Other - Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

Because I am The Special One, I don't have to rush around at the last minute shopping and I certainly don't get stressed out or anything like that.

I just sit back and relax and take everything in my stride.

You see her indoors does all this for me, in fact as I am typing this question I'm totally stress free. She came in from work at midday and is now away to asda doing all the last minute shopping etc.

But I don't think that I'm that selfish, because I gave her a £10 tenner to buy her own Christmas present while she is out doing the shopping. I might wrap it for her.

I can just imagine all you women out there thinking how lucky she is being married to me and wishing it was them.

That is why I'm The Special One and Perfect aswell.

2007-12-23 23:32:10 · 12 answers · asked by The Special One 3

I was just wondering if anyone else is so ticklish that just the lightest touch of almost ANYTHING soft tickles like crazy?

Here is me (and this is the honest to God truth!). You know how all humans lose some hairs from their head each day that are dead & meant to come out (hence the reason they are called loose hairs)? Well, every time I'm washing my hair in the shower & I lose a few loose hairs, as I have my arms stretched up above my head as I'm washing my hair, some of my loose hairs stick to the sides of my body & although it's not enough to send me into a fit or anything, it still tickles like crazy & I can't help giggling. I have to hurry up & spray them off, LOL! Also, sometimes when I'm relaxing in a nice, warm bubble bath, some air bubbles that got trapped under my back when I lay down stroke up my sides & up my spine as they come to the surface. It really tickles & again, I can't help jumping at the lightest touch. My friends tease me about it all the time, LOL!

2007-12-23 22:15:45 · 5 answers · asked by highland_white_wolf 2

My boyfriend and I usually have a great time together, but sometimes I will get upset at things. I will get angry if he ask a question... and it is not him it is other people to. If he ask a question, no matter what it is, sometimes I will get really angry and yell an answer and sometimes I wont.

I don't know why I am so angry for no reason. It happens pretty often with my boyfriend and also other people. I was really rude to this one lady at this resturant for no reason, but then later in the day I was just fine and not yelling.

Does anyone know why this would be?

2007-12-23 22:08:04 · 1 answers · asked by Follow-the-narrow-gate 3

family. We spent $20-35 on each kid. There was only one person to buy for in my family and he made me feel guilty for wanting to spend $50. I was wrapping them and I ran out of tape. He went out to get the tape and brought back double-sided (I guess he wasn't paying attention) tape. I said, "Oh, no! This is double-sided. Come look. What should I do?" He says I had a "bad tone" to my voice when I said it. So, we ended up in an arguement. I don't want to go see his family anyway. We agreed to only buy gifts for the kids and he bought his mother's bf a $50 lamp (???). He says he owes his man because 5 years ago, he helped him with his roof after a bad storm and he's better to him than his own dad. His dad IS pretty sorry, but I don't think you have to "owe" someone for forever and the guy is shady. Anyway, I don't want to go to his family's house for Christmas, so I told him to go alone. It is a long drive. Should I go even though I said I'm not?

2007-12-23 21:03:32 · 3 answers · asked by When are you going to learn? 3

was either

a) a very nice, sweet person but became a very rude, nasty person

OR

b) a very bitter, mean, unfriendly person who became a sweet, nice person

What's your story with that person? Was it for no reason or from a traumatic event?

2007-12-23 20:18:01 · 5 answers · asked by Dusk 6

2007-12-23 18:39:49 · 14 answers · asked by Buzz 2

If you had to leave your significant other to go on a 2 week long business endeavor and you came back to a "new" man or woman, how would you feel? My SO will be back on Wednesday (yeah, he is missing Christmas :-( ). I quit smoking about a month ago, and since then I have started working out and taking yoga classes. I have started feeling better about myself, so in turn I walk taller and hold myself up better. I also have actually started wearing foundation and pretty makeup (which, after a year and a half of dating, my SO has only since on me once). I have been taking care of myself and I feel GREAT. How do you think he will react? We are in early twenties. Will he be happy and instantly want me (LOL I hope!), or will he think I am trying to impress somebody else and not him and get suspicious? Just curious.

