes. We all make them, what is important is that we do everything we can to correct them and undo any damage that has been done. And then learn not to make those mistakes again.
You can do one of 3 things.
#1 - contact her (you slipped and said "she" once) and tell her the whole truth. Tell her you are sorry and miss her and want to have a more honest relationship. You never know, she may forgive you. She may not.
#2 - Contact her as yourself and not let her know that you are the one who she was in chatting with before. You can try to have a relationship this way. Not my best choice, as it bases a relationship on dishonesty.
#3 - Do nothing and move on. Hope she has moved on as well.
Don't be too hard on yourself. Yes, you were wrong...but there may be a way to earn redemption. One way is to keep all of your forthcoming relationships (romantic, professional and friend-based) on an honest level.
I hope you get some peace from this.
2007-12-29 22:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO YOU GAVE YOURSELF AWAY, IN THE SECOND TO THE LAST SENTENCE. U R A MAN WHO POSED AS A WOMAN AND SHE THOUGHT U WERE A WOMAN. U GAINED A CONNECTION AND NOW U MISS HER. SO CONTACT HER AND REGAIN THE CHEMISTRY. TELL HER THE TRUTH SO SHE WILL KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WAS GOING ON AND GO FROM THEIR.
2007-12-29 22:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Thang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you really got your self in a real cookie.huh. I really do not have any advice to give you. only to be honest. that is the best recipe. explain things, it may not make a diffrence. but it will to you.
2007-12-29 22:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Liz27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so basically your saying you miss someone of the same sex as you?
uhm well go back on your website thingy and talk to "IT" again.
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2007-12-29 22:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by buttfacex33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is fine, go with your heart and talk to her again and see where it leads.
2007-12-29 22:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