2007-12-23 18:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by Wondering 3

I'm tired of people think they can take advantage of me (and succeeding), I'm tired of giving people 3rd, 4th, 5th chances only to have them hurt me over and over again.

I always try to see the best in people and I get burned for it.

Is it possible to toughen up without becoming a cow? Every time I try it, and I finally do the right thing and tell someone I've had enough of the way they treat me, I feel horrible and I get told I'm a nasty person.

How does one find a happy medium?

2007-12-23 18:30:48 · 7 answers · asked by . 6

We text an stuff sometimes an were kinda matez!!

2007-12-23 17:15:58 · 186 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has suffered some severe emotional abuse from me, at first things were great but then after about a year of us being together I started having extreme mental health and emotional issues like rage and depression and I'm so messed up on the inside, and because of me my guy has be drug down low. (I'm not making an excuse, I'm just explaining how I am). There have been some messed up things that have happened in the past. Things aren't even half as bad right now as they were like a year ago, and I know he's an adult and he chose to stay but I but now he is so messed up because of me and I just never owned up to getting myself to change until these past couple of months. I don't deserve him, I hurt him so much. I just want to know if it's possible to save a relationship after so much damage, because we both love eachother very much, he's so messed up about it beacuse he wants to be with me but not how it is while I'm in this messed up state hurting him all the time

2007-12-23 17:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by Southern Girl 4

2007-12-23 17:05:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 16:13:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Holy craptola. I laughed and explained it was for "old" married people who loved each other, and she responds "I'm old, and I love you!!" ugh.

2007-12-23 16:06:28 · 19 answers · asked by Guinness 5

okay i know this question may be weird. why women or girl must cook, tidy home or do some work at home? and what if women or girl can't do that?? and last question why women must make-up????

2007-12-23 15:54:46 · 8 answers · asked by sweetgurlz 1

he was my best friend of three years.
i broke his heart.
he broke mine.
we grew apart so fast.
so it's been months since we've personally talked after being nearly inseperable for so long. i never knew how much i relied on him, how much i actually need him.
for the past three months he has been in the back of my mind every minute of every day. it's been complete hell. i ache in places i had no idea i had.
i feel pathetic because it seems like he is doing fine. he has a girl friend now, and i want to let him go, but at the same time i'm scared.
i told him i was in love with him a month or two ago, he said he didn't feel the same. but then he told my friend that the after math of saying that was horrible (whatever that means.)
but there's this nagging feeling inside me that this isn't the end.
i have no idea what to do. i really just want it all to end.
he loved me so much, how can that just end?

2007-12-23 15:48:08 · 1 answers · asked by Sara 2

I'm 16 and I found out today that my mom has told a lot of people about all of the "trouble" I'm causing her! But I''m not really doing anything wrong. She told them that me and boyfriend were having sex, which we are, but that isn't anyone's business since it's my relationship and not there's. We were at a Christmas party today and a lot of her friends ganged up on me telling me I should stop having sex or I'll end up pregnant. And some of them are telling me that my mom doesn't want to be a grandmother so I should stop seeing my boyfriend for her sake! They have some nerve saying that to me! And I can't believe she would even tell her stupid friends that. The only reason I told her is because when she asked I looked guilty and that told her everything. It seems like she would take me to get birth control now instead of having her friends gang up on me. What is her problem anyway?

2007-12-23 15:47:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 14:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by amber g 1

In advance I THANK YOU!
My friends And I were talking and decided to take this conversation to the people.
Express your thoughts on this please, You'll say that;
A good leader leads by
Example or
Truth?
I believe you can help me and my friends bring this issue to the light.

2007-12-23 14:00:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend of 40 years severed our friendship in a Christmas card, we live in different states and were casually writing, well her letter was quite nasty saying what an awful friend I was and it hurt my feelings, but I did not respond, although I wanted to say something mean and nasty, I just ignored it. Now that it is Christmas again, the hurt feelings are back and I want to send her a nasty note. I guess i'm venting, but what do you think I should do? Just forget her forever? I know I should be over it and honestly I haven't thought about it for months.

2007-12-23 13:50:14 · 23 answers · asked by snowwillow20 7

I am going insane over here......I often hear people say that you cannot really love someone unless you trust them. I beg to differ. I love my boyfriend to DEATH. I would do absolutely anything for him and I REALLY want to be with him. But I DON'T trust him. Here's Why: We broke up a couple of months ago and he immediately began messing around with his ex. It bothered me because I felt he didn't even give us anytime to be apart first. Well. A month or two passed and he tried to get back with me, implying that his ex was just a "rebound" because he had so much on his mind and blah blah blah.....anyway. I forgave him for acting so nonchalant and being a total and complete asshole about everything and making all those stupid choices...but I cannot forget. Today is his birthday and when I called he didn't answer. he called back after 2 hours (very unusual) and told me he fell asleep after one of his guy friends bought him out to eat and to the mall.. I Do Not believe him.


He has definitely been letting his actions speak for him and his intentions seem to be good, but I just can't trust him no matter how hard I try........has anyone ever had to regain their trust with you and if so, how long did it take and how did you shake those feelings of resentment?

2007-12-23 13:48:59 · 45 answers · asked by Tnisha 1

If you know what I mean???

2007-12-23 12:45:27 · 14 answers · asked by <3 my nut brown maiden 1

one of my sons, left in 1992 in an accident, and I am still sufering an cring, I dont now whaT CAN I DO

2007-12-23 12:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by eluna46 1

2007-12-23 12:16:23 · 2 answers · asked by leah 1

My teacher gives me alot of special attention. when we got our current events back i got a 100 and this other girl got 50 and she called her up and said why did you get 50 dont you see annie always gets 100. and then people started talking and she was like i'm gonna give all you homework except for annie. and the kids say how do you know annie wasnt talking and she says i was talking about annie and when i talk about her i look at her. this person has called my house, written me notes, given hugs, and much more "attention." the teacher asked me who i liked. what do u think is going on?

2007-12-23 12:07:36 · 7 answers · asked by 3 Months 2 Live 2

ok theres this quote that i saw on a myspace thing and now i can find it.........the quote goes something like i dont walk in front of you.......i forgot the rest but then end goes.....i walk behind you just to look at your sexy ***......i dont remember it but will someone please help me find it!!!

2007-12-23 12:05:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

So this post is a bit lengthy, but I hope you will read it and give me some feedback.

So I have one friend, perhaps my closest, who also happens to be my neighbor. Then there is this other friend who came from NY and is staying here for the month.

Last Thursday I was hanging out with them and I asked this girl who was having a party if we could come, but she made up some reasonable excuse. My friends tried getting in even though I told them it's not cool because I know them and it's going to make me look bad.

On Friday night we all went on a walk and NY guy comes up with the idea of hooking up with my sisters' friends (we are 19, they are 16. Her friends were staying over our house). I told him that it's petaphilic and that he has mental problems. At this point, I thought he was kidding. However, when we got close to my house they both tried to go through the gate that leads to the backhouse, which was where my sister and her friends were staying.

2007-12-23 11:49:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 11:43:21 · 4 answers · asked by unsolo 1

I think violence is a sign of stupidity, cause it just proves you have nothing left to say.

Agreed? or no?

2007-12-23 11:39:40 · 3 answers · asked by adilicious 4

2007-12-23 11:22:04 · 7 answers · asked by clever girl 4

I have the weirdest problem imaginable. My LOVE for my boyfriend (I LOVE him like crazy!!!) prevents me from getting excited sexually. When he is just close to me, caresses me in sexual way, I get sooooo overwhelmed by my feelings and emotions that I cannot respond by arousal. I just scream how much I love him (which he doesn't find to be a turn on), and how much I want him to be happy, healthy and so on. I feel love in my lungs (like they are so full),and I don't feel any arousal in the lower parts of my body. We are together for 6 years. My history is that my best sex always was with men I didn't love at all (one night stands and short affairs). It started with my bf same way, untill I fell in love. What do I do? Is there any way to connect love and desire ???

2007-12-23 09:23:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous